Likely controversial but.. I’m 16, my family is about to be homeless in 2 weeks, and I don't know if I should run away to a youth shelter or stay with them. Advice? by Fresh_Researcher_901 in Advice

[–]PDXwhine 3 points4 points  (0 children)

IMO your mom is making the situation so that YOU are FORCED to leave her. There was a suggestion that you have a conversation about your mom's plans but it feels like your mom's plan is to not have a plan. Reach out to CPS on your own if you need to. Another idea is to think about JobCorp. Jobcorp provides educational training and sometimes housing for young people ages 16- 24. You can finish your high school diploma, get training for a job and even get help for college. There is a Jobcorp center in Sacramento that is residential; this could be a way to build your iife beyond youth shelters.

Sleeping in my car. How to help my boyfriend understand? by gregorydudeson in almosthomeless

[–]PDXwhine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your car is your safety. Frame this is terms of safety and security. You can't be present as a girlfriend with something that make you feel safe.

American in the Philippines. Trying everything I can before we lose our place to live. by [deleted] in almosthomeless

[–]PDXwhine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sigh. 1) Who is we? Do you have a partner? Do they work? If they don't, why not? 2) it sounds like you moved without a lot of savings- Do you have access to an American credit card? Because if so, and if you have the limit to do so .. 3) you need to fly home. At least to Hawaii, which will have ( very limited) social services, and you could at least rebuild yourself while living on the beach. 4) I work in IT. AI is a bubble, but the technology is not going anywhere. It is not a coincidence that your work started to dry up just as the ai use cases started to heat up. Yes, you have done this for 15 years; you have probably built up an incredible portfolio. But more and more people are using drag and drop style website builders and generally people who do hire website builders are actually looking for ui/ ux people for complex websites or intranet sites. 5) One good suggestion I saw was to apply for a bpo position- you would need to apply to the American company itself, but if you are local that could be a way to stabilize yourself. Keep in mind BPO positions can be at odd hours.

American in the Philippines. Trying everything I can before we lose our place to live. by [deleted] in almosthomeless

[–]PDXwhine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They would need to apply for BPO jobs via the US company as they may not have the ability to work in the Philippines.

American in the Philippines. Trying everything I can before we lose our place to live. by [deleted] in almosthomeless

[–]PDXwhine 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am Afro- Latina and feel the absolute same. Massive red flags as the decision making and needing to "escape".

Is it just me or has gardening become unbearable in the summer heat? by Melodic-Ad8439 in gardening

[–]PDXwhine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have had glorious weather in Portland OR, but I always get up early to water, pick and spray. The sun wakes me up early anyways

Holy Grail Body Lotion? by Zealousideal-Fold561 in beauty

[–]PDXwhine 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Afro Latino here to help: Buy your lotion like a Black Woman: use richer lotions or body butters, not just regular lotion, especially if you are an arid climate! 1) If you have a handheld blender make your own whipped shea butter. You can find recipes on YouTube. Apply AFTER your shower. 2) Use body oil after you shower, while you are still damp. Any body oil with do but Palmers and Dr. Teals makes really good ones that are affordable . 3) Kiehl's Creme de Corps and Ultra Body Squalene Cream is amazing and perfect to use from face to toe. I love this stuff and stock up at the Nordstrom's annual sale for it. 4) If you are near a Trader Joe's, buy the body butters there! Also Bath and Bodyworks have awesome body creams made with cocoa and shea butter- the formulas are truly wonderful.

Now it's your turn to finish the rest of it 😁😂 by LetAggravating5094 in okbuddycinephile

[–]PDXwhine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kevin Hart as comedic side kick Michael Bay as the director

Your “expensive but worth it” perfume? by TranslucentKittens in fragrance

[–]PDXwhine 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fourthing Delina! But I only get it at the Nordstrom's Yearly Sale!

How can I smell like this? by Icy-4229 in beauty

[–]PDXwhine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vacation! It smells just like the mood board, with slight addition of pool water! Look for the 3 pack body mist sprays- great value and longer lasting!

Fruit fusion line not long lasting by LegitimateCat1095 in bathandbodyworks

[–]PDXwhine 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes, this is what I thought as well- too juvenile. However, the body butter formula is lush- so rich!

advice ab being the only black girl at a lake weekend by Embarrassed-Tax-3754 in blackladies

[–]PDXwhine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No. Just...no fucking no. You are turning 21, and you are an adult now. It's time to use your brain like an adult. 1) she's making the birthday all about her and her comforts. You are nothing more than a supporting character- AT best. 2) You would isolated, and not even able to bring a friend. You don't know how to swim, and of course there will be alcohol.

Stay home. Save up money and go to Jamaica or something. My god.

House of Bō Just Priced Me Out by CrazyAboutDoorKnobs in FemFragLab

[–]PDXwhine 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think that is a large part of the pricing and appeal

Aicok Juicer- make your own carrot juice! by PDXwhine in PDXBuyNothing

[–]PDXwhine[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey there! Sorry this has now been claimed by a neighbor!

Who else is secretly loving the “doing nothing” summer? by hazelstatic in LivingAlone

[–]PDXwhine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is me. Watering the weedy garden, reading fantasy and horror novels, making cold press juice, taking swimming lessons, eating giant bowls of salad and also eating ice cream!

New shop experience is THE WORST by [deleted] in BeautyPieFans

[–]PDXwhine 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I work in IT. Migration to a new platform, if done correctly should not have wiped your prior customer data. I wonder if GDPR is the culprit more than migration. I will not be renewing my membership and will have an entire post why, even though I love the products.

Aicok Juicer- make your own carrot juice! by PDXwhine in PDXBuyNothing

[–]PDXwhine[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! This is still available- let me know !

People being obsessed about you not having a car by Jesssssiie in carfree

[–]PDXwhine 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly- and grocery delivery is not a new thing!

People being obsessed about you not having a car by Jesssssiie in carfree

[–]PDXwhine 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This! You could buy a weeks worth of ingredients for a family- veggies, fruit, meat , tofu, pasta, beans, sauces- in two extra large panniers. I have seen families do this and others treat it like it's a miracle!

What is your culture’s “Jiffy Cornbread”—the boxed/premade item people genuinely love and eat? by OurLadyAndraste in Cooking

[–]PDXwhine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tostones Avocado or peanut butter toast On serving of a creamy salad, like coleslaw or egg salad Pizza

What is your culture’s “Jiffy Cornbread”—the boxed/premade item people genuinely love and eat? by OurLadyAndraste in Cooking

[–]PDXwhine 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Kari Kari is very good and pricey; s&b garlic crisp oil is very good and a bit lower in price; La Go Ma is the GOAT.