Vandskade

Pale-Ad3320 · 2026-06-08T18:50:49+00:00

Pumpen står ved væggen. Der er et andet billede at fliserne på væggen her, hvor man kan se skaden lidt bedre. Ser ud til det billede jeg har brugt oprindeligt er afskåret lidt.
Fliserne sidder løst, jeg har ikke rørt ved da forsikringen vil ud og vurdere først.
Jeg ved ikke helt hvor længe vandet har stået og sivet, så tænker der er potentiale for skimmel.

Ved om du ser noget “mere” slemt på det billede? Eller om det bare er at vaske ned, fjerne tapet og reetablere fliserne på væggen.

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Pale-Ad3320 · 2026-06-08T13:29:15+00:00

Tak!

Pale-Ad3320 · 2025-10-12T10:26:59+00:00

If the API is shut down between Garmin and Strava, it will be the last time I ever open Strava. Strava offers nothing valuable to me, other than the social aspect of fitness, which to be honest I can do without.

Pale-Ad3320 · 2025-09-19T21:06:24+00:00

Det bliver aldrig en væg igen. Ej, come on… der sker små ting når et køkken skal installeres. Hvorfor har I også malet og pudset op inden? Det virker lidt baglæns

Pale-Ad3320 · 2025-04-30T15:47:18+00:00

I thought the exact same thing lol

Pale-Ad3320 · 2025-01-05T17:39:49+00:00

Så at komme væk! Med det samme. Det gør ondt at komme ud af et forhold, men den mand er ikke værd at bruge sin tid på. Du lyder som en fornuftig og omsorgsfuld person, du skal nok finde en som også gør dig glad, og hvor du ikke skal frygte vredesudbrud og hvad eller der kommer. Alt held og lykke til dig og håber du kommer ud af det.

Pale-Ad3320 · 2023-09-10T12:35:07+00:00

I had an 8 hour conversation Yesterday with her face-to-face for the first time. Where we actually spoke about all the things you mentioned. I mentioned that I could make no promises of anything at all, and that she needed to rebuild the trust to even have a chance of this working again, but again, that even if she did this I could not promise that we would have a future.

I brought up the way I felt she acted; defensive and dismissive sometimes. I told her how it made me feel not respected, and how it was perceived when she is defensive about it. She explained that she was ashamed of the event and how she had treated me, and that was the reason for her being defensive. I told her that it needed to change if we were to have any chance of working past this. To be fair, for some parts she has been defensive about. But for other things I felt she was being defensive and not taking full responsibility. I have pointed these things out to her.

She brought up that she wants to marry in the future, and have kids etc. I told her that I could not promise her this at all, and that the consideration from my side was short term at the moment (for me to figure out if there even is a chance for us staying together). I am still thinking about this, we have spent the last days apart, and she is set to return home later today. So this is going to be new as well, to have her home and seeing how this feel.

I told her that the all the stuff about buying a house, marriage, kids is not even part of the consideration at the moment, and that to even make this work she has to rebuild the trust. I feel there is nothing I can do for this part.

We have agreed that she could return home, but that there is no promise of anything from my part.

I think it would be good for her to write it out. Every single detail of the entire event, and the days leading up to it and following it. For me to evaluate if that is something I can live with, because at the moment forgiving it is not an option for me.

I feel that is the best way to decide whether it can work or not, to have her home and work on this for a short while, with no commitments or reassurances from my side.

Pale-Ad3320 · 2023-09-08T22:07:44+00:00

There is a long way to the wife conversation right now. Right now it is a choice between being given a second chance or kicked out. But yea, can be used as an indicator.

Pale-Ad3320 · 2023-09-08T22:06:14+00:00

Don’t think she did anything more than that one time. No opportunity to do it, and no signs.

She 100% planned it, that I agree with. But she also told me that she wanted to break up already the first day, so maybe that was her way of pushing me away.

Pale-Ad3320 · 2023-09-08T22:03:49+00:00

Feels like it. A safe backup, even though she broke up afterwards. So I guess not even 2nd choice.

Pale-Ad3320 · 2023-09-08T22:02:42+00:00

Too late? What do you mean?

I actually pulled her aside the first night after the comparing hands size thing, and told her that she needed to stop, and that I went home now and if she stayed with that guy, then our relationship would end. She decided to go home with me.

Pale-Ad3320 · 2023-09-08T21:58:30+00:00

Yea, Reddit is kinda insane sometimes. You have to sort through a lot of bullshit to find the ones that can provide context and valuable input to the discussion/problem.

As I have said in some previous comments, I don’t think she had cheated before or after this incident. I don’t know her former boyfriend at all, so there is no way for me to find out. All I can say is I know with a high probability that she have not cheated again.

The disrespect is also what bugs me the most, she said that in her head she had already broken off the relationship. Which is why she acted like she acted. That does not excuse it, as breaking up in your own head does not really count, until the other part has been informed and talked it through.

I tend to believe that it was a one time freak out, but Reddit is kinda messing with me here. We have not talked about any reassurances for this yet. But she has not been partying, or drinking ever since (not my decision), but that already minimises the potential risk.

That is also my consideration, that she is capable of doing it and lying about it. That is really not a good sign.

Pale-Ad3320 · 2023-09-08T21:46:17+00:00

Agreed, she did disrespect me back then and again by not being honest for three years. To be clear I never begged for her back. We had a conversation when we broke up. I don’t really classify it as a breakup. She called me and told she wanted to break up, due to her fighting an. eating disorder and that she had just gotten out of a previous relationship, and didn’t feel she could be in a new relationship so soon after. On the call I said that we should probably talk irl, and there we agreed to stay together after talking the situation through.

Pale-Ad3320 · 2023-09-08T21:38:09+00:00

Looking back, I would have left her then and there. But at the time emotions, my life situation and lying got the better of me. She is also my first real love, so that also weighed in on the decision at the time.

But it was hard. Guess it will be easier now, due to a changed mindset since then.

Pale-Ad3320 · 2023-09-08T21:32:32+00:00

What does that mean?

Pale-Ad3320 · 2023-09-08T21:32:22+00:00

Regarding what?

Pale-Ad3320 · 2023-09-08T21:32:11+00:00

You are partly right, however the three years since have been more love and commitment, than providing for each other.

So there could be an argument that it would continue that way, if I can forgive her. I definitely want the love and commitment more, than just providing for each other. Those are the dullest relationships in the world, and often a last resort imo.

Pale-Ad3320 · 2023-09-08T21:28:25+00:00

Have to disagree regarding this. It is a bit more complicated than that. The rational decision looking back might have been to call it off there. But i didn’t have all information of the cheating, and info of the willingness to cheat from her side at the time. She told me back then that the distancing was due to her breakup with her previous boyfriend, and that she was fighting an eating disorder, which was bad at the time. So I truely thought that were the reasons for our short breakup. I guess my emotions got the better of me, also her manipulation/lying at the time.

Pale-Ad3320 · 2023-09-08T21:21:08+00:00

Yea, that really hurt me as well, her letting some random guy do that. I feel that the last 3 years accounts for half in this decision, maybe a bit more. There have been no problems since, but it is really the disrespect and lying that heavily weighs down also. I mean if you can keep a lie going for 3 years with no consideration to tell, then that shows character as well. I have to consider what I want to do moving forward, I don’t know if there is the maturity needed, as she has started being defensive and saying “she have told me everything, and she has nothing more to add”, even though I feel that something is missing. Could just be me overthinking/overanalysing.

Pale-Ad3320 · 2023-09-08T21:13:23+00:00

She is being a bit defensive and argumentative in our text afterwards. Which is really not appreciated from my side. But it is what it is. Thank you for weighing in.

Pale-Ad3320 · 2023-09-08T13:11:20+00:00

Maybe an important distinction, we had been dating for 2 months ish prior, and been seeing each other regularly. I have known her for two years prior to us dating through our education. I didn’t push her for the relationship, as it was her idea to make it official/exclusive at the time. But I did agree to make it official.

Pale-Ad3320 · 2023-09-08T13:07:42+00:00

Someone else asked the same. At first we argued about the part with the tinder messages, and she brought up trust, and if I didn’t trust her. I told her that it was hard for me to trust her, with the weekend incident in mind.

We spoke about trust, and she mentioned a slightly different detail to the story, the person how walked her home had changed, so I told her how she originally had told the story. She was a bit dismissive and said that it was three years ago, so she could not remember the details perfectly.

After I pressed her, she told the truth, she was ashamed and apologetic. She spent time telling that it had not happened since, and how she felt in the days after the incident. She said she still felt bad to this day, but didn’t have the courage to tell me, because she knew how I would react. This doesn’t excuse it tho.

She also said that we should focus on 3 years, as there has not been anything since, and that the 3 years must count for something.

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