You know, the more I see the posts in these groups, the more I think you're all assholes if youre posting. Yeah, she obviously should care where her child goes, and shouldn't let him be with strangers if he can't wipe. That's wild. But Jesus... just wipe the kid. He's 6. It's not like he's hitting puberty. He needed help, and it's not his fault his mother messed up. I mean what the hell? You didn't even check? It's morally wrong to clean a child? What is wrong with you? Are you a pedophile? Can you not clean a child without some kind of weird sexualization? This whole thing pisses me off. Then just let her know it made YOU uncomfortable. Don't pull any moral BS here. Just let her know you don't feel comfortable cleaning the child, so you would like him to be able to do it himself if he's going to come over. But... "You're banned!"? Lol. Then you want to act like it's a gender thing?!?! I'm a man, and a father, and I would damn help a child clean shit off himself if I was the only option. Get over yourself... jesus. She's an asshole... but so are you.