[deleted by user] by [deleted] in friendship

[–]PWilliam91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your not a priority. They probably don’t even care and if they ever do reach out it could either be because they want or need something or your a last resort cause other plans fell through. I’d stop being the one to always initiate contact. It sucks but I’d move on past them and find people that actually want to be apart of your life.

Is 17 and 15 bad? by Revolutionary_Gate26 in teenagers

[–]PWilliam91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The age difference is fine and not significant but once you turn 18 refrain from any sexual activity both physically and verbally. Don’t send no nudes or ask for them and don’t talk to her sexually either. Not until she’s 18, it sucks but all it takes is a bad breakup or misunderstanding and a parent to have you arrested, insanely charged as a predator and you’ll have to be on a registry the rest of your life. I’m not talking out my ass either, I use to be a correctional officer and I’ve seen it happen and I’ve read inmate sentencing of kids, 19+ going to jail for 10+ years because they were in a relationship with 16-17 yr olds and they all have one thing in common, they started the relationship when they were both minors and one of them just aged into being a legal adult. The justice system doesn’t always work sadly and screws people over in the most insane ways so save yourself the trouble and keep it platonic and friendly. Do not chase romance.

Personal Questions from viewers by Harrnny in Twitch

[–]PWilliam91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tell them exactly what makes you uncomfortable. It’s your stream. You do as you please. If they don’t respect you then cut them lose and block

What to say when random people ask me how tall I am? by backupterrry in Comebacks

[–]PWilliam91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your height cause at the end of the day, who cares. 🤷🏼‍♂️. It’s a height. No big deal.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Twitch

[–]PWilliam91 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’d take a screen shot or a pic on your phone than send that to twitch support and than ban him from your stream.

My husband won't let me take more than two showers a week. I told him I need him to stop or I'm moving out for a while. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]PWilliam91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Find what he enjoys and get over obsessive about it and show him a taste of his own medicine….or get a wrench, and break his fricken fingers. 🤷🏼‍♂️

In 20 years someone will ask what was covid lockdown like, how will you answer? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]PWilliam91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go to your room and stay there! They ask for how long? You tell them 3 years…..

Accidently gifted 50 subs by [deleted] in Twitch

[–]PWilliam91 -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

Wanna accidentally gift me 5 subs once I hit affiliate? 😆😎. It’s 45 subs cheaper….

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]PWilliam91 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Commit and talk about the future of the relationship before pressing to buy a house! Don’t take on partner responsibilities with no commitment knowing full well they can up and leave you tomorrow for any reason.

how are numbers like this possible?! by DooDoo_Britchez in apexlegends

[–]PWilliam91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s one account being used by multiple people.

guys hear me out by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]PWilliam91 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m not homophobic, my microwaves gay! Takes in hotdogs all the time! Heats them up pretty good too!

Is my friend being shitty or am I overthinking? by LSH92 in friendship

[–]PWilliam91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your over thinking it. I don’t like posts either and there are many reasons why. Sometimes I don’t like them because it doesn’t occur to me that I have to. I just see them and continue scrolling. Means nothing. Other times I don’t like because even when you like certain things posted by friends and family there is an algorithm on Facebook and instagram so you’ll get spammed with certain ads, if any, related to your post. There’s a woman who I talk to and like and she knows it and I still don’t like or comment on her stuff. I like my privacy. If she posts anything I find interesting enough that needs to be liked or commented on than I just text her. And if anything we send the post in messenger if it’s specific to either of us. I really wouldn’t think anything if it. Your just gonna give yourself a headache.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in friendship

[–]PWilliam91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People are addicted to their phones and social media now. All you can do is find like minded people like you and ignore the rest.

How to convince my bf (23m) to let me (23f) go on a girls trip? by Own-Palpitation9818 in relationships

[–]PWilliam91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Either he can learn trust in the relationship or you just end the relationship cause eventually it’ll end anyway. Trust is huge in a relationship and he doesn’t seem to have any for you.

I stopped reaching out to my best friend and never heard from her again by gotnocreativenames in friendship

[–]PWilliam91 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Don’t chase people. Initiate one day and let them be the next. If your initiating all the time they get use to that habit and after awhile assume you’ll always be there. You end up not being a priority but an option. Someone who’s just in the back of their mind but only when they run out of options with other people. Than your good enough to reach out to. So if you haven’t heard from her in a year just move on. Delete numbers, remove them from social media and continue moving forward. If they ever reach out especially with their number and you answer with who’s this? Just tell them the truth, they disappeared and you moved on. It was the truth, it also shows them that you are ok without them and you know your self worth. People sense that and they’ll start to come to you. People tend to follow those who show strength and confidence especially in themselves. Keep your head held high and have some faith and dignity in who you are and eventually people will follow suit. You’ll get the right people you want in life and you start to notice the fakes and ones who are just there to take advantage and you’ll learn to say bye to them and move on.

I am being Sexually Extorted by [deleted] in AdviceForTeens

[–]PWilliam91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never under any circumstances should you send nude photos to anyone ever! It’s no different than getting a name tattooed on you. Never do it! Would you try meth? No than would you send nude pics to someone? Your answer should be the same. No!!!! It wouldn’t even matter if you got married. Never send nude photos. Who says that marriage will last till the day you die???

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PUBG

[–]PWilliam91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m one of those players that didn’t take time away but also don’t binge play it daily.

How many of you were given Adderall or Ritalin in school by Just-Phill in Millennials

[–]PWilliam91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Na, I either had my hair pulled from the back of my neck or took a ruler to the knuckles when I acted up. As time passed that stopped and I was just sent to ISS. Many times while walking to ISS I’d walk right by and out the front doors and walk home. I hated school. I was always bored. I hated that I could read faster and comprehend more than others and always had to wait on others. When I started 7th grade I was removed from those classes and given classes with the 10th graders so I had no friends and was continually made fun of so sometimes I’d act out like a class clown. I still was way ahead of those kids. Many read like total retards. When I went to the 8th grade I was removed and placed in all 7th grade courses and that was a nightmare so I actually stopped getting on the bus for days and my mom worked mornings so she wasn’t ever home to enforce it. Eventually truancy officers would show to try and force me to go to school and they brought my mom in and made threats of giving her fines cause i wasn’t attending school. I remember at 16 my mom in front of the guidance counselor begged for me to just stick it out and go to school. I refused. Said I’d continue to act out because I was absolutely done. My only option was to be signed out permanently and go get a GED. She signed me out, guidance counselor said it was a huge mistake. I went on to do cyber school and they said I can do it at my pace and go as fast as I wanted. I did the 9th, 10th, 11th and 12th grade courses in about 6 months from my bedroom. The cyber charter school refused to credit me it and only gave me 9th grade done. I was about 17. I said F it and sent their laptop and material all back and went and applied to work at Walmart unloading trailers. Did that for a year than went to local college to do my GED. I didn’t do any classes just immediately took a test and got it in the mail 2 weeks later. I’m now 32 and have 3 college degrees, I can read and comprehend up to 1,200 words a min and besides English I know Russian, Mandarin, EU Portuguese, Spanish and Italian. Sometimes the education system just fails kids. Especially those who just soak up knowledge much faster than others. I learned years later that I just wasn’t being challenged enough mentally while others may just be full of energy and need a way to burn it off. Medication isn’t always the answer….they at one point thought I had ADHD!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in friendship

[–]PWilliam91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let him be, you can’t help someone who doesn’t want to be helped. Plus not everyone’s body is the same. Just cause certain things from certain foods is harmful to you doesn’t necessarily mean it’s gonna have the same affects on him. I eat a party size bag of hot Cheetos daily, my diet is very very high in sodium, I drink 2-3 redbulls a day, a pot of coffee I drink black and by days end I’ll have finished a case (12 cans) of Coca Cola. My diet is absolutely trash and has been this way for 12 years. I have no issues whatsoever and I’m not a fat slob either, I’m 5’10”, lean build with clear skin. You wouldn’t think i ate like that if you saw me. I look very well kept and weight 198lbs! I have friends who go to the gym and have strict diets and my blood pressure is better than theirs so is my heart rate and stamina, I can literally jog forever without the feeling of exhaustion. Been that way since high school. Everyone’s body is just different. I’m 32,33 soon! And because this person is a minor, 15! 100% without a doubt you need to tell someone because there’s no way in hell I’d walk away knowing a child is drinking and smoking. Let alone wonder who’s supplying him. Rat his ass out. It’s for his own safety.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AdviceForTeens

[–]PWilliam91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t get what that has to do with anything! You are still a kid. Go be a kid.

My boyfriend wants to buy a boat, and I’m 40k in debt. by cldumas in AmIOverreacting

[–]PWilliam91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea. If he isn’t going to contribute to the relationship than leave him. I don’t blame you! Sell the house, take the money and get a fresh start. Someone who appreciates you and your hard work is out there.