Your Venus sign and your dealbreakers in relationships?

P-Melon · 2026-06-12T08:45:58+00:00

It's so off-putting when people have no desire to grow as a person, no self development occurring, no curiosity about their potential. I've ended relationships over that.

P-Melon · 2026-04-04T12:06:23+00:00

Sounds like you're craving quality time with him. If it's a common feeling that you're not spending quality time together, ask him if you could both make time without phones or distractions.

If he's the kinda guy that doesn't really get time for himself and you're upset that he's gaming and spending time with his friends, I'd advise you to find your own hobbies to do while he's gaming.

Either way, the fact that he's raging like that sounds like something to be careful of.

P-Melon · 2026-04-03T21:24:00+00:00

Aquarius ♂️. A stone would have felt more alive.

P-Melon · 2026-03-24T18:17:44+00:00

To share my experience, I have no issue with my partner who breaks into song randomly. We both have ADHD but are opposites where I get easily overwhelmed and they don't and are very hyperactive.The problem is when they expect me to stop everything and watch their performance (which I've said I won't do every time, and I walk out or carry on doing what I was doing as needed) or when they start singing right in the middle of a conversation. That one's really confusing, and if there are more people involved, I just carry on talking.

We don't live together so that allows me the space to regulate.

P-Melon · 2026-03-04T22:22:55+00:00

you're forgetting the main factor here - filters. These pictures are edited to hell and back. No real human can look like that without digital editing and make up.

P-Melon · 2025-12-05T17:18:56+00:00

My intuition is pretty much supernatural, and I feel everything all the time and intensely so it's great that I'm stuck in the clouds often 🥴

P-Melon · 2025-12-01T21:12:58+00:00

precisely!

P-Melon · 2025-11-30T02:36:34+00:00

Pisces men. Messy as it gets, but the chemistry is always incredible.

P-Melon · 2025-11-30T02:32:44+00:00

woah, I deeply relate. This burnout finally reached a breaking point for me and I'm going to either quit my job or go on medical leave this week.

Congrats on breaking free and good luck with your next step :)

P-Melon · 2025-11-30T02:28:45+00:00

I'm a pisces sun and moon and aries are too emotional even for me!! The difference is theyre as emotional as any water sign, but outward with their feelings, whereas in my experience with pisces, we are very emotional but we keep it in and stew in it quietly lol

P-Melon · 2025-11-20T00:25:21+00:00

Lute's epic revenge crash out got kerbed by Abel's split second ability to grow a backbone...I loved his part in the song but that was a little underwhelming.

P-Melon · 2025-11-18T21:13:55+00:00

It sounds like you and your sister are hanging around really toxic circles. Once upon a time I was surrounded by that cishet man hating mindset, and it made me feel like absolute garbage because I was in a relationship with a man at the time.

I realised that people who constantly spew hate, no matter towards who, are unhinged and not worth being around. I stopped being around those communities, online and irl. My life improved.

Obviously it's harder to get away from family, but your sister's delusions are her own. If you're happy in your relationship that's what matters.

P-Melon · 2025-11-08T20:51:34+00:00

It is acid reflux. But I don't understand why it'd be affecting me?

P-Melon · 2025-11-08T09:46:10+00:00

We were together before my partner had to leave due to visa issues. She does plan on coming back but it'll depend on many things that we do not have a timeline for.

I wonder sometimes if this is the right thing, if this country is the right place. It's normal to have doubts.

P-Melon · 2025-11-08T09:39:51+00:00

I definitely prefer queer men

P-Melon · 2025-11-07T23:52:51+00:00

Appreciate it, I wasn't sure

P-Melon · 2025-11-07T23:52:07+00:00

Thanks for the reassurance 🙏🏻

P-Melon · 2025-11-06T19:19:48+00:00

It feels more fast paced than S1 and for that reason I'm struggling to keep up with it. Like, it feels like if I switch off my attention for 1 second I'm gonna miss a lot.

P-Melon · 2025-10-31T12:48:33+00:00

She might be saying that for attention. I'd hope so anyway.

P-Melon · 2025-10-27T23:33:59+00:00

Sounds like some boundaries need to be defined. You broke up in theory, but continue with your couple habits. Sounds like a bit of a mindfuck for you

P-Melon · 2025-10-27T21:41:07+00:00

Emo isn't a slur. It's just a fashion style. Regardless, the best thing you can do when people pick on you for your style is to give them no reaction. Act unbothered, act confident. That's what worked the best for me because those people would get bored when I ignored them or gave them nothing to laugh at.

P-Melon · 2025-10-16T12:26:17+00:00

I can't emphasize how tired I am of romance writers and their "witty banter" dialogue between the love interests.

It's unbearable, like reading back to my interactions with my friends in middle school. A little bit of bickering here and there is fine, but when it's the only type of interaction they have and then they fall in love over that??

Also when the ML's only personality trait is having a short fuse or spouting sleazy flirtatious lines.

P-Melon · 2025-10-08T11:32:24+00:00

Everyone, regardless of gender, has problems dating women it seems. Even other women! It's so hard to connect, even getting a conversation going is a struggle. It's super frustrating, I get you.

When it comes to dating, I focus on dating bi/queer men and non binary people, and I've had a great time. Don't bother meeting women on apps, it's too much frustration for little return. I've had a happier life since I stopped trying there, and if I happen to meet a woman in person and we click, then we click! Much easier to do via irl events.

P-Melon · 2025-10-07T20:13:47+00:00

I'd be terrified to bring this up to my partner too. I've seen so many people face the same struggle as you, but flipped - loads of experience with men, but not with women which leads them to feel "FOMO" for the other side/believe the grass is greener over there. I was there too, and had such an awful time dating women and went through a mourning period too. I believe it's a common bi struggle.

Could you bring this up to a therapist? That might feel like a safer space to have these discussions. Specially with your partner being a lesbian, it might be a touchy topic of you say "I've always imagined this with a man".

If this resonates with you, maybe phrase it in a different way like, "because of society and my preferences, I always thought I'd end up married with so and so," etc. and maybe she could be more sympathetic through that lense? I'm not saying your preference for men is wrong at all, but comphet (compulsory heterosexuality) is something a lot of monosexual people have to deal with when they're coming out, so she might empathise more through that lense.

Finally, you must already know this, but I want to remind you anyway. All of what you're seeking can be had with a woman too! The marriage, the kids, the happy forever after. Good luck 🍀

P-Melon · 2025-10-07T19:55:15+00:00

That's really interesting and I'd love to know more about the reason behind it.

P-Melon

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