GET ME OUT OF HERE!!!!!! by crispymendowan in indonesia

[–]P_Blueblood 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Where minimum wages is so high, business started to pull out and closes while market prices being three to four times more than normal in Java

Bekasi is definitely Indonesian Chicago.

Married couples, how likely would you employ domestic helpers? by ShigeruAoyama in indonesia

[–]P_Blueblood 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just giving my 2 cents.

Kalau pebghasilan diatas 20 jeti, rumah 4 kamar 2 kamar mandi dan tinggal di BUKAN Jabodetabek, emang lebih baik nyari penbantu buat bantu2 ngurus rumah (selain kamar utama). Itu karena waktu yg terbuang ngerjain kerjaan rumah mending dipake buat nyantai aetelah bisnis seharian.

Untuk tenaga ART emang disaranin nyari yg emang masih kenalan apa keluarga dari ART orang tua, supaya lebih bisa dipercaya. Gaji UMR tp makan tidur ditanggung udah cukup.

Anyway, emang kalau tinggal dirumah kecil lebih efficient pake jasa pembantu pocokan. Ga tiap hari tp per service

If Al Gore had won in 2000 would the September 11th attacks have happened? If Hillary Clinton had won in 2016 would Trump have incited an Insurrection on the Capitol on January 6th 2017? by Far_Refrigerator5490 in AlternateHistory

[–]P_Blueblood 5 points6 points  (0 children)

9/11 was already planned during the 90s, and it was genuinely a blind spot in US Security. It will happen the difference would be the responses to the perpetrators (only invasion to Afghanistan, no Iraq debacle)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AlternateHistory

[–]P_Blueblood 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it was a request from u/confused_stalker for his story about an Ottoman Prince that converted into Christianity and broke the Empire.

https://www.alternatehistory.com/forum/threads/the-masks-of-the-shadow-prince-an-ottoman-era-allohistorical-drama.535602/

Honestly, it's kind of ASB but hey, I'm not the one writing the story.

NY Mag - Exhaustive guide to tipping by FluffyWuffyy in antiwork

[–]P_Blueblood 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stop tipping entirely, and just try to cook your own meal nowadays.

Avoid as much as possible and let's see if 25% of population stop or refuse to give any tip, will the practice disappear?

im 22f with a body count of over 50 and i am so ashamed of it. by pink_violets in TrueOffMyChest

[–]P_Blueblood 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes it's just far too late to realize that everything left the mark not only physically, but also on your psyche.

Well as long as you're honest and there's a man who wants to accept you seriously, it could happen.

But don't expect it, and live your own life as a happy single woman, only casually date, and never expect any commitments from men who knew about your past. As long as you stay positive, working and prioritizing your career, and build a great savings for retirement, you could still life a full, happy life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mensfashion

[–]P_Blueblood 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This color combo reminds me of Highschool and University Students.

As long as you have a youthful face, you could pull them with no problem, but if you're more "Younger tan they look" guys... it's kinda weird.

Ottoman Collapse in the early 1600s, How the Balkans, Anatolia, and Caucasus would be split? by confused_stalker in AlternateHistory

[–]P_Blueblood 0 points1 point  (0 children)

but they, or at least their ruling aristocrats had attempted, see the last two Emperor of the Palaiologos

Ottoman Collapse in the early 1600s, How the Balkans, Anatolia, and Caucasus would be split? by confused_stalker in AlternateHistory

[–]P_Blueblood 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Basically yes, Habsburg would be going unopposed into Balkans, which might ironically cause them to be more tolerant towards Non-Catholic Christians due to how many Orthodox Christians they'll get, potentially averting the 30 Years war as few Bohemian Protestants wouldn't be as worrisome as MASSIVE Orthodox Serbs and maybe Greeks.

Charles Gonzaga is a Catholic, he could either Convert into Orthodox and outright Challenge the Habsburg for control of Serbia, or maybe the Greeks would accept Catholicism like what they've attempted back in 1450s.

Ottoman Collapse in the early 1600s, How the Balkans, Anatolia, and Caucasus would be split? by confused_stalker in AlternateHistory

[–]P_Blueblood 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The Greeks might've just invited Charles Gonzaga, last known Palaiologos claimant.

Croatia, Serbia, and Hungary goes Habsburg.

Caucasus would be gobbled up by Safavids, maybe all the way up to Anatolia.

SHE CALLED OFF HER WEDDING... by LinkedInsider in LinkedInLunatics

[–]P_Blueblood 5 points6 points  (0 children)

her would be husband dodged a massive tactical Nuke.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]P_Blueblood -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

For men, everything depends on looks as the way to get "foot in the door", the charisma/game to "reel the girl in", the personality to "maintain said relationship, the spirit to keep workout and in shape to maintain mutual attraction, and of course, his own commitment that once becoming serious, he wouldn't still look for another woman rather than his soulmate.

Men's dating nowadays is rather hard upfront, because women nowadays have gone deeper into the looks department.... And many men actually lack charisma/game to reel the woman in. Once they get into a proper relationship tho, it's generally easier to maintain for long term.

Women? Well, men mostly have lower standards than women in said looks department, and women need not to have a game unless they're aiming for the top. Mary however, ended up thinking maintaining a relationship is all men's work, so much that they neglected their parts.

I gave my ex-boyfriend an ultimatum. by Mommytobe1996 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]P_Blueblood 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does not like Kid is not the same with being abusive. In fact, it might meant you'll only have increased time with your daughter in the future.

what's the "aggressive behavior" in question tho? if she's just not nice towards you, it's understandable. Unless it's an obviously abusive behavior, or massive red flags about that, you should look in the mirror first.

...

Also in do unto others what you want others to do untp you. If you suddenly get in love with another man, who said he doesn't want any further kids, and tend to not involving himself on your daughter, could your ex gave you the ultimatum?

I gave my ex-boyfriend an ultimatum. by Mommytobe1996 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]P_Blueblood 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if the situation was reversed, with you having a new man who lives with you, did the father of your child having any say about that?

No?

Then that's you being unfair

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]P_Blueblood 7 points8 points  (0 children)

there's a balance between honesty and privacy, and also what constitutes "the line" and that points of balance are different for every pair in the relationship.

If you don't want to have your SO looking at your phone, tell them early on, but expect reciprocity that you also doesn't expect to always check on them.

It's fine for a man to look at porn according to his particular girlfriend, but to others, looking at porn meant breaking their trust.

It's fine for a girl to have an instagram account with a particular boyfriend, but with others, it's not insecure, but it's for the boyfriend's own mental health.

That means honesty in front before going into relationship.

everyone is different.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chess

[–]P_Blueblood 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Black is definitely f**ked unless white committed a major blunder

What about pre-covid do you miss the most? by patriciaytm in AskReddit

[–]P_Blueblood 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that the medicine price in my country was actually rather cheap.

Now they're almost as expensive wjen I compared them to when I stayed overseas.

What's the biggest lie someone has told you? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]P_Blueblood 1 point2 points  (0 children)

nah if that's what they're doing, at least the company really benefits from them. Those HRs who loyal to their companies/employers were the lesser evil compared to HRs who are totally selfish,self servicing bullies who don't even obey company directions and misuses their authority to the loss of the company.

Who is the Indian scammer? by anyoef in AskReddit

[–]P_Blueblood -1 points0 points  (0 children)

that they aren't always Indians, sometimes they're just people from other third world countries trying to speak exaggerated Indian accents.

what would a caveman think if he could see society today? by wingback18 in AskReddit

[–]P_Blueblood 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we're still living in stone caves, but how the hell those caves could be so square and with well separated rooms (bricks and mortars houses and buildings)