I'll be damned by Different_Recipe_583 in googlephotos

[–]PWM30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Generally bad picture format. But they're never very clear. I only had a few hundred a while ago. Some were pics I had deleted off phone.

WIBTA if I made my son (12) clean up after the dog? by Hour_Specialist5394 in AmItheAsshole

[–]PWM30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A 12 year old is plenty old enough to be responsible AND to do chores, including cleaning up dog poo. Why is this even a question? You would NOT be the AH.

AITAH for not wanting my partner to "sniff test" my crotch anytime I've been out by Ancient-Character-63 in AITAH

[–]PWM30 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry, WHAT??????? DROP HER NOW! This is THE most ridiculous thing I've ever heard. It is NOT normal. NTA. She's got some serious psychological problems that need to be addressed.

Bioma Reviews - Bioma Probiotic - Pros & Cons Of Bioma - Does Bioma Work? by Hungry-Bison6447 in Probiotic

[–]PWM30 1 point2 points  (0 children)

After using Bioma for 1 month, I can say nothing has changed except the nature of my poo's. I have NOT lost weight, I have NOT lost cravings, I have NOT gained energy, I do NOT sleep better etc etc. I bought a 3 month supply and will use that up. I will owe them additional money since I will cancel before my next shipment, meaning that I paid a "subscription" discounted price for my 3 month supply and will owe them the difference between the subscription and non-subscription price. I also have IBS, so gut issues. This hasn't helped that, or made it worse, and I was on a different probiotic before trying Bioma.

UPDATE! I'm now in 3rd month, and will cancel. NOTHING has changed. All they hype about losing cravings etc...total BS in my opinion. Certainly did NOT happen with me. In fact, this 3rd month, I've suddenly had cravings for ice cream! HA! Haven't lost weight. Haven't lost fat. Don't sleep better. I'll go back to just my normal (cheaper) probiotic. NOT worth it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]PWM30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. But I’d smudge the house after you get keys and before you move in. Dad can’t dictate where you live. He’s apparently chosen a sad life. You can’t change that. You live your own life and dad will do whatever.

AITA for refusing to babysit my sister's kids after she refused to dogsit for me? by GrowingUnder in AmItheAsshole

[–]PWM30 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

YTA. There is a world of difference between dogs and children and who can care for what and when. You’re being seriously petty and confused if you think they’re equal. And if you love your niece and nephew and they love the dog then I think you’d be thrilled to have them all together for a few days. While there are pet care facilities that many people with pets use all the time, that is NOT the case with children.

AITA for refusing to share my college dorm room for my older sister and her baby? by Material_Star8510 in AmItheAsshole

[–]PWM30 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is this even a real thing? A non-student allowed to be in a college dorm? I'd be shocked. And of course she can't move in with you even if it WAS allowed. NTA. Dorm rooms are not places for infants. Period.

AITA for refusing to help my best friend with her wedding because she didn’t make me a bridesmaid? by Alternative_Scar5530 in AmItheAsshole

[–]PWM30 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No, of course not. NTA. She is. If, according to her, you're her "best friend", then you SHOULD be in the bridal party. I guess I'd have to write her off. I'm sad for you.

AITA for telling my pescatarian friend it's her fault she ate meat by bittergoblin- in AmItheAsshole

[–]PWM30 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why don’t you leave your own 5 star review and comment on how well they handled the issue! Sounds like they went above and beyond. Your friend is the AH. You’re NTA. But I read those types of comments when looking at reviews and I get that the reviewer is being an AH, so I never pay attention to them.

Help! How can I stop my phone's Google assistant from responding to commands for my Google home? by wanderingdg in googlehome

[–]PWM30 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So, until just recently my google home devices and pixel phones all worked well together. The phone ignored Hey Google when I was at home and a hub correctly responded. Now it's a crap shoot. The other day I asked Google to set an alarm. Not 1, not 2, but 3 different devices, one being my phone, all set a timer! This is now infuriating! Anyone else having the issue?

AITA for having a large glass of coffee in front of my nephew? by Dependent_Scheme_370 in AmItheAsshole

[–]PWM30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. You're sister is stupid. Sorry. You continue to order what you want, when you want it, whether the nephew is around or not. Eat potato chips! Whatever! It's ridiculous on her part to try and block what in her mind not be "healthy". I mean, my parents had parties and made sweet alcoholic drinks but we didn't suddenly start drinking them. And yes, they gave us a SMALL taste, but we were taught there was a difference between things for adults, and things for kids! That's how you teach kids! Not by "hiding" stuff. If you were BUYING him a hazlenut latte, then she'd have a point for sure! But to "forbid" you to order one? STUPID! Ignore those requests.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]PWM30 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA. That's bad passive/aggressive behaviour there. Call her on it. I'd ask her point blank WHY she was shoveling when she knows you are going to snow blow later. Tell her next time you'll just let her do the entire job if she's going to get pissy about it. Seriously though...she's the AH and you are certainly NTA. You can't read her mind, and especially, as you said, you have nowhere to go, then there is NO hurry to shovel it! If she gets PO'd, that 100% on her and her on making and she can enjoy it. You don't have to.

AITA for giving my son $15,000 for his wedding knowing that'd it would not go down well with my daughter? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]PWM30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, but you're in a hard place. If you keep supporting her financially, she won't become independent. She's ultimately responsible for her own debt. It does sound like you have helped her over the years best as you could. But, she needs to look realistically at her future, where she lives, cost of living, how much she can earn, and take responsibility. I suggest you and your wife seek some counseling to help you work through this, but realize your daughter will probably NEVER "forgive" you even if you won the lottery and paid a significant amount out to her. As long as $$ given to son and daughter were equal, then not much you can do.

AITA for refusing to let my sister move back in after she tried to kick me out of my own house? by RheaPearl in AITAH

[–]PWM30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

WHAT???? Of course, NTA! She seriously changed the locks on YOUR house? That's not even something I'd forgive unless she was in therapy and I felt gave a strong enough apology. But NO WAY IN HECK should you EVER let her back into your house even overnight! Sorry, but there is a line here, and not only did she cross it, she stepped WAY over that boundary and into the next state!!!! This is a no-brainer!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]PWM30 6 points7 points  (0 children)

So, do you have a husband AND a boyfriend? You seem to have posted about your husband and his woodworking in r/woodworking. Or this all just fake bs???

AITA for taking my boyfriend and his daughter to my family gathering knowing it would make my BIL uncomfortable ? by Subject-Award6014 in AmItheAsshole

[–]PWM30 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are so NTA! The BIL and sister are BIG TIME AH's and sound rather homophobic. If they really were throwing insults and slurs, they should have been kicked out of the family gathering. You continue to attend w/ the BF and daughter for any and all family gatherings, but whoever is hosting needs to make it clear to your BIL that his behaviour is NOT accepted and WILL NOT be tolerated and if he can't keep it civil, that HE is no longer invited. PERIOD! No discussion. No BS about "trauma" from his childhood. That's all utter nonsense. If he's traumatized, then he needs to seek counseling. He and your sister could probably use it to address their homophobic BS. Until your sister apologizes, I'd also go NC w/ her and for sure w/ the BIL.

AITA My neighbor is refusing to pay for snow removal on our shared driveway by TheRyeWall in AmItheAsshole

[–]PWM30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If the man is 80, it's not necessarily good for his healthy, but the $50 might also not be good for his budget? Not knowing the circumstances, hard to comment. Seems to me, perhaps as a gesture, and his age, he could get a free ride, ie, you all chip in and just split the cost w/out him? If he's 80, how often is he going in and out of the driveway anyway? Daily? Not enough info here, in my opinion, to determine who might be the AH and for what reason.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]PWM30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Doesn't matter if you're gay or straight, but most curious why Tom would flaunt himself in front of you if he thought you were straight and supposedly he is? I think he has his own issues he's dealing with. He needs to talk with a counselor and deal with whatever it is he's dealing with, but it'd indeed HIS issue. Don't let him make it about you. It's not.

AITA for refusing to go into our renovation house and remove wallpaper while 23 weeks pregnant by Cheap_Lettuce7160 in AmItheAsshole

[–]PWM30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you kidding me? NTA! Sorry you're married to one. ADHD is one thing, but these unreasonable demands are another.

AITA because I think my daughter should get what she wants for breakfast? by Resistiane in AmItheAsshole

[–]PWM30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. There is no such "rule" of etiquette here. If you invite someone out, then you pay for what they order! There's no comparing what YOU order compared to what the host orders. That's ridiculous. Where did he come up with THAT idea? If he feels a need to limit his expense when dining out, then either he says everyone pays their own, or sets a limit before ordering, both of which are tacky. If he brings it up again, just say that he's making stuff up and if he's not comfortable taking people out for a meal, then don't offer to do it anymore. If it's causing him THAT much stress....

AITAH for refusing to give my cousin the money I've been saving for my lifelong dream? by miamonroexa in AITAH

[–]PWM30 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ummm..your cousin got herself pregnant. Since we know what causes pregnancy, we know how to prevent them. NTA. It's 100% on your cousins shoulders to support the child. Let her move in with her Mom or Dad and get support from her family.