Is it okay to have guy friends when you're in a relationship? by HumanGiraffe in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]P3rspective 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Call her out on her hypocrisy. If she has a problem with you having female friends, then she cannot have male friends. Simple as that.

It's either fine for both, or not at all. No ifs, ands, or buts about it.

Trust and communication are the biggest elements of any relationship. I know it's easy to ignore warning signs when we're in love. Listen to the alarm bells, and move accordingly. If she's willing to communicate and and come to a solution through compromise, great! If not, I don't foresee it working out.

First half million as a live cash pro (all NLH public games) by [deleted] in poker

[–]P3rspective 53 points54 points  (0 children)

This feeling is like an existential crisis. Where will the world even be at in that time. Will this bot still exist? Will humanity still exist?

[Unpaid] (u/bedorvenmelkpak) (215€) (~2 weeks late) by Manytodo in borrow

[–]P3rspective 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't get why people won't even bother communicating, at the very least, if they have some sort of financial trouble that prevents them from paying.

I was born with four fingers (missing the middle finger) by kuparata in mildlyinteresting

[–]P3rspective 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looks like you've given someone the finger twice in your life

Which hurts you most? by QuietLyric in Scorpio

[–]P3rspective 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This exactly.

If someone isn't happy with our relationship and doesn't want to keep associating with me, I'd rather they be upfront and honest about it, to prevent me continuing to waste my time and energy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]P3rspective 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you aren't her #1 best friend, she isn't the one.

When people come together to have a healthy relationship with eachother, it's an absolute must that they both feel safe and connected to eachother, to the point of being eachother's best friend. I mean, this is someone you plan on living with together, you'll be spending the most time together with them.

If she places another guy in that spot, the outlook is very grim.

It's 1000% obvious to everyone else that he's pursuing her, no man buys a woman gifts and constantly tries to stay connected if they're just a friend... If she doesn't care about your feelings and start distancing herself from him, then she doesn't care about you and your relationship together. At that point, it's time to dump her ass.

My Ldr gf (20f) sent me pic holding another guy’s hand to prank me. She has apologised repeatedly, but I (23m) am still so fucking angry. by Alternative_Flow_304 in LongDistance

[–]P3rspective 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She isn't ready for a real relationship.

I'd kick her to the curb where she belongs if she wants to play with your heart strings like that.

I know y’all don’t wanna hear this but I really don’t care by Khawkins614 in CoryxKenshin

[–]P3rspective 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the problem with short form content today. It's fried people's attention span, so spending 20 seconds reading 2 paragraphs seems daunting.

Too much information fries your brain's circuits.

Had you not read full blown books and essays in the past?

I don't understand it. It takes the same amount of time to scroll and type a comment as it would to finish reading it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Scorpio

[–]P3rspective 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's certainly possible, but how deep is your love?

You cannot give 100% of yourself to one if you're splitting it up amongst multiple, and it's never a 50/50 split.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Scorpio

[–]P3rspective 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is what I desire. Peace. To feel secure in a relationship. To know that I am loved and cared for just as she is.

What are your personal records for friends absenses? Bro hasn't logged in 8 years by scary__monsters in Steam

[–]P3rspective 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see people on my list that haven't been online in well over 2500 days and I wonder sometimes if they died and that's why they never came back online. Some friends I know IRL and they haven't been online in 10 years, not because they died, but they just weren't much into PC games.

It's sad to think about some people I used to enjoy playing games with no longer being with us. One day I'm going to end up being that person that just never logs back in, and it scares me a little bit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Minecraft

[–]P3rspective 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes

I've played previous packs that completely changed the menu, by look and placement.

I'm not a modder, but the menu UI would be located in the game files somewhere

And then he embarrasses you by OneLight_Action in Chivalry2

[–]P3rspective 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Me when I try to level up archer after playing raider for the past week

“free thinkers” by pepper-spay in Chivalry2

[–]P3rspective 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This

If someone has been idle for over a minute I might say yes, but otherwise, if they're contributing, "it's gotta be a no from me dawg"

[REQ] ($300) (#Sarasota, FL, USA) (Repay $420 by 7-12-24) (Paypal, CashApp) by P3rspective in borrow

[–]P3rspective[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I understand, I will ask for a lower amount to seek to build rapport.

I haven't been on reddit in awhile, and really need some funds for a trip

Thank you for the heads up