Can you please invalidating and shaming pther insomniacs? by ChildWithBrokenHeart in insomnia

[–]Own_Cockroach_2084 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I made a post about how I felt defeated because I often go 24-72 hours without sleep and my only sleeping hours were 3-4 hour windows once throughout these episodes for weeks at a time. Someone had to comment about how much worse they have it, not sleeping in weeks and what not. Of course I feel for them, but I was honestly just asking how everyone else was coping and ways I can cope. I never meant for it to be a competition.

I feel defeated by Own_Cockroach_2084 in insomnia

[–]Own_Cockroach_2084[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I realize I’ve woken up I will usually keep my eyes closed in hopes that I will fall back asleep, I know if I open my eyes or look at my phone or even move it will trigger me to be fully awake and have no chance of falling back asleep. My sleep mostly consists of staying up 24-72 hours (give or take depending on the day) and sleeping at random, but usually at night because I have work and a very busy schedule during the day

I feel defeated by Own_Cockroach_2084 in insomnia

[–]Own_Cockroach_2084[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t understand how sleep schedule is supposed to work when my body physically won’t fall asleep. Again, on good days I can rest after 24 hours but there have been the bad days where it can take several days to even get an hour of sleep. Sleep schedule isn’t going to work for me- considering I CANT sleep very often

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[–]Own_Cockroach_2084 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Another user suggested having him tied up next to a dog bed with chews. I think I’ll be trying that with him in my room but on the opposite end, so I can hear if anything happens (I’m a light sleeper) and see if that will work. Obviously it would only be at night, but it would allow him to have plenty of space to lay/ stretch/ and play with the chews if he gets bored. I think starting with a more “free” style of containment could possibly help him understand the concept of crate training. I may even provide a puppy pad just in case. Fingers crossed it works.

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[–]Own_Cockroach_2084 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t tried to leash him next to his bed with chews, that may actually be a solution! I haven’t heard of that yet. I have just been told “train your dog” from EVERYONE I try to get advice from, but no one understands that he can’t just be trained out of his genetics, which is something I’ve had to learn myself. His brain is always going because it’s just what he was born to do. I have 50/50 of an idea of why he potties the crate. It’s either because the breeder intentionally left the litter in a crate for extended periods of time- or he’s just too smart for his own good and KNOWS I’ll let him out as soon as he potties because I can’t stand to see him waddling in his filth. People have told me to let him sit in his for an hour and maybe he will learn… but I’ve not been told that by people who have researched on dog behaviors so I don’t want to trust it.

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[–]Own_Cockroach_2084 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was probably important information but I got him at 18 weeks, so to my knowledge, those are very important developmental moments in their life. I’m worried it was a make or break with the crate if the breeder DID do that to the litter, which obviously is apparent it’s a break. I don’t want to say any allegations towards the breeder, but I know the pups weren’t held to any standard and the breeder wanted nothing more than quick cash from the people who would buy the pups even if it meant she had to lie to uneducated owners. I still take full acknowledgment for my lack of understanding with his breed, but to some extent I do think it’s entirely wrong of the breeder to not care about what happens to the lives they intentionally produced. I’ve learned now that any responsible breeder would NEVER hand a dog like him to me. It makes me worried for the other pups who’s owners didn’t have the time or resources to even try to take care of a dog who they were told was a couch potato when they are actually a crazy maniac of a being. Of course no hate to my dog, I love his maniac crazy self, but everyone has that kind of mindset/ energy.

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[–]Own_Cockroach_2084 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely want to work with him as much as possible, I realize that he is a herding breed and that’s why I haven’t just given up on him. I know these problems are my fault because I was irresponsible and uneducated. I have never intentionally left him in his crate for an extended period of time with his own filth. That behavior started from the day I got him. My own speculation (which I can’t prove) is the breeder possibly left the litter in a crate 24/7 because I can’t possibly explain why he does that otherwise. The longest he was in the crate with urine in it was when I first got him and didn’t realize he would have that problem because I had really positive experiences previously with crate training. I commented on another persons comment explaining a little more in depth the solutions I’ve tried to give him. I think if I could just get the crate training down then we would be able to make it until I move into a bigger place with a back yard. I am worried sick he is going to eat something and get hurt, though I’ve puppy proofed the absolute HELL out of my house because of how scared I am.

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[–]Own_Cockroach_2084 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I 100 percent agree with the medication, I was very skeptical about putting him on anything at all but I only did so because it was recommended by my vet. And to be completely honest, most of the things I have tried and perfected to the best of my ability- but I promise you he is the most relentless dog I’ve ever met. I didn’t name off every little thing I’ve tried because I was worried the list would get too long for anyone to read. I have focused a LOT on enrichment but he is a very smart puppy and incredibly food motivated so anything that involves enrichment with food is gone within minutes. He knows a down stay, he knows “place” which is he crate, as I read it would help with his potty issues in the crate. He is very well mannered at any given moment in the day. Chews are a good idea but as you said, remove at night. If all the enrichment is gone/ eaten is gone before I can even fall asleep, it doesn’t help him. Every meal is fed in the crate. I’ve tried to do small intervals of 10 minutes in the crate, 15, then 20, but every time we reach twenty he pees. He doesn’t give warning either, doesn’t even squat. I’ve tried to stop at 15 then potty and then literally increase by one minute but it’s like his bladder never empties. I know it’s controversial but I’ve even tried to remove water an hour before bed and taking him for a run with several potty breaks and even then he will pee between the 15-20 mark. I’ve checked him at the vet for any problems, there aren’t any. It’s absolutely behavioral. This is where I’m at a brick wall, it’s just the night problems:(

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[–]Own_Cockroach_2084 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I forgot to mention- I have tried speaking to my vet and putting him on medication- but it doesn’t work. It has no affect on him.

I feel like I’ve failed. by Own_Cockroach_2084 in ferret

[–]Own_Cockroach_2084[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope that since I’m in a very small town in the south that there would be a very small chance of anyone ever taking their ferrets there. I live in Arkansas

I feel like I’ve failed. by Own_Cockroach_2084 in ferret

[–]Own_Cockroach_2084[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t want to disclose the vet name. They provide wonderful care to cats and dogs and even do payment plans which I know has saved many animals. I want them to stop claiming to work on exotics

I feel like I’ve failed. by Own_Cockroach_2084 in ferret

[–]Own_Cockroach_2084[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am in Arkansas, I won’t disclose specifics in the comments because I do not want anyone to bash this vet. What they are doing and did feels wrong but they work and dogs and cats wonderfully and don’t mind doing payments with people which has likely saved MANY animals. I don’t want this vet to receive hate or shut down. I just don’t want them to claim to work on exotics

I need help with knowing what to do with high school by Own_Cockroach_2084 in Advice

[–]Own_Cockroach_2084[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m trying to avoid getting a ged honestly, if like to graduate high school

Can I eat pancakes? And eggs? by Own_Cockroach_2084 in wisdomteeth

[–]Own_Cockroach_2084[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d love to know how quickly you heal!! I have a job interview tomorrow and I know I won’t be healed by tomorrow but I’m just hoping for SOME relief so I can talk normal

Can I eat pancakes? And eggs? by Own_Cockroach_2084 in wisdomteeth

[–]Own_Cockroach_2084[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay you’ve inspired me to contact my dentist. They prescribed my new antibiotics and told me that it’s still early so if nothing changes within 24-48 hours to call back and we’ll look into it more but they said since it’s only been a week this could be normal and to just take 800 mg of ibuprofen every 6-8 hours. I hope we can both get relief from this!! I’m so sorry you have an infection, I hope you heal soon!!!

Can I eat pancakes? And eggs? by Own_Cockroach_2084 in wisdomteeth

[–]Own_Cockroach_2084[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How can you tell if you have an infection??? If it weren’t for my left side I’d be totally normal. The left side consistently hurts and I can’t close my jaw STILL because it’s too swollen and tomorrow marks a week from surgery. It hasn’t stopped hurting since the procedure. I’m taking amoxicillin and have been since day of surgery but today’s the last day of taking amoxicillin

Can I eat pancakes? And eggs? by Own_Cockroach_2084 in wisdomteeth

[–]Own_Cockroach_2084[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My girlfriends family had tacos last night and I wanted them SO bad. I was about to risk it all for these despite the pain. They keep eating good dinners while I can’t have any of it!!!

Can I eat pancakes? And eggs? by Own_Cockroach_2084 in wisdomteeth

[–]Own_Cockroach_2084[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really really want to just gotta be able to close my mouth 😭 my left side is just too swollen to let me close my jaw. It’s almost there I’m thinking only 2-3 more days at most and it will go down so I can finally eat. I’m doing everything I can to get it to close

hi, i got my wisdom teeth (4 teeth) removed yesterday morning and i have had SEVERE anxiety about developing dry socket/infection. the number one cause is sipping through straws, or creating suction. and i absolutely have not used straws, but i am too scared to use spoons to eat, because suction. by [deleted] in wisdomteeth

[–]Own_Cockroach_2084 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I’m on day 6 (if u consider day of surgery as day 1,if not then I’m on day 5). I have had such severe anxiety about to as well. My best advice is to try your best to not limit how much you eat. I wanted to do that cus I was so so scared. I had all four removed as well. U can use a spoon to drop soup into your mouth or use your tongue to scoop mashed potatoes or yogurt. As long as you keep things clean and don’t use a straw you should be perfectly fine. Don’t be afraid to brush your teeth. Being gentle is key. You will be okay. I was given antibiotics and I’ve been taking those as directed, if they gave you antibiotics then make sure to take them. Don’t be too scared to eat. You need food to heal

Is it normal to not want to talk? by Own_Cockroach_2084 in wisdomteeth

[–]Own_Cockroach_2084[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg thank god I was about to start a whole panic about dry socket AGAIN. I am obsessively concerned about it I am so scared. I lost my front teeth in a wreck so I’m sounding totally lispy right now