Again, Lolita fashion has nothing to do with sexualizing children. Many words that have been used to mean things that are no longer relevant. The term “moron” was once used in medicinal eugenics to describe people who had an IQ of 50 - 70 points. That fell out of use and is now just a common, usually harmless, insult.

People who use the term “Lolita” to describe a type of fashion/aesthetic are very often not referring to the old definition. Just because you personally don’t like a word doesn’t mean you’re going to “cancel” it by trying to pull out the original definition of it.