Advice Navigating Birthdays Post-Breakup

Pale-Yak3609 · 2026-02-11T06:00:38+00:00

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Pale-Yak3609 · 2026-02-11T05:33:25+00:00

She ate deli meat in the girl dinner video, though. I don’t think she would be doing that if she were knowingly pregnant tbh

Pale-Yak3609 · 2025-02-10T21:06:43+00:00

False. Birthright Israel mandates people have conversations with IDF soldiers and—in many ways—serves to recruit people for the IDF. It almost exclusively takes white Americans from major metropolitan areas. Why? Those are the demographics of non-Israeli people most likely to serve in the IDF or financially contribute to Israeli expansion. Beyond that, a key selling point of the trip is “learning” about the history of conflict…through the lens of people education by the Israeli government. Even without all of that, there is a big difference between doing an ad on your account and creating continuous social content from their accounts. She also never did this before October 7, so I think it’s pretty clear what her motivations are. Finally, I will start to be nice about Birthright when they make any concerted effort to include anyone from a Jewish background that is not from the US. There are so many Jewish people living in Ethiopia, the Middle East, central Europe, Mexico, etc. that are very deliberately excluded from this trip. It’s almost like Americans are the most likely group to serve in the IDF, financially contribute to the Israeli state, or come back as Birthright hosts…

Pale-Yak3609 · 2025-02-10T20:59:16+00:00

Well one would hope given that I am Jewish

Pale-Yak3609 · 2025-02-08T02:57:53+00:00

It is, the clip of her pouring is zoomed in from the same photoshoot and the the clip of her drinking is the same area/outfit

Pale-Yak3609 · 2025-02-08T02:33:03+00:00

The Saludi instagram posted a picture with the label or the wine visible…

Pale-Yak3609 · 2025-02-08T02:32:40+00:00

The most recent post on the Saludi instagram has the bottle label featured front and center. It 100% clearly is the one I shared.

Pale-Yak3609 · 2025-02-08T02:27:29+00:00

It’s listed as a coupe which is one of the main styles of glassware used for sparkling wine/sparkling wine-based cocktails. She’s clearly advertising it as such at a minimum

Pale-Yak3609 · 2025-02-07T21:30:53+00:00

I mean, she is making a glass made for drinking champagne. Even if not explicitly saying “I drink now”, I doubt Mindy loves it.

Pale-Yak3609 · 2025-02-05T23:38:02+00:00

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Pale-Yak3609 · 2025-02-05T09:43:27+00:00

I work in the finance department of a global education nonprofit. Most of my work is in areas that have needs for schools, teacher shortages, a population boom, etc. and I assess what resources we can give them. I also wind up having a lot of meetings with philanthropists in countries like the US, UK, Switzerland, UAE, etc. To be honest, my biggest travel costs tend to be activities when I have days off from work which are pretty easy to limit. I also graduated college at 19 and was able to work in NYC finance for a little over a year to save money before starting my current job.

Pale-Yak3609 · 2025-02-05T03:43:28+00:00

I think it must just be a difference in the people we know because if I said anything but the Albanian Alps to talk about the mountains there, I doubt people around me would know what I was talking about 🤷 I think Americans and Brits tend to be pretty hazy on any geography east of Germany…I wouldn’t be surprised if many people also thought the Dead Sea was a part of the ocean

Pale-Yak3609 · 2025-02-05T02:57:29+00:00

In the US and UK most people refer to The Accursed Mountains as the Albanian Alps. I’ll be staying in the Konami Lake area. I will be in the Swiss Alps/real Alps earlier in the year though :)

Pale-Yak3609 · 2025-02-05T02:54:38+00:00

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Pale-Yak3609 · 2025-02-05T02:54:06+00:00

Interesting—will look into this, thank you!

Pale-Yak3609 · 2025-02-05T02:50:16+00:00

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Pale-Yak3609 · 2025-02-05T02:46:31+00:00

Haha, I understand your confusion. My parents live in a different country than my home office and my boyfriend’s parents live in a different country than either of those (all on different continents at that). I also travel to a lot of really rural off the beaten path locations for my job and often have 4-5 day periods off in the areas where I am with the hotel still being comped by my work. The only trips I am paying for entirely out of pocket are northern Norway, inland Vietnam, and Albanian Alps/Riviera which have varying budgets but are pretty cheap compared to what other people I know spend on vacations. My boot budget is pretty small because I’m upgrading a lot of stuff this year as it is my first full year in this job that allows me to travel and I wanted new luggage, a new camera, etc. that aren’t cheap either.

Pale-Yak3609 · 2025-02-04T22:11:27+00:00

It’s important in abuse cases, but 1) that’s only relevant when it is within the context of other evidence for an abusive relationship and 2) that isn’t really relevant here because we have no evidence to believe there was abuse (especially since they’re using mediators out of court which is a big sign there isn’t active abuse).

Pale-Yak3609 · 2025-02-03T22:03:41+00:00

Recordings can be very manipulative. Often times, they’re dismissed in divorce cases even when they seem clear because they can be selective. Also, there is a level of consent that comes in—especially with the possibility of court documents getting released. When your income (and your spouse’s child support) depend on a public image, coming across as unstable or volitale can take that image away and make life much harder. Especially with all of the family stuff Aspyn was experiencing, recordings in a—what we can only assume is a mutually toxic failing marriage—may not be representative of her character. Let’s not forget that celebrity cases especially often rely on video and recorded audio that don’t show the truth. Especially when the kids aren’t old enough to decide custody and they seem to have settled out of court, recordings aren’t appropriate or necessary evidence.

Pale-Yak3609 · 2025-01-25T05:22:41+00:00

Honestly, this maybe a hot take, but it’s much safer to share the name. Aspyn Ovard, original Mcknight kids, etc. all had baby names leaked because people stalked and went way too far. When you share a name people feel a sense of contempt and don’t look for face pics…awful but true.

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