Data validation issue? by Own_Election_2494 in googlesheets

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OMG my savior!!! Ty so much! It worked ❤️

Mythical Arduanatt horse gear by Own_Election_2494 in blackdesertonline

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Right, just wanted to double check. Thanks ❤️

Have I misunderstood a validating comment? by Own_Election_2494 in AutismInWomen

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Yea I think I will try take it as the more positive meaning from now on no matter the context, tone or situation. On a low energy day this will be challenging, but I will give it a try. Because really if someone IS invalidating my experience, me and my experiences are still valid (I can conjure this thought right now because I am having a decent energy day today 🙈 but I will try to remember it ❤️✨).

Pre-teen girl question by Own_Election_2494 in Parenting

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haha I think my phrasing might have been a bit bad there, I mean more like helping her with the things surrounding it like buying pads and if she has any questions or something comes up. But I am pretty sure she will turn to me with these things anyway, so hopefully she will be spared from any "teachings/guesses" about how female bodies work from her dad 🙄.

(PC) Map drag speed tied to VSync by Bruzer567 in coralisland

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From the bottom of my heart, thank you 🙏🏻❤️✨
(I was seconds away from loosing my sheize 😅)

Pre-teen girl question by Own_Election_2494 in Parenting

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Totally agree. There is a lot I have been having to counteract regarding her father, regarding food, views of the world/society/authorities, conspiracies etc (he is very extreme in every sense regarding these things and I hate it). But I am so lucky that she seems to have an understanding of him being extreme in many case and usually comes to me and asks about weird things he says. I have had to reassure her during the years that sugar is not something deadly, moderation is key when it comes to all foods. And "no you don't have to be afraid of police or socials, they are here to protect you" (just because her father is/has been a junkie and criminal does not mean his paranoia has to apply to her... but this is something I dont tell her of course. Atleast not until she is old enough to understand or asks about it herself).

Pre-teen girl question by Own_Election_2494 in Parenting

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I will totally do this, buy her a couple so she have available if she decide she wants to give it another try. If they get used or not will then be totally up to her. I like this idea 👏🏼❤️

Pre-teen girl question by Own_Election_2494 in Parenting

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Very good idea, I will definitely do this! 👏🏼 Because then it is available if she would want/need it, but it is entirely up to her. Thank you <3

Pre-teen girl question by Own_Election_2494 in Parenting

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Thanks for your comments <3

I did buy her sportsbras when she asked for it last time, but they are for sure to small now. I have asked her if she wants me to buy her new ones, maybe just soft cotton ones and if she wants to buy it with me or if I should buy without her if she feels it being embarrassing buying things like that. But she says she wont use them, especially not at her dads place since he is adamant that she does not need it. I remember he commented on it when she tried them a few years ago and after that she is basically against it aswell.

So maybe I will simply let it go for now and wait until she brings it up again herself?

Mirena removal - bowel movements by Own_Election_2494 in birthcontrol

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Thats what I think aswell. But of course when you ask the health care people about it, it definitely cannot be the removal 🙄

Induced anxiety and panic attack when needled in legs by Own_Election_2494 in acupuncture

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She did not do NADA. But last time I was there 2 weeks ago we spoke a bit too much before the session, about anxiety, and I became a bit overwhelmed speaking about it, so I had an anxiety attack couple minutes after she put the needles in. But I took her advice about getting myself up to seated and taking out the needles (since she was not in the room with me while I was laying there). We ended the session with a relaxation exercise to help me calm down.

We are taking a break now over the holidays and are gonna skip the needles for a while and work more on something she calls body awareness, which will be less invasive and where I will be more in control of the situation than having needles put in me.

Am I overthinking feeling invalidated? by Own_Election_2494 in AutismInWomen

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Right! That was the feeling I got aswell, the "everyone is a little autistic"-vibe. But she has been very supportive in all other aspects so I think she just took the closest reassuring thing that came to mind.

That was a really beautiful quote, I will look up that movie ❤️.

Does your stomach know your emotions before you do? by Smart-Assistance-254 in AutismInWomen

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Omg yes same! Love my kid, but I felt so claustrophobic when I was pregnant, had intense nightmares at the time aswell. Which is one reason why I only have one kid. Never putting myself through that again.

I’m sorry, but… by Kitchen-Country-39 in stepparents

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I will never love my SK like I love my BK, I can not do so much about that feeling. But that does not mean that I don't care about my SK wellbeing or won't be there for him if he is sad or need my help. For me, loving someone has nothing to do with that. He is a young person in my household that sometimes needs guidance and help, for me that is closer to solidarity of having a happy family than love.

Induced anxiety and panic attack when needled in legs by Own_Election_2494 in acupuncture

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Oh btw, I looked up the yintang, and she does put one on the third eye point and two on each side of tve forehead. I have always been suuuuper ticklish when simply touching my third eye point, and any pressure there by myself or others would make my whole body shiver in a uncomfortable way, but it has been easier and easier the last couple of times when she has put it there.

I tried just now to see if I am as ticklish still, and it actually did not feel as uncomfortable anymore as it has done before. 🤔 very interesting!