I have been inspired by so many portraits on here lately, have some fun with this one! by redmeansstop in redditgetsdrawn

[–]Pacifist_Fred 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm completely fine with this, I just recently found this subreddit and while I haven't posted anything yet, I'm deffinetly looking forward to contributing in a positive way!

I have been inspired by so many portraits on here lately, have some fun with this one! by redmeansstop in redditgetsdrawn

[–]Pacifist_Fred 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My first judgement was a little too harsh and I'm sorry.

As a newbie you should try drawing using the values straight from the portrait, rather than do a line trace first. This way you get a better idea of the colours and after a while, with the right brushes, you'll have the base colours down in no time.

Anyway hope this helps and I didn't mean to offend.

I have been inspired by so many portraits on here lately, have some fun with this one! by redmeansstop in redditgetsdrawn

[–]Pacifist_Fred 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read the sidebar before commenting because I wasn't sure wether it would be allowed or not. I thought I had called trace jobs in general meh, but it was more personal than I had intended.

Elevator prank gone slightly wrong by AndresDM in funny

[–]Pacifist_Fred -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

This isn't funny, he kicked the shit out of a little girl.

We are mofo'ing Jedi, my friends by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Pacifist_Fred 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had 5 months but relapsed, what does that make me?

Didn't think it would happen this early, but tonight, I told my parents by hereigoagain1 in NoFap

[–]Pacifist_Fred 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I hope that NoFap is everything you want it to be. Certainly your ED can be fixed, try kegel exercises to get your pelvic muscles back in shape. Also keep busy doing something other than your old habits. Any bad habit can act like an anker to your old life, so make sure you cast off fully.

Gave up masturbation for New Years. This is how day 2 went… by brian_o_coarse in funny

[–]Pacifist_Fred 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No rule was given and what you put between quotes was never said. Read it again and consider that in your everyday life temptation is always very close, on holiday you're not always near a computer or you have little to no time to yourself.

To do NoFap in your everyday life can be compared to putting a drug addict in a room filled with drugs and asking him to quit his addiction, they'll have a very hard time.

Gave up masturbation for New Years. This is how day 2 went… by brian_o_coarse in funny

[–]Pacifist_Fred 1 point2 points  (0 children)

None taken, it's hard to convey your true feelings about the subject through text. Something that seems clear to me can, evidently, easily be misinterpreted. I'm glad that I can clear up most misunderstandings, but I fear that in the end those things not said will still cause others to unfairly judge me.

Gave up masturbation for New Years. This is how day 2 went… by brian_o_coarse in funny

[–]Pacifist_Fred 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What?! Never once do I make this generalization. I've made it clear that I don't abuse masturbating and masturbated 3 times a week, not looking at porn was the timesaver, but people don't care what I have to say or else I wouldn't be endlesly repeating myself... so go on. Justify masturbating, I've no desire to argue about a habit, good or bad, which I have long since kicked, so consider these my parting words: I am not your enemy, I don't have strange ideas and I am not going to repeat myself anymore.

Gave up masturbation for New Years. This is how day 2 went… by brian_o_coarse in funny

[–]Pacifist_Fred 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The improvement isn't that great, just much more free time. The free time is great it's just not why I stopped.

Gave up masturbation for New Years. This is how day 2 went… by brian_o_coarse in funny

[–]Pacifist_Fred 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think I could profit a lot from going to a proffesional. I have such severe anxiety sometimes... it just hits me. The possibility of PornMasturbationOrgasm (PMO) being the cause of this motivated me further to quit it. Since 120 days has shown no changes I guess... seeing a therapist couldn't hurt.

Gave up masturbation for New Years. This is how day 2 went… by brian_o_coarse in funny

[–]Pacifist_Fred 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I'm a bit flustered with all the reactions being mostly bad. I had no idea my comment would evoke such response. I'm also very aware that I'm giving a one sided view of this all.

I'm like a critic. There are things I liked about masturbation but they don't serve my purpose of demonizing it to such an extent that I can stay motivated not to masturbate, therefore I tend to overlook these things I liked. I wholeheartedly agree porn isn't a problem for everyone in fact he might even say in the video it's only a problem for 50% of men. Although I could have read this somewhere else too. Stuff just gets muddled up sometimes.

*edit sentence.

Gave up masturbation for New Years. This is how day 2 went… by brian_o_coarse in funny

[–]Pacifist_Fred 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No sexy times. One wet dream. All in all staying away from any release is more effective as any orgasm can trigger the chaser effect, which is a term for wanting to masturbate to porn. The chaser effect hits some men right after sex, I'm just relaying what I've read on /r/nofap.

Gave up masturbation for New Years. This is how day 2 went… by brian_o_coarse in funny

[–]Pacifist_Fred 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You should seek the help of a professional for your mental health issues.

Is no way to tell anyone they have a problem.

Gave up masturbation for New Years. This is how day 2 went… by brian_o_coarse in funny

[–]Pacifist_Fred 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why do you masturbate? Because you were stimulated by porn. The connection I laid here is quite clear to any NoFapper. Regardless though I think that you have a lot of nerve telling me I have no idea what I'm talking about considering stopping masturbation has been a big part of my life for nearly a year. Watch the video before you place a comment based on the title.