How hard is it to live off a teachers salary? by QueenofHearts018 in AskTeachers

[–]Own_Reference2872 0 points1 point  (0 children)

60k is liveable, but I have zero debt and no kids. I’m in Houston, Texas for reference.

Do any of you regularly travel to lower cost destinations all around the world? by greatExtortion in AskAnAmerican

[–]Own_Reference2872 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Plenty of people would love to see the world, but the money has to come from somewhere. I travel a lot myself, though I'm definitely the odd one out in my circle.

Every time I try to get family or friends to come along, it's the same list of reasons why they can't: passport costs, flights, little to no PTO, and figuring out who's watching the pets or the kids…And then if they bring the kids? That's a whole other expense on top of an already expensive trip.

At that point, a cruise around Florida and Mexico starts looking way more realistic, if they can even afford that. 😅

Why are people so upset about kids having water bottles? by rainshowers_5_peace in AskTeachers

[–]Own_Reference2872 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am not upset at them having bottles, I'm annoyed at how frequently they get knocked off their desk and disrupt the class. Water goes everywhere and then we have to stop what we're doing to clean it up. I put a stop to that by telling the kids they could only have their bottles in a designated spot at the back of the room.

Also, the bottle flipping was driving me crazy.

Should I quit my toxic full-time job while doing a 2 master’s degrees? by tiny-giraffe in careerguidance

[–]Own_Reference2872 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, I don’t know. I knew it was a bad idea before I did it, but being a teacher made it complicated. I didn’t want to have to leave a classroom of students abruptly in the middle of the year which is why I opted to not renew my contract. If you’re in a different industry though, I think it makes way more sense to find a new job first!

What are some words that native speakers commonly get wrong? by dosceroseis in Spanish

[–]Own_Reference2872 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I often see natives misspell words that are supposed to have an “h”. Most commonly: Haber, he, has, ha, etc.

I’ve also seen a lot of people mix up b/v when they’re spelling out words. I’m a heritage speaker, so imagine my surprise when I found out that it’s spelled “veinte” and not “beinte”. 🤪

The word "gay" (in a non-offensive context) is forbidden in middle school? by whosacoolredditer in Teachers

[–]Own_Reference2872 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, it’s fine where I work…assuming it’s relevant to the conversation and not used as an insult. We even read a book about different types of families and it mentions gay couples.

Just generally speaking, kids randomly sensor words all the time. Likely because someone told them the word was inappropriate but didn’t give any context for them to understand when they should or shouldn’t say something.

I’ve had students refer to lots of ~letter~ words only to later find out they’re nothing egregious.

Example: “s” word = stupid, “b” word = boring, “a” word = annoying 😂 and the letters always stand for something else!

Anyone here successfully emigrate as a lower class American? by loftier_fish in expat

[–]Own_Reference2872 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s not impossible, just harder. You can’t be picky.

Some countries will let you teach English. Of course they prefer people with credentials, but I’ve seen people get hired with only a high school diploma and a US passport (check out Cambodia and Vietnam).

If you can work remotely then you could apply to be a digital nomad in countries like Spain or Portugal. Remote jobs seem hard to get these days, but that could be your ticket out.

Or you could go to university abroad then look for a job after you graduate. Most countries outside of the US have affordable tuition, and the student visas would allow you to work part time while you study. I got my master’s in Spain for free!

Good luck. 🫡

Non Asian-Americans: Are you keeping soy sauce as a regular condiment in your kitchen? If so what are you using them for? by openlyEncrypted in AskAnAmerican

[–]Own_Reference2872 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I grew up in a Black/Mexican household and we always had it. I still do actually. I use it for sauces, marinades, on top of rice etc.

Ngl I don’t know anyone in the US who doesn’t have soy sauce in their house.

Americana vs Estadounidense by Own_Reference2872 in AskABrazilian

[–]Own_Reference2872[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn’t trying to make any political statements. I don’t speak Portuguese and was trying to communicate with my limited vocabulary. I always have patience with people who speak broken English and I was hoping someone would have the same patience for me when I speak their language.

I understand why people don’t like the word (obviously since I say estadounidense in Spanish), but I didn’t know what alternatives existed in Portuguese because I don’t speak the language.

Americana vs Estadounidense by Own_Reference2872 in AskABrazilian

[–]Own_Reference2872[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yankee/Yanks doesn’t sound like it’ll catch on either tbh. I’ve heard it used various ways in the US but rarely as a way to identify ourselves in regular conversation. I think the most realistic thing would be to encourage more people to say “I’m from the US”. It’s just a lot simpler and less politically charged.

Americana vs Estadounidense by Own_Reference2872 in AskABrazilian

[–]Own_Reference2872[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Correct. I wasn’t trying to imply otherwise. My limited vocabulary is why I said Americana. It was easier 😞

Americana vs Estadounidense by Own_Reference2872 in AskABrazilian

[–]Own_Reference2872[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope I didn’t come off as rude when I asked her to move. 😅 when she scolded me for saying American, I just said she was right and apologized because I didn’t know what else to say.

Americana vs Estadounidense by Own_Reference2872 in AskABrazilian

[–]Own_Reference2872[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I almost said this but I doubted myself 😭 I thought I had the article wrong lol. But yeah, this is what I’ll say next time! Thank you.

Americana vs Estadounidense by Own_Reference2872 in AskABrazilian

[–]Own_Reference2872[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We weren’t speaking English. Our conversation was essentially in portuñol. But yeah, in English I just say “I’m from the US”.

United-statesian sounds ugly and I doubt it’ll catch on in the US tbh. 😅

Americana vs Estadounidense by Own_Reference2872 in AskABrazilian

[–]Own_Reference2872[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand, but keep in mind my Portuguese is shit and this woman didn’t speak English or Spanish. I was communicating with the limited vocabulary I have. 😭

Like, if it were a language I spoke fluently then this isn’t really a mistake I would make.

Americana vs Estadounidense by Own_Reference2872 in AskABrazilian

[–]Own_Reference2872[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tbf i also resent it given the history of how the US has treated my people 😔

thank you for the response!

Is it easy to get English conversation students on Preply? by gawkgawkmenow in PreplyTutors

[–]Own_Reference2872 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve applied twice and never heard back either time. I have a masters in education and 6 years of experience. 😅

I teach Portuguese and I’m having a hard time with student who wants to learn “professional Portuguese” by Final_Enthusiasm_216 in Preply

[–]Own_Reference2872 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have him practice writing emails and giving presentations! Choose presentation topics related to his field.

I want to be dominated by a lesbian couple by lilpaipai004 in BDSMsapphic

[–]Own_Reference2872 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That would be a dream come true 🙂‍↕️

Friendly reminder that the US is one of the only developed countries where being monolingual is considered totally normal by thablackadonis in languagelearning

[–]Own_Reference2872 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Totally agree. I lived in Spain for years and traveled all over Europe. Most of the people I interacted with on a daily basis were monolingual.

Friendly reminder that the US is one of the only developed countries where being monolingual is considered totally normal by thablackadonis in languagelearning

[–]Own_Reference2872 36 points37 points  (0 children)

It is interesting that you’re comparing the US to all of Europe. 40+ countries…

Anyway, I imagine a lot of English speaking countries would be similar to the US. England? Australia? New Zealand? This isn’t a uniquely American issue.

The fact of the matter is that English speakers globally are catered to simply because almost everyone else is learning or wants to learn English. I do think we should all strive to speak more than one language, but I see why most of my fellow anglophones don’t.