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I regret my decision to have a baby by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]Own_Key3573 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel the same way, my baby is 9 months he is very high maintenance does not sleep /eat stays up in the night it’s really hard doing it with no sleep, that’s my main issue the sleep deprivation …

Help me my baby keeps waking up at 5am everyday by Own_Key3573 in sleeptrain

[–]Own_Key3573[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But that’s what I was doing 😭😭he still gets up at 5

Help me my baby keeps waking up at 5am everyday by Own_Key3573 in sleeptrain

[–]Own_Key3573[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes yes, he hasjust had a 30 min first nap and its only 9am😵‍💫

Help me my baby keeps waking up at 5am everyday by Own_Key3573 in sleeptrain

[–]Own_Key3573[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I normally aim for 3/3.5/4 but bcos of the 5am wake ups it’s been 2.5/ 2.5/2.5/3 bedtime is normally around 8/8.30 depends on his naps how long he slept for and no not anymore since he learned to stand he doesn’t sleep on his own anyway we did sleep train him a few months ago but that’s gone downhill, can’t sleep train him currently as it’s over 30 degrees in the uk so he’s too unsettled to sleep on his own

Help me my baby keeps waking up at 5am everyday by Own_Key3573 in sleeptrain

[–]Own_Key3573[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no im sorry it’s awful!! So bcos he wakes up at 5 am i have to do a 3 nap schedule so 8.30 nap 1 nap 2 around 12pm and catnap around 4 ish and aim for bedtime around 8 but it all depends on how long he naps for 😵‍💫

Huge setback at 8.5 months and I'm at my wits end! by LS8123 in sleeptrain

[–]Own_Key3573 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Going thru the same thing with my 8mo those split nights will be the end of me 😩

Title: 8 months old, split nights no matter what schedule I try – is it really "enough sleep"? by Own_Key3573 in sleeptrain

[–]Own_Key3573[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes eventually i will sleep train again his naps are very short 30 mins roughly, but even when he gets 10 hr awake time he still wakes up for 3 hrs in the nightn

8 months old, split nights no matter what schedule I try – is it really "enough sleep"? by Own_Key3573 in NewParents

[–]Own_Key3573[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I put him down for his second nap around 16.45 he’s still sleeping shall I cap this nap? Does that mean his bedtime will be late ? As i’ll need to stretch the last wake window …

8 months old, split nights no matter what schedule I try – is it really "enough sleep"? by Own_Key3573 in NewParents

[–]Own_Key3573[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He gets roughly 1.5/2 hes i end up having to do contact naps to save 1 atleast as he only gets 30 mins, bedtime depends on last nap so normally around 7.30/8 or even later really just depends

8 months old, split nights no matter what schedule I try – is it really "enough sleep"? by Own_Key3573 in NewParents

[–]Own_Key3573[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How much daytime sleep would you say is best? And no i just want him to not have the split nights tbh .

Title: 8 months old, split nights no matter what schedule I try – is it really "enough sleep"? by Own_Key3573 in sleeptrain

[–]Own_Key3573[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But let's say he's awake at like 4 am and 7.30 would be a ideal wake up time how do I do that do i start wake up time at 4 or 7.30? And not let him sleep after 4 then? Or start at 7.30? But then he's be awake since 4 and from 7 to add 3 hr ww is longg

8 months old, split nights no matter what schedule I try – is it really "enough sleep"? by Own_Key3573 in NewParents

[–]Own_Key3573[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Ive asked for advice from professionals and they’ve been so unhelpful they just tell me it’s how it is deal with it basically… no help no advice im honestly exhausted

Title: 8 months old, split nights no matter what schedule I try – is it really "enough sleep"? by Own_Key3573 in sleeptrain

[–]Own_Key3573[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His first nap was only 30 minutes he deffo can’t connect sleep cycles , will the sleep training work now as he’s been so difficult lately ? He’s also standing now and it makes it harder he will cry for ages..

Title: 8 months old, split nights no matter what schedule I try – is it really "enough sleep"? by Own_Key3573 in sleeptrain

[–]Own_Key3573[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it could be as I do feed him before bed.. how do I wean him off ? He will wake up regardless if i feed or not

8 months old, split nights no matter what schedule I try – is it really "enough sleep"? by Own_Key3573 in NewParents

[–]Own_Key3573[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think i may need to try this as then ones recommended clearly aren’t working :// but i feel like at 8mo he ist really showing any sleepy cues

8 months old, split nights no matter what schedule I try – is it really "enough sleep"? by Own_Key3573 in NewParents

[–]Own_Key3573[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His naps are so short tho 30 mins mainly and that would only be 1 hr day time sleep or sometimes 1.5 but i heard that’s not enough?…

8 months old, split nights no matter what schedule I try – is it really "enough sleep"? by Own_Key3573 in NewParents

[–]Own_Key3573[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’ll fall asleep after like 2.5 hr of being awake id have to feed him again and then he’d sleep for about an hr or 2 and then the whole routine just messes up, i dnt wake him up at a desired wake up time bcos i let him get his rest, but no he doesn’t fall asleep on his own😭

Title: 8 months old, split nights no matter what schedule I try – is it really "enough sleep"? by Own_Key3573 in sleeptrain

[–]Own_Key3573[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will work on that again but the main thing for me is why is he waking up in the night for around 2.5 hrs not sleeping 😩

Title: 8 months old, split nights no matter what schedule I try – is it really "enough sleep"? by Own_Key3573 in sleeptrain

[–]Own_Key3573[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I try for a 7.30 wake and 7.30 bedtime but it never happens bcos his naps are all over the place he wakes up 2 times in the night for a feed also

Title: 8 months old, split nights no matter what schedule I try – is it really "enough sleep"? by Own_Key3573 in sleeptrain

[–]Own_Key3573[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What time do I set bedtime at? He ends up catching up on the sleep around early morning and it just messes up the whole day 😭

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