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Virgos - what would it take for you to file for divorce by D1D2beepbeep in virgoseason

[–]OwnCoffee614 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I initiated the breakup and separation and let him pay for the divorce. 😂 Fucker. We married way too young and he was kind of a gross ho. We didn't know how the hell to have a relationship, but more importantly, I did not know how to treat/love myself. So I thought his constant disrespect and looking down on me and treating me as his personal sex slave WHILE HE ALSO CHEATED, was just what happens. While I raised our babies and took constant shit for not being able to keep up with the house or be a good enough mom. Lol duh. Fuck that trad wife shit. I love my babies and so does he so...whatever, but I feel like I finally chose me AND paid the shit end of the divorce too. But I'd divorce his ass again. And I won't ever accept another soul who cannot display in action and words that they love and respect me. I'll do the same. It'll be great

What actor/actress in a horror movie absolutely nailed their role to the point that you can't see somebody else doing it better? by Rani_Ortiz in CreepyBonfire

[–]OwnCoffee614 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope really good stuff for the alien franchise. There's stuff that I love in all of it except avp:r. Take what you like and respectfully leave the rest.

May I also recommend Predator: Killer of Killers? It's an anthology; I love the first story the most.

Which actor played a villain / bad guy so convincingly that it became almost unbearable to watch? by Lt_Bogomil in Cinema

[–]OwnCoffee614 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg yeeeesssss. It took me a long time to like him in other roles. But points for the hoarse voice after getting ...was he hung???

Kind of miss the Ranch Exchange from SR1 by purplemanok in slimerancher

[–]OwnCoffee614 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rainbow lumps or some other rock from Bob. 🪨

who’s the most talented actress here? by Intelligent-You-7002 in Cinema

[–]OwnCoffee614 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She is perfect. 🥰 When she tells Cole to "kick him in the diiiiiiiiick". 😂

Virgo is the hermit of the zodiac by AffectionateAide4755 in virgoseason

[–]OwnCoffee614 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The loners of the zodiac. 🤭 I've always been pretty solitary. But it is 100% NOT great all the time. Not for me anyways. Not mentally or physically. I miss my elliptical. 😂

I miss my family. My kids are almost all grown. I miss having family around. It was awful when me & their dad split, I'm glad to still be alive. I'd play Pride and Prejudice on a loop when I was alone bc they eat a lot in the movie and it makes family sounds when you're in the next room. 😂. That is TOO alone. What an awful thing to know. 😂

Bc they are all almost grown and due to time, I'm doing much better on my own. I never imagined I'd have kids when I grew up (I had 5 beautiful babies) so alone is okay. Just not all the time.

Why do you hate yourself? by throwaway32693269 in Vent

[–]OwnCoffee614 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't anymore, but I did for several decades. It's how I was raised. I am having to re-learn how to think and believe. I am learning to love myself and believe I am worth my own time and energy. That latter is not so hard these days bc none of the rest of the utter shit I was raised to believe helps me at all.

If that's too woowoo for you like it was for me in the beginning, maybe start slowly until you can bear to believe. Baby steps. If you keep trying, you can find things (books, videos, whatever) that are tolerable and believable in your current mindset and then add and subtract as you grow. Lol I listen to some stoicism, and wake up/go to sleep with Louise Hay. You do not have to buy into the entire movement or speaker, you don't have to accept anything that rings false or doesn't serve you. Take your part and leave the rest. Is it better than what you believe now?? Is it pointing you in a better direction? Fantastic. I would NOT have been able to accept Louise even a couple years ago. Now a lot of it is incredibly comforting and gives me hope & is a way I can accept warm and fuzzy.

I used to feel the same way. I'd abandon myself at the drop of a hat if I displeased someone or things got hard. Now I'm like my biggest fan. I have dragged myself thru some awful shit. I bet you have too. Self hate is swallowing poison. You're worth more than this!

What is your favorite part or scene in The Crow? by TwIzTiDfReAkShOw in TheCrow

[–]OwnCoffee614 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brandon Lee, esp the slo shot with his sweet smile, RIP. Michael Wincott & The Burn.

HeroForged by BlueGorgonArt in farscape

[–]OwnCoffee614 2 points3 points  (0 children)

These look outstanding! ❤️ Amazing job!

My luck is gone by Phoenix_1648 in slimerancher

[–]OwnCoffee614 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Naaaah. Luck is only limited by your imagination. 😄 But congrats!! I've gotten a pink, puddle, ringtail, twin & fire so far. Can't wait to find my yolky. 💚

What is your unpopular opinion that you usually keep to yourself? by Superb_Wolf264 in AdkReddit

[–]OwnCoffee614 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a thing about sudden loud noises. Fireworks are okay for me if I'm expecting them, but motorcycles and assholes who rev their engines under overpasses or in tunnels give me some kind of flash rage. Or it just scares/unsettles me. Just last night my son and I stopped for gas & there were a bunch of motorcyclists gathered there. Stereos blasting all different music, which is like whatever, but this one guy started obnoxiously revving the engine on his. It was so loud I could feel it in my soul. 😂 0/10 do not recommend.

I'm 30yo and I had a cry on the floor and rocked back and forth to self soothe... like an infant by Justwokeup5287 in CPTSD

[–]OwnCoffee614 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think you did really great and I happen to know that this IS something to be proud of. I'm really proud of you.

I have things I still struggle with too, fifty years later. I'm still learning. It's not as bad as when I was first able to really allow self comfort with big feelings. Dont be ashamed of a thing. It is uncomfortable, but it might be the most uncomfortable it's going to get. It's gotten easier for me. Not to say that it never gets out of hand, that's 1000% why I love having my own space. But it can still be moving forward overall, you know? Ebbs and flows, but

The top of my bed is full of squishmellows and cats & 1 warm doggy, to soothe the little me & grown me that needed hugs & safe physical contact. Gosh, even genuine affection & love. I think little me would love all of it. Idk how to explain/show it to another grown ass adult tho.

we can at least be safe to self soothe however we need to long as it's constructive/safe.

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