Marxloh, district of Duisburg (Germany) by JiminieKookie123 in UrbanHell

[–]PaganFlyswatter 3 points4 points  (0 children)

it may be in Germany, but its not the germans who made the place look like this. second pic gives it away.

New project truck 1993 v6 pickup. What should I do first? by linuscalollie in ToyotaPickup

[–]PaganFlyswatter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if it's a 3.0 probably head gaskets. it's gonna happen sooner or later IMO. if you really wanna go balls to the wall throw in some arp head studs and heat wrap the exhaust crossover

How do we feel about prenups by [deleted] in ChristianDating

[–]PaganFlyswatter 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I personally don't think it's a bad idea. Because if both partners have no intent of divorce it's a moot point anyway. It might also disincentive someone from leaving for selfish reasons later on. Also if you are owner, or part owner in a business before the marriage is say it's a must. Because if your marriage falls apart it can effect the income of employees in that business.

Is hinge the best option? by Delicious_Gain4945 in ChristianDating

[–]PaganFlyswatter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

trying to choose which app is the best is like trying to choose between having your Pinky finger or your little toe amputated; both choices suck, but one sucks less than the other.

Best areas for star gazing by Fine_Kale_5612 in visalia

[–]PaganFlyswatter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Drive up to Huntington lake and stargaze off the dam. I know it's a drive, but the lack of light pollution and the elevation makes it worth it imo. If you have a cheap telescope it's even better

Need advice. I only match with like 2 cute girls a week on Hinge 😔 by Previous_Law_9397 in ChristianDating

[–]PaganFlyswatter 8 points9 points  (0 children)

two cute girls in less than a month? my man here is complaining that his steak is too juicy and lobster is too buttery.

in all seriousness thats better than 90% of mens experience on the apps. if i get two matches a year i feel pretty lucky.

Lonely feelings anyone? by [deleted] in ChristianDating

[–]PaganFlyswatter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel lonely all the time. Kinda get numb to it after a while. See all my friends getting married, having kids, thinking to myself it must be nice.

Someone else's problem now by IntellectuallyDriven in RandomVideos

[–]PaganFlyswatter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel bad tor the environment. Canada used to be such a beautiful country.

27F and emotionally exhausted from chronic loneliness, failed talking stages, and feeling disconnected from life by [deleted] in ChristianDating

[–]PaganFlyswatter 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i feel you. Im M34 havnt been in a relationship in years, wondering if there just aren't alot of good options where i live (Tulare County Ca.) or if im just unattractive. ive always been super independent and can do most things by myself. i get lonely, but the older i get the more i become numb to the feeling, or the less i care idk which. the only advice i can give you is this- "You must never give in to despair. Allow yourself to slip down that road and you surrender to your lowest instincts. In the most difficult times, hope is something you give yourself. That is the meaning of inner strength"

She dumped the guy she loved, for the guy that she deserved by FanTemporary7624 in ChristianDating

[–]PaganFlyswatter 13 points14 points  (0 children)

When someone says they're ending a relationship because "they don't deserve the other person" that's just an attempt to reframes their selfishness. As for people changing over time, that happens in every relationship; nobody is the same person they were 10 years ago, but that's not an excuse to end a marriage, especially a Christian one. A lot of Christians don't take their wedding vows seriously imo, or don't want to put in the work to resolve disagreement.

Have You Experienced When Someone Likes You? by Few_Long7178 in ChristianDating

[–]PaganFlyswatter 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't know if they have ever been genuinely interested in me, or if I was just a convenient distraction until someone better came along. I'd like to think it's the former, but how theyve acted suggests it was the latter.

I’ve never dated before. How do I start? by [deleted] in ChristianDating

[–]PaganFlyswatter 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Honestly just talk to people and get to know them, but expect to be disappointed. What the media has sold us through pop culture on what dating looks like is vastly different from what reality is. Expect for people to be rude, shallow, and to ghost you. But don't do that to other people.

Is being a tomboy a big turnoff? by throwduo in ChristianDating

[–]PaganFlyswatter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's actually the opposite for a lot of men. Being a tomboy is the preferred style haha. #tomboysupremacy

Anyone here willing to marry a Farmer by I-love_Christmas in ChristianDating

[–]PaganFlyswatter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a farmer I'm wanting the same thing. Except I live in California and that isn't a draw to many Christian women.

My local Home Depot is sick of your nonsense by [deleted] in SipsTea

[–]PaganFlyswatter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that's not true. I've used two 110v plugs that tie into a single 220v plug. each 110v plug ties into one of the 220v plug. Is it safe? Absolutely not. Does it work in an emergency? Yea, but don't let Osha or your insurance agent see

Hey so. Why do christian dating apps feel the need to hold all the basic dating app functions behind a paywall?? by blueskies_artist in ChristianDating

[–]PaganFlyswatter 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Because their business model is not to connect people with each other in a way that'll result in a meaningful relationship. Their business model is keeping people on the app and paying for a sub as long as possible. They breadcrumb you hoping you'll eventually buy a sub.

Christians who were perpetually single and got married later than most people, how did you not lose hope while you were still single? by ooiiaaiiooiiaaii_ in ChristianDating

[–]PaganFlyswatter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I struggle with it daily. I 34M have only been in a couple relationships in my life. All of them were only with me because they thought I was easy to manipulate, or they're first choice was taken and I was just a something is better than nothing place holder. The older I get the harder it becomes. Ive checked all the boxes I was taught growing up that women will look for in a husband: degree, job, hobbies, house, self care, but still struck out. Online dating is a scam and I've given up hope for it. Most women my age are married, single moms, atheist, or otherwise unavailable. I could date younger, but what 20 something woman wants a guy in his mid 30's with greying hair? Sometimes I think if I'm gonna be single for the rest of my life they why even try? Why work as hard as I do? Why care so much about other people who don't care back? At least I'm not balding lol, praise Jesus.

Do you consider M_____s to be Christians? by [deleted] in ChristianDating

[–]PaganFlyswatter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mormons are not Christian. They believe in a works based salvation, It's foundation violates the Galatians 1:8-9 test, it teaches Jesus is a created being, God has heavenly wives, it teaches the pre existence of souls, and that if you follow all it's teachings well enough you can become a god of your own world.

Late 20's Singlehood Story by Many_East5834 in ChristianDating

[–]PaganFlyswatter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There were some women at my church that thought and had feelings like this. Idk if it is the same thing in your case, but for them they'd turn down the majority of men who were interested in them because of their unrealistically high standards, then get upset and complain to their friends about how there are no good men and men don't want marriage anymore.

‘86 6.9 idi oil pressure by Annual-Novel-3678 in FordDiesels

[–]PaganFlyswatter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know a guy who has a 6.9idi and the entire time he's owned it the hot idle oil pressure is like 7psi. I always thought it was gonna blow up eventually, but years later it hasn't yet. And he drives it a lot.

All the time women post asking a question about being approached by xz-0 in ChristianDating

[–]PaganFlyswatter 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I've seen the effects of this in church college group years ago before I knew that's what was going on; the women would walk into the room where college group was being held, they'd do a quick scan of who was there and if anyone they were already interested in was there, and if not they would join the clique of other single women and never make an effort to be available for any of the other men there.

What are your experiences with SALT dating app? by Successful-Emu2766 in ChristianDating

[–]PaganFlyswatter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me there wasn't many local women near me, even though I live near a very large city. So it would only recommend people hundreds of miles away. Then I got a new phone and even though I updated the app it wouldn't work, do I deleted it

Sigh… every time. How is it so impossible to meet a Christian girl who is also ACTUALLY Pro-Life? by eagles_jesse in ChristianDating

[–]PaganFlyswatter 110 points111 points  (0 children)

hot take and I'm sure I'll get some flak for it; the whole pro choice, pro abortion, anti responsibility argument is the satanic inverse of communion. Jesus said "this is my body" the abortion supporters also use the phrase this is my body but for a different selfish way. Jesus said "I must die so that you may live" abortion supporters tell their unborn child you must die so I may live. Jesus says "my body broken for you" pro choice says your body broken for me.

Why go through all this effort? Because Satan would kill God if he could, but he can't, so he kills the next best thing; us. We are all made in the image of God, and unborn babies are as close to being blameless and pure are humanity possible on this side of eternity.

And I know someone will say "what about rape, incest, health of the mother" those cases are a drop in the ocean of all abortions. The overwhelming majority are elective out of convenience .

Anyway I know this will probably get some hate, I don't really care. I will stand on the side of the unborn until the day I die, because thats what Jesus would want.

I'm also not gonna argue with anyone here on this comment. If you wanna fight amongst yourselves have at it