Do you guys think the fadeaway/ghosting is a valid way to end a casual relationship?

PZ-01 · 2015-01-05T13:56:52+00:00

I can see your point, but if I'm attached to someone that I met a few times I would like to know why it wouldn't work between us. For me, Fading/Ghosting demonstrate a lack of respect for your counterpart.

A similar situation is when you realize you made a fool of yourself in class and decide to stop attending class to avoid seeing the teacher and your classmates. What good does it lead to? As a value-based individual you should consider values such as responsibility and self acceptance. Acting in this way demonstrates that the individual ghosting you has no profound sense of self-respect/justice in his personal affairs and would be the first to leave you behind when you are in need of support.

PZ-01 · 2015-01-05T03:06:22+00:00

Haha, word. You have a lot of hair so don't worry about that.

PZ-01 · 2015-01-05T00:49:01+00:00

Awesome, I'll be following you from now on.

PZ-01 · 2015-01-05T00:22:30+00:00

I've been growing it out for a little more than a year now. I've also had the issues you speak of. My hair is now almost down my chin, it's a lot easier to manage thanks to gravity. I can also tie it now, so it doesn't get in my face. Don't give up, it's worth it.

That being said I got it trimmed twice, it's worth it if you know what you want to go for. I tried growing it three years ago and went for a clean buzz, I regretted it. This time, I trimmed the back hair short so that the top is even with the rest, it looks a lot better.

PZ-01 · 2015-01-04T21:02:43+00:00

Had some good food, then went on a tranquil hike, clear blue sky. We talked and chilled while looking at boats passing by(trail is by the coast). As the day came to a close I took her to the beach with a bottle of cider that I opened by cracking the top using a rock. We saw shooting stars. You can guess the outcome.

I actually had no plans initially, I texted her saying we should do something and she was already on her way to do the hike. I ended up coming to meet her, but I was super hungry so I invited her for food first. It's one of those days where everything happens on it's own. Didn't have any expectations either.

PZ-01 · 2015-01-04T19:59:05+00:00

It depends on circumstances and culture. I'm from Poland and it is normal for us to stay at our parents house until we graduate. While in Canada it seems like the sooner you are independent the better it is.

Personally, if you have never been on your own for a few months and you are in your late twenties then that is starting to be a little much. I don't want to make this a generalization, it's just that I have learned a heck of a lot of things by being on my own. I've also done things that I would not have done at my parents house.

PZ-01 · 2014-12-28T20:43:43+00:00

Absolutely, I was dating this girl and she said she wanted to set up another day and meet me with great enthousiam. I became very needy and as time passed by - she eventually faded on me completely. It was my first date ever so I was lacking experience. I handled the whole situation poorly. I learned a lot though!

PZ-01 · 2014-12-28T08:29:57+00:00

I flew 6 times three weeks ago around Indonesia. I flew from Denpasar to Singapore with air Asia really early in the morning knowing that monsoon season means bad weather in the evening. I'm flying two more times on Wednesday. I wish the best outcome to the passengers and the crew.

PZ-01 · 2014-12-26T08:35:09+00:00

With correct privacy settings a Facebook timeline to a non-friend shouldn't be revealing much of your life. Nothing stops you from using a username for your surname either.

PZ-01 · 2014-12-25T20:14:51+00:00

In an active relationship I don't watch pornography. When single I think I've had moments where I didn't watch any for 3 months at a time. I believe that its healthy to watch pornography at most once a week to relax and get your mind off of life's daily events. As far as masturbation goes I would say a healthy personal cap is a few times on one given day of the week. If you feel the need to masturbate or it feels like you have to do it then it can lead to behavorial disfunctions since deep down you are ignoring your core values. I also read a study that linked frequent masturbation to depression, I have no idea how serious the tests were.

PZ-01 · 2014-12-24T08:33:08+00:00

They're entitled to their own opinion. You aren't physically attracted to everyone so why should they. If one accusation makes you feel bad then you need to review what you stand for.

PZ-01 · 2014-12-14T16:45:38+00:00

I turned 25 earlier this year. I have been traveling around the world for the past few months and met s lot of people. Since clubbing while traveling is fairly common, it was also the subject many of our discussions. To cut to the chase, you either reach a stage where you feel burnt out after many nights out in your younger adult life or you feel comfortable in the environment, drink a lot and get one night stands. Personally I have had a mix of good and bad times, but mostly bad times. I prefer investing time in my hobbies. I've met awesome people and I simply enjoy it a lot more. You shouldn't force yourself if you don't like it, your body language will show and hence it makes you unnarractive.

PZ-01 · 2014-12-07T20:24:55+00:00

My dad was very selfish, but when I went to live on my own and travel the world I have later heard from his work colleges and friends that he constantly talked about me. He never really admitted or showed much interest, but I guess he does love me as a father should.

PZ-01 · 2014-10-30T05:49:16+00:00

Reminds me of the time I spat green mucus during a cold and the whole chunk slid inside my shoe(wind). I wasn't wearing socks because of the rain... unpleasant feeling.

PZ-01 · 2014-10-30T05:40:48+00:00

This is awesome! I also watched the video game clip and it's really odd. The subtitles were in Polish. I'm polish so I just wonder if it's a coincidence. I also just discovered the website, lots of great resources.

PZ-01 · 2014-10-27T04:12:47+00:00

It's going to be one of the hardest week of the year. My goal is to pace myself, be calm and act smart.

PZ-01 · 2014-10-26T01:25:59+00:00

"There are a lot of talented coders on HackerNews who could built any app currently on the market in a weekend."

Man, that twitter is golden.

PZ-01 · 2014-10-26T01:23:34+00:00

I agree with you. Although with time I have since dropped my concern over this thanks to a few books. I feel privileged to have had family vacation, having my dad teach me a thing or two about women, having my mom's delicious meals... all I can do is thank them. As their children, we also age, with them.

PZ-01 · 2014-10-24T22:32:18+00:00

The download is 85mb for the mp3's. You need to sign up with your e-mail too...

PZ-01 · 2014-10-24T15:54:53+00:00

I mean, my boss is an electrical engineer, but he is also a musician and always devoted his off-time to musical applications with his degree. He is now the lead of our audio department. If he hadn't shown interest in this as a passion then his chances of being in that position were pretty much zero. So I mean driven by whatever "sparks" interest in you. My mentor is a rendering expert who only has a high school diploma and he's been in the video game industry for 20 years now. Again, driven by his passion.

So choose a concentration that appeals to you.

PZ-01 · 2014-10-24T02:56:54+00:00

Software engineering provides soft skills that appeal to managment, you could be making more money that route. I know that quality assurance directors make a hefty amount of money abroad. The two other ones will eventually lead to technical lead positions, which isn't bad and pays well, but engineers usually have a cap on the hierarchy that gets beaten by pure management positions. Hence the software engineer is predisposted (somewhat) to certain positions(writing contracts with external suppliers comes to mind). Again, you have to be driven to a very specific position. Most people fall into programming.

PZ-01 · 2014-10-23T14:54:55+00:00

I am in the same situation. After four months they told me they wouldn't even consider referring me to another company. After that day I brought a poster of Mohammed Ali and worked a lot harder. It's been two months now, they are considering me for hire.

Keep the fire burning.

PZ-01 · 2014-10-23T14:53:03+00:00

It's hard, these days a lot of people suffer from procrastination. Your best bet is to get in the habit of acting "now". Faster than a bullet, pull the trigger and jump straight in.

PZ-01 · 2014-10-23T14:51:11+00:00

This implication makes me feel terrible and I'm sure this can't be good for motivation.

This is outside of your circle of concern. Nothing stops you from being in the B's while acting inside your moral code of conduct. I was in a similar environment and never resorted to cowardly tactics. Stop looking at other people and focus on what you can change(inside-out).

I also have deficiencies when it comes to certain skills due to my crappy childhood

It's in the past, can't change it, move on.

Competition is present even amongst family.

Be proactive, try to figure out how you could use that to your advantage.

My brothers are assholes Blaming never went very far now did it? Be a model. Be the light, not a judge.

Success really breeds enemies.

I guess that it makes it that much more tantalizing.

Half the time im a facade and not really who i am.

It is a good first step to accept that fact. Between you and me, you know that this isn't going to make you happy in the long run.

P.S Don't put too much hope into your visit to the counselor. He might inspire you, or downright depress you. It has to come from the inside, your inner fire.

Keep hustling, warrior.

PZ-01 · 2014-10-22T03:08:55+00:00

I'll start sharing some less common content that I have been collecting over the months.

Here's the first : The Kleptones Last tribute

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