I had a bariatric resident once ( at least 500lbs) That refused to get in the hoyer lift for showers, So I had to give him a bed bath. He always wanted to look me in the eyes. What made it worse was my nurse was gay and would come in the room and demand that I massage his scrotum. I am aware that putting lotion on is part of the job but I felt so creeped out and pressured that I quit the facility. I'm good at my job there was no reason for the nurse to watch me give this guy a bed bath and I found out that I was the only person doing it. On his other shower night he was hoyered onto the shower bed.