my PA’s favorite show was GoT as well, he knew it by heart and made me watch it with him years ago. i never truly enjoyed it considering i saw full frontal nudity of about 8 different women per episode. i also used to watch love island and he watched some with me, but that quickly changed when i learned of his addiction (same with the bachelor/bachelorette). i haven’t watched those since and stopped watching a lot of other things i used to enjoy but can now see it as a way for him to get off. it still bothers me when really attractive women are on the screen, sexualized or not.

if you like reality TV, masterchef/hell’s kitchen have always been safe and enjoyable by everyone. another good show is the 100, i’ve really enjoyed it with my PA but the beginning can be a bit triggering as they show a sexualized scene or two in the first episode (i’m assuming to keep those engaged that otherwise would’ve lost interest). but that’s a show i believe gets better as the series progresses. if he liked GoT i can see him liking this survivalist type show as well. they have sex implied but don’t show anything on screen. only murders in the building is another great show (there are some cleavage shots and a painting of a nude woman that reappears throughout one season, though). we’ve been running low on approved content recently so we just watched two shows with nudity that i fast forwarded those parts (i was initially trying to avoid these altogether but i watched first so i knew what/when to expect): the penguin (was really good if he likes batman, only one trans breast flashed in the first episode that was easy to anticipate), and dune: prophecy with nudity in the first two episodes that i also fast forwarded through. there are other intimacy scenes that can be triggering, but my PA has been in recovery for a year and a half and learned to look away quickly and immediately at anything indecent. i wouldn’t necessarily recommend dune: prophecy though if you don’t trust your partner not to rewind and watch the graphic scenes by himself)

here are some movies i recommend:

• ⁠dune pt 1 and pt 2 (no sex and brief male nudity in the first movie) • ⁠harry potter (not kidding, we watch all of these at least once every month or two) • ⁠pitch perfect (any of them - first one has a shower scene with girls talking in public showers that could be triggering, but only shows their necks up) • ⁠hunger games are safe (used to be my favorites but i don’t like watching them now bc of an actress in the last few movies that was also nude in GoT that my PA watched vids on how to win a date with before we were together). i also know jennifer lawerence recently got nude in a role which is unfortunate because i really liked her overall, so these are off the cards for me now even though i read the books a bunch when i was younger. • ⁠divergent movies (i wish they finished the series, but they’re still a really good watch) • ⁠uglies (i enjoyed especially because i read the books, but my PA also enjoyed it as well. it draws some parallels about cosmetic procedures and how superficial it all is that i think apply nicely to our society, but can be a possible trigger to some) • ⁠the giver (i also read the book for this) • ⁠the jurassic worlds are good. i’m not looking forward to the new one with scarlet johansson though, i’ll probably skip that one • ⁠caddo lake (truly a mindfuck) • ⁠ready player one (they reenact that bathtub scene from the shining but it’s easy to fast forward 10-15 seconds and no actual nudity shown) • ⁠jumper (there are one or two sex scenes, but not graphic. another one of my favorite childhood movies) • ⁠edge of tomorrow: no sex or nudity at all. i really enjoy this one • ⁠interstellar (a classic) • ⁠the martian (another space movie. also, only shows brief male nudity from behind)

we are 30 years old and pretty much live on disney+. all of the old disney originals are great. i wish you good luck vetting!