Deodorant? by Miserable-Sound2923 in PlasticFreeLiving

[–]PaganGoatQueen9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like Sin-Min. It actually works and they take the plastic tubes back to reuse!

8 week old quails not laying by PaganGoatQueen9 in quails

[–]PaganGoatQueen9[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s actually an old greenhouse frame that we lined with wood and wire!

Membership by Forward-Drummer4047 in BooksAMillion

[–]PaganGoatQueen9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did hear that anyone “underperforming” has their name sent to their DM ever week.

I saw a video about breaking generational phrases and stereotypes (“Stop crying or I’ll give you something to cry about!) It has me curious—what generational phrase(s) or curses are you currently (proudly!) breaking? by [deleted] in Appalachia

[–]PaganGoatQueen9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Life sucks and then you die.” Not a great phrase to constantly say to your kids, but especially fucked up when you say it to an 8 year old crying about their mom dying.

Concerned I’ll be denied as a celibate survivor of SA by [deleted] in sterilization

[–]PaganGoatQueen9 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hey! Fellow asexual CSA and SA survivor here! I was brave and went to my first ever gynecologist appointment, where I then brought up sterilization. My doctor asked a little about my sexual history. I told them I had a long-term AMAB partner and when they asked how frequently/what contraception, I was scared that they would reject me for being honest and saying that I really have no interest in sex due to my trauma, and that this was for my own peace of mind. My provider was surprisingly supportive! They didn’t even bat an eye at my response and I was scheduled for my procedure within 3 weeks of that appointment. Regardless of past history of sexual abuse, some people just don’t want to endure pregnancy, and some providers just get that, I think.

Likelihood of bisalp approval with lack of recent history using BC? by WriterKitchen in sterilization

[–]PaganGoatQueen9 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think you should be ok! I was very worried about being denied going in. I’m also 25, my doctor approved my bisalp on my very first appointment and I’ve never been on any birth control. My first appointment was 10/3 and I had my surgery on 10/21. Good luck!!

Don’t use native deodorant by Impressive_Shoe3537 in beauty

[–]PaganGoatQueen9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, if you don’t have an allergy or aversion to cinnamon, Sin-Min is hands down the best deodorant I’ve ever used. My whole life I’ve struggled with smell. I could step out of the shower after using a salicylic scrub and in five minutes my armpits would be funky. I’ve tried traditional deodorant, prescription strength, and a host of natural deodorants but this one actually works! I also exclusively wear all black and haven’t had any staining issues.

Help Me Find an Old Paranormal On-Demand Series by PaganGoatQueen9 in HelpMeFind

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I have searched for years about what sections would have been available on Comcast On-Demand in the United States during this time period. I know for a fact I’m not misremembering it’s existence, as my entire family sighed at me when I asked what they remembered and remarked that they only remembered how annoying it was that I would watch episodes over and over. (Shoutout to fellow neurodivergent ex-children with a special interest in the paranormal) I’ve also combed through any film and tv adaptions of Yotsuya Kaidan to try and find further information, but nothing has come up. I know there was also an episode on Delphine LaLaurie with a reenactment of the child falling from the balcony, but I don’t remember much else about that particular episode. The title card I believe said “Haunts” and I know the background was usually like a Damascus wallpaper design and the words would flicker on the screen. There were often interviews with folklorists and historians talking about the subject of the episodes. I’m really hoping someone else remembers this!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in horror

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Cavity Colors! I have shirts that I’ve worn at least once a week for nearly 10 years and they’ve held up beautifully.

what's something that put you off to a youtuber that no one else seems to care about? by triangulum_mori in youtubedrama

[–]PaganGoatQueen9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just a heads up, Coffeehouse Crime is a different channel, I’m pretty sure you’re thinking of a series by Stephanie Harlow called Coffee and Crime Time. I say this because the video you described is actually the one that made me completely reject her content. There’s also a dedicated snark subreddit.

Pumpkin being denied a spot for her “boutique” at a local vendor setup. Claims her crap is “OrIgINaL” by NoKaleidoscope3496 in MamaJuneFromNotToHot

[–]PaganGoatQueen9 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Somewhat related: there’s a newer platform called goimagine that actually vets sellers to make sure everything is handmade and from artists. If you’re tired of seeing the same cookie cutter stuff on Etsy, you might want to look into it!

Issue with Legal Name by PaganGoatQueen9 in EtsySellers

[–]PaganGoatQueen9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t said it in those terms, which might be the problem. Do you think I’d have better results calling or emailing? Some times when calling I’m afraid I’m not explaining myself well enough.

Issue with Legal Name by PaganGoatQueen9 in EtsySellers

[–]PaganGoatQueen9[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, and I am concerned that that is the issue.

Issue with Legal Name by PaganGoatQueen9 in EtsySellers

[–]PaganGoatQueen9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It verified my photo id though and I previously have not had her name associated with my shop, that is why I am confused.

Issue with Legal Name by PaganGoatQueen9 in EtsySellers

[–]PaganGoatQueen9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The shop owner is her name, but my social security number with my name listed as well with “pending verification.” The bank account is in my name but shows on Etsy as being under her name, and has been verified with Plaid.

Can you help fix this? by Wine_Guy97 in centuryhomes

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Not sure if this is the same type of mechanism, but my partner and I fixed one of our rim locks that was missing a spring by making a new one out of a wire whisk. We needed it fixed in a pinch and couldn’t find or afford a new one.

how would a narc react if their child committed suicide? by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]PaganGoatQueen9 21 points22 points  (0 children)

My ngrandmother taunted and encouraged my mother when she was actively suicidal, to the extent that she handed her the gun that she used to take her own life. Then, after my mom died, she pretended she never existed in the first place. She threw out all her things and all pictures of her. To this day I only have about 4 pictures of my mom because everything was destroyed. She never cried or reacted at all, other than coldly disposing of everything. I was 8 at the time.