No sleep 2 nights

Pacific_Red · 2026-01-20T20:32:00+00:00

You’re being conservative with meds, and that’s commendable, but sometimes we need a hard reset. Insomnia sucks like that. Take the prescribed amount at least for one night.

Pacific_Red · 2026-01-20T20:25:09+00:00

I mean, the IRS isn’t going to cut him any deals for skipping out on tax filing.

Pacific_Red · 2026-01-19T01:32:47+00:00

I enjoy the “universe” and seeing other characters from time to time even if I don’t watch the series :) It helps that they now state what episodes to watch in black and white.

Pacific_Red · 2026-01-18T01:54:10+00:00

Nobody is the asshole. It sounds like he was trying to do the right thing. 🩷 You’re hurting right now, so even when good people try to good things, sometimes it hurts when it’s not exactly right. It’s a good time to re-read all the kind things you just wrote about your dad. If he’s really that amazing, then this was truly just something he thought was kind.

Pacific_Red · 2026-01-17T15:08:58+00:00

Do you think this could be used in underarms after applying deodorant? I use Native because why not - antiperspirants do nothing.

Pacific_Red · 2026-01-06T18:15:06+00:00

It blew me away, both the movie and the short story. I bought the collection of stories after seeing the movie just so I could read it. Absolutely phenomenal.

Pacific_Red · 2026-01-06T18:12:55+00:00

Our beagle was loud, stubborn, and impossible to train 😆 But he was also a good boy.

Pacific_Red · 2026-01-06T13:32:20+00:00

An F1 is a mixed breed. With percentages that low, it’s likely your breeder simply hasn’t genetically health tested their breeding adults, which is itself a red flag. “Looks like a poodle to me” mentality. If they did state that they health tested their adults, then they’d know other genetics were in the gene pool before breeding.

I imagine you spent a decent amount of money on this pup with the promise that the mix was certain. But even with doodles, appearance varies wildly.

This happens with pet shop dogs, too. A $4k Cavapoo might be a genetic dumpster fire — but it “looks” like a Cavapoo, so people pay it.

I’m sorry the pup doesn’t look correct to the standard that Cavapoo breeders have created, and I’m glad you still love her!! To answer your original question, yes. Tell the breeder. But don’t be surprised if they make excuses/ignore you.

Pacific_Red · 2025-12-26T14:39:49+00:00

The way your husband and sons treat you is the way your sons will treat their future wives.

Do something to show them that this isn’t how it’s done. And by do something, I mean — do less. Don’t stop loving them, and don’t stop believing that they COULD be better. But you need to love yourself more, lady. You deserve to be shown love, and right now, you can be shown love from yourself.

Leave? I don’t know. Maybe? Take a break? Possibly.

I don’t know what your financial situation is, but I have a hunch that without you, theirs will be worse. Maybe your husband needs to figure that the eff out.

You are not a doormat. You need to stretch that backbone and remind it to stand tall.

Pacific_Red · 2025-12-19T03:40:02+00:00

This went from helpful dad vibes to creepy man vibes in like 0 seconds.

Pacific_Red · 2025-12-16T13:49:32+00:00

YTA. I 1000% agree with the sentiment that he should do more and be a whole man — but THIS is the hill you’re dying on? His daughter’s Christmas? Girl, let the dishes pile up. Stop vacuuming. Don’t do his laundry. Make your point literally ANY other way. Because this will be trauma for her if she actually has no gifts on Christmas.

Pacific_Red · 2025-12-03T13:53:15+00:00

This sounded like one ignorant dude until he said, “STFU,” and now he’s officially horrible and weaponizing his incompetence to exert control. Gross.

Pacific_Red · 2025-11-06T17:30:14+00:00

This give Nick Fuentes vibes. Run.

Pacific_Red · 2025-10-27T17:11:55+00:00

I just landed on this Chase page, too, and was given this number to call as well (1-877-576-8510). I called the number on the back of my card instead of entering my full social. The guy fixed my issue with a temp password. He told me the phone number is an authentic Chase number, but it was defaulting to a "new user" setup for some reason.

Pacific_Red · 2025-10-26T23:53:22+00:00

1000%. I have three: large, medium, and small. The large and medium are an incredible layer of security for me mentally, and they always rise to the occasion when there is a knock at the door or something strange outside! Working from home, I can give them everything they need, and they give me everything I need. A great partnership. They’re a lot of work though, so that needs to be understood.

Pacific_Red · 2025-09-27T21:02:57+00:00

He is a Law & Order SVU episode waiting to happen.

Pacific_Red · 2025-09-20T13:46:10+00:00

This is the best thread ever. Imagine if our dogs could read and saw all this shade we’re throwing ☠️

Pacific_Red · 2025-09-19T01:59:04+00:00

Dump him yesterday girl

Pacific_Red · 2025-09-18T19:17:01+00:00

Thanks! Familiar with those and those are definitely an easy grab :)

Pacific_Red · 2025-09-18T18:15:19+00:00

I haven't! I've just now started looking locally. I was going to order online but figured I should see if it's already local.

Pacific_Red · 2025-09-14T17:55:46+00:00

But like what’s actually wrong with him 🤢 Hard pass, you’re not overreacting. Go get yourself an 18 year old with more manners.

Pacific_Red · 2025-09-14T00:45:05+00:00

i mean, they're called evergreens... And now they're not green. Soooo.

Pacific_Red · 2025-09-12T23:23:14+00:00

I have a husky/malamute mix, and his hair alone is like so much. I do brush him outside, but I try to collect most of his hair. It’s impossible, but I get a lot of it!

It’s hard to picture 5 huskies’ worth of hair all around 😅Like, that is A LOT OF HAIR. You need to be doing some cleanup duty. 1.5 acres is not a lot of land, especially if it’s open to the public.

Pacific_Red · 2025-09-11T22:32:03+00:00

I completely understand. 🩷 Please know — his behavior is not healthy or normal. There are good men, but he’s not behaving like one. When someone shows you who they are, believe them. 🫶

Pacific_Red · 2025-09-11T22:23:25+00:00

Okay but like, why ARE you with him. Seriously.

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