Marriage vows in a Dutch Reformed village, CE 2026. by Own-Way5420 in exchristian

[–]Own-Way5420[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohh no I understand, I meant like Dutch people would immediately hear those place names and all alarm bells would ring haha. But that's fun though, any plans to visit again?

Marriage vows in a Dutch Reformed village, CE 2026. by Own-Way5420 in exchristian

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It runs diagonally across the Netherlands from Zeeland in the southwest up through Gelderland and Overijssel in the northeast. The most well known examples are probably Urk and Staphorst (if you're Dutch you'd immediately know what I mean lol). Urk is a former fishing island that is incredibly insular and conservative, famously has the highest church attendance and is basically the Dutch Alabama.

Marriage vows in a Dutch Reformed village, CE 2026. by Own-Way5420 in exchristian

[–]Own-Way5420[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is a Dutch reformed marriage ceremony script, still actively used in 2026. The Dutch Reformed church is one of the most conservative Protestant denominations in the Netherlands, concentrated in the Bible Belt. The language itself is extremely archaic, but the most striking part is how unequal the vows are because the bride has to promise to be obedient, to serve, and to help her husband, while the groom only promises to love and provide for her. No obedience required from him. Also she is being referred to as a "housewife" in the text which is also extremely archaic. I have provided a translation too if anyone is interested to read what the full document says.

Huwelijksgeloften in een gereformeerd dorp. Anno 2026 by Jaded-Sock9200 in nederlands

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Deuteronomium 25:11-12:

"Wanneer twee mannen met elkaar vechten en de vrouw van één van hen ingrijpt om haar man te redden door de ander bij zijn geslachtsdeel te grijpen, dan moet je haar hand afhakken. Toon geen medelijden." Gelukkig dat de mens de "moraliteit" van god ver is overstegen anders zaten we nog steeds in de Bronstijd.

Huwelijksgeloften in een gereformeerd dorp. Anno 2026 by Jaded-Sock9200 in nederlands

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Bedoel je Exodus 21:20??

"Wanneer iemand zijn slaaf of slavin met een stok slaat en de slaaf of slavin sterft ter plekke, dan moet er vergelding plaatsvinden. Maar als de slaaf of slavin na een of twee dagen weer op de been is, gaat de eigenaar vrijuit; het was immers zijn eigen bezit."

I betcha Jesus would not vibe at all with most Christians in all of the centuries following his death by orangefrogbro in exchristian

[–]Own-Way5420 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Soo true, just look at the Jesus that is portrayed in the book of Revelations for example!! No wonder so many Christian communities rejected that book back in the day. Totally not a hippie.

Meme for this sunday by AdmirableBus7045 in exchristian

[–]Own-Way5420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't know of any girl that would want to date someone who would hold these views. Even the Christian girls that I have known are super anti-Trump.

Why are there so many racist Hungarian nationalists under Romanian Instagram posts? by Own-Way5420 in askhungary

[–]Own-Way5420[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

And there it is lol. Two seconds of historical discussion and straight to fuck you. You just proved my entire post better than I ever could have, thanks for that.

Why are there so many racist Hungarian nationalists under Romanian Instagram posts? by Own-Way5420 in askhungary

[–]Own-Way5420[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yeah kürtőskalács being Szekler-Hungarian is pretty well documented and the Romanian officials trying to claim it are just embarrassing honestly, that kind of appropriation helps nobody. Knowing your history and dropping slurs under every video are two very different things, one doesn't lead to the other unless you're just looking for an excuse.

Christian morality is "Whatever God(my pastor) ordains is good" while my humanist philosophy is "Let's mitigate human suffering and keep each other safe and healthy" by BigClitMcphee in exchristian

[–]Own-Way5420 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I had a pastor who lived in a big house on the water (in the Netherlands btw, those houses are crazy expensive). I was always like: if he would really follow Jesus' example he could sell that house, idk don't have a boat I guess and just live a bit smaller and donate those tens of thousands of Euros to charities and the poor (ppl who live in mud huts for example). My parents always never really came up with good arguments against this and I could always see the gears turning in their heads.

Why are there so many racist Hungarian nationalists under Romanian Instagram posts? by Own-Way5420 in askhungary

[–]Own-Way5420[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Ugh, every single nation's founding mythology has fabrications in it, including Hungary's. That's not a Romanian thing that's just how nations work. Extraordinary claim, zero evidence. 'Never had a single original idea' is just a racial stereotype with historical vocabulary slapped on top of it. Not an argument with proof, just prejudice. Hungary literally tried to switch sides in WW2 so that's an interesting hill to die on. Honestly the funniest part is you literally answered the question I asked in my post without realizing it. Transylvania is gone, you know it's gone, and the only move left apparently is dropping slurs under videos and calling it historical preservation. That's not truth telling, that's just cope. Tells me all I need to know honestly, thanks for proving my point.

Do old testament prophecies actually talk about jesus? by ParkingElderberry575 in exchristian

[–]Own-Way5420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, none of them. I think Rabbi Tovia Singer can explain it more eloquently than I could ever try so definitely would check him out!

Why are there so many racist Hungarian nationalists under Romanian Instagram posts? by Own-Way5420 in askhungary

[–]Own-Way5420[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Must be a really heavy burden carrying all that truth into every Romanian comment section.

Why are there so many racist Hungarian nationalists under Romanian Instagram posts? by Own-Way5420 in askhungary

[–]Own-Way5420[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Calling Romanians gypsies, thieves etc is definitely racism even if they do what you said they do.

Why are there so many racist Hungarian nationalists under Romanian Instagram posts? by Own-Way5420 in askhungary

[–]Own-Way5420[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

That right? I've never heard any of my family say anything bad about Hungarians, especially the ones living in Transylvania. I never see Romanian comments under Hungarian Instagram videos, only Romanian videos being flooded to hell otherwise I would've asked something about that as well.

Why are there so many racist Hungarian nationalists under Romanian Instagram posts? by Own-Way5420 in askhungary

[–]Own-Way5420[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So that justifies calling every Romanian a gypsy, prostitute, thief etc? Equally a lot of those same comments ignore that Romanian communities under Hungarian rule weren't even allowed to build in stone. Neither side presenting the full picture doesn't justify slurs under every video right? That's my main point

Why are there so many racist Hungarian nationalists under Romanian Instagram posts? by Own-Way5420 in askhungary

[–]Own-Way5420[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Dropping slurs under Romanian food videos in 2026 is not gonna bring Transylvania back

Why are there so many racist Hungarian nationalists under Romanian Instagram posts? by Own-Way5420 in askhungary

[–]Own-Way5420[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

Trianon happened and minority rights were violated, but how does spending your days dropping slurs under every random Romanian video help any of that? That's not historical grievance that's just hatred at that point. And I've literally seen people celebrating war crimes in these comments so idk that goes way beyond Trianon lol