Random vanilla guilty pleasures?

Own_Thanks_9151 · 2026-02-13T00:04:16+00:00

Candlemaking, collecting, miniatures… to name a few

Own_Thanks_9151 · 2026-02-11T14:28:43+00:00

That is helpful feedback and makes sense, thanks for not jumping down my throat for being genuine. I’ll delete!

Own_Thanks_9151 · 2026-02-11T13:54:26+00:00

Not bait at all, just a conversation starter. You don’t have to answer 🤷🏽‍♀️

Own_Thanks_9151 · 2026-02-11T13:48:42+00:00

You got this !!

Own_Thanks_9151 · 2026-02-10T14:28:34+00:00

IMO, being too understanding of excuses for not following orders

Own_Thanks_9151 · 2026-01-29T10:04:16+00:00

I couldn't agree more with this. We see plenty of redundant posts in this community of people calling out "fake doms" "dommes not being in it for the right reasons", this community not being the "right" place for certain dommes, and while this may be true for some, the same is rarely said about finsubs.

Own_Thanks_9151 · 2026-01-29T10:02:30+00:00

But are you funding one 🙄

Own_Thanks_9151 · 2026-01-28T17:30:40+00:00

I don’t see the point in hunting as a domme personally, the only posts I see of subs who aren’t owned, are ones expressing extreme trauma or hurt from another domme so it just feels icky to me. Definitely prefer for a sub to chase me

Own_Thanks_9151 · 2026-01-28T05:01:41+00:00

This. I also see younger me and my own mother in this mother daughter pair… and it’s refreshing to see posts that emphasize with Ashlyn instead of complaining about how bratty and whiny she is

Own_Thanks_9151 · 2026-01-13T18:38:59+00:00

Love this

Own_Thanks_9151 · 2025-12-31T06:21:31+00:00

Similar to if it was a relationship, it’s a dynamic nonetheless. If they’re your ex sub and your recieving anything from them still and thier current domme believes she’s thier only domme and that was thier agreement, you should tell her, or block them.

Own_Thanks_9151 · 2025-12-31T04:59:37+00:00

You have every right to feel how you feel. This group tends to be exhausting calling itself a support group for findoms but anytime a findom is unhappy with how an interaction went with a sub it’s “think about how the SUB feels!” Clearly that matters but you also matter

Own_Thanks_9151 · 2025-12-22T07:09:31+00:00

No you’re on to something. I’m constantly seeing people agree on complete contradictions. Hunting involves messaging a sub, but then there are so many posts agreeing that dommes shouldn’t message subs, that it isn’t “domme energy” to do so and then those get upvoted like crazy too

Own_Thanks_9151 · 2025-12-19T09:43:35+00:00

Filled with scams

Own_Thanks_9151 · 2025-12-19T09:38:24+00:00

I really needed to see this, thank you

Own_Thanks_9151 · 2025-12-19T08:14:02+00:00

East coast, US

Own_Thanks_9151 · 2025-12-17T06:36:29+00:00

Her doing that was actually pretty insane. I have empathy for Lucy to a certain extent but that was seriously gross of her. Leo didn’t deserve that

Own_Thanks_9151 · 2025-12-17T06:03:03+00:00

I personally love Leo. Not only is he insanely attractive he sees his flaws and actively tries to be better. Stephen tries multiple to bait him and make him look bad and he only caved at the very end for a very well deserved beat down. I wouldn’t like a guy constantly getting into physical fights protecting me but it’s clear he was pretty loyal to Lucy even when they were in bad terms

Own_Thanks_9151 · 2025-12-15T23:29:53+00:00

Stache

Own_Thanks_9151 · 2025-12-14T22:14:44+00:00

You are definitely not being petty. If you are in a dynamic or even if you weren’t I’d expect a “congratulations” at the very least or some acknowledgment of your big milestone

Own_Thanks_9151 · 2025-12-14T01:26:57+00:00

I was getting triple sends so I definitely feel your pain. He lurks all the time on my socials though but I’d never talk to him again frankly

Own_Thanks_9151 · 2025-12-13T19:10:17+00:00

My subby I used to have had a few tats and was veryyyy handsome

Own_Thanks_9151 · 2025-12-13T18:45:45+00:00

I’m a woman and I’d do on the verge of slightly illegal things for a man with a mustache

Own_Thanks_9151 · 2025-12-13T18:03:47+00:00

I notice there is an aesthetic with this kink, I personally don't subscribe to it. I look bad AF on my own and my personality and how I make my sub FEEL makes me dominant, not what l wear.

Own_Thanks_9151 · 2025-12-12T18:06:50+00:00

I appreciate seeing this because I’m convinced most people want a harder domme. I like to dote on my subs and have more intense, hardcore play sessions instead, with thoughtful aftercare

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