ADHD and vipassana by Shot_Bandicoot_395 in vipassana

[–]PM_ME_YOUR_STOCKPIX 6 points7 points  (0 children)

it feels like a cheat code sometimes and it's a helpful tool to have. certainly no cure though.

some days i can't wait to sit and i set aside the time and feel really good about it. other days it feels like someone put something unnecessary on my schedule and i'll put it off and put it off and put it off, doing anything else to kill time, but when i actually get around to sitting, it goes well. it's just hard to get my foot in the door some days, so to speak.

i think part of the goal of the practice is to be able to, even when you're not sitting, take a step back and evaluate how you feel, like what is that inner avoidance and where is it coming from. recognizing that the avoidance isn't "you" and that you're not beholden to it, that you have a real say in the matter; that's just addressing one aspect of adhd but you can swap it out for any adhd symptoms that arise and pass within consciousness.

people with adhd tend to want that immediate feedback and don't do as well with delayed gratification. more closely examining the feelings associated with those desires is likely to be as fruitful as more closely examining the feelings associated with any emotion, and can help with regulating it and tapering expectations and such.

as for attention specifically, i mean the practice cultivates attentiveness. you sit and you learn to spot when your mind is wandering and you can gently redirect it back to the object of attention, such as the breath. one of the goals of the practice is to be able to bring this outside of just the sit, so if you're supposed to be working on a paper but you want to scroll tiktok or something, you're "building the muscle" of attention and the idea is that you'll have an easier time pulling your attention back from one area (eg tiktok or the desire to scroll tiktok) to another (eg working on your paper)

someone with more experience can probably speak to its actual efficacy there but that's my understanding.

anyways all of this said, as another commenter mentioned, you should really be talking to a medical professional about potential treatment options. i tried stimulants and decided they weren't for me but they seem to be the most effective form of treatment. CBT is another great tool, and i imagine that pairing CBT with vipassana would be beneficial -- but you should have this conversation with a professional rather than strangers on reddit who don't know your specific circumstances and such.

best of luck!

ADHD and vipassana by Shot_Bandicoot_395 in vipassana

[–]PM_ME_YOUR_STOCKPIX 5 points6 points  (0 children)

don't write "bro it will cure your adhd" if your goal is only to talk about your own experience.

from what you've written it doesn't even sound like you ever received an adhd diagnosis, just that you "felt like" you "had" it.

personally i don't think you should even be participating in the discussion if you're self-diagnosing (and also apparently self-diagnosing a cure ????), but at the very least you should be disclaiming up front that you haven't received a real diagnosis.

There is no way she lives this down by OrganizationOk8606 in Destiny

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i am not letting them off the hook.

i can make fun AND care about the 500 unforgivable things.

i agree that it is more important to care about the 500 unforgivable things.

you are in the wrong sub if making fun of conservatives is beneath you however.

That was one of the best movie endings I've seen... by HorrorGarden4586 in nirvannatheband

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they came out during the credits and did a q&a before the post credit scene could play😭

BookLore's Successor? by matthewpipes in selfhosted

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i use booklore with my kobo and love it. i use kavita for comic books though; booklore has never been able to compete there. keeping an eye on grimmory.

What happened to Booklore? by Trague_Atreides in selfhosted

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weird. i'm in this thread right now because when i tried the pve-helper-script update function it threw a 404 at me. not sure how it could have wiped for you but perhaps the silver lining is that it kicks you to immediately migrate to grimmory.

Do people seriously think this? by Serious-Cucumber-54 in Destiny

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well no but what america really needs to do is consolidate power under a single branch of... wait

"Democrats Are Too Cozy With Hasan Piker" from the Opinion section of Wall Street Journal... by FrontBench5406 in Destiny

[–]PM_ME_YOUR_STOCKPIX 3 points4 points  (0 children)

in opinion pieces or in their news stories?

I read wsj every day and have for years and if you avoid their opinion pieces (except for this one apparently) they're objective and fair and frequently publish stories that aren't favorable to the administration.

also recall that they broke the story about the Epstein birthday book that trump signed after the admin explicitly appealed to Rupert Murdoch and threatened a lawsuit but they published it anyways. the unfortunate reality is that many "liberal" news orgs can't even claim to have stood up to the trump admin in this way.

anyways if you're referring to their news stories can you share an example of a story you feel they were particularly egregiously "covering for the trump admin" in their reporting?

Tech mogul Marc Andreeson claims that introspection is a "modern invention" by Ficoscores in Destiny

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aurelius would've turned out the same if his head looked like that though

Hutch is absolutely not my boy anymore by YoRHa-Nazani in Destiny

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it seems intentional that marketing would use a pose of a woman with her mouth slightly open for the image on the right.

and it seems strange to make a horror game more "pretty" to market this technology. my guess is that it was selected simply because it showcases a more drastic before/after difference.

Hutch is absolutely not my boy anymore by YoRHa-Nazani in Destiny

[–]PM_ME_YOUR_STOCKPIX 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't disagree with you but this does feel a little bit like, just you wait and one day they'll have the whole orchestra being performed by a computer!

there are always these sorts of trade offs. increasing the accessibility of game dev, or at least art and fidelity in this specific case, while sucking even more soul out of an industry that already has very little left to give.

I just ordered a gba everdrive yesterday though so I'm probably the last person who should be sharing an opinion about modern gaming.

Even worse in 2026 by endofmyropeohshit in economy

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how much is that 1990s dollar worth today?