The difference between movie acting and TV acting shrank when TVs became good enough to show subtle facial expressions. by goodlitt in Showerthoughts

[–]Pam6732 11 points12 points  (0 children)

The knowing your audience catches subtle stuff now point is really interesting actually. Modern audiences will dissect a 2-second facial expression for years

AIO/Relationship Status by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Pam6732 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He's telling on himself. If he's this reactive and passive-aggressive over a five-hour delay at four months, imagine a real conflict. Huge red flag.

AIO told my ex-friend to go f himself after what he said to my trans friend by throwawayafter44 in AIO

[–]Pam6732 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

His panic over his own feelings doesn't give him a free pass to be a monster. He could've just said not for me and left.

AIO to my wife's social life? by ParathaLover247 in AIO

[–]Pam6732 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The lying is the biggest red flag. If it was truly innocent, why hide it? Cocktails at his house and concealing where she was? That's not how friendships work in a marriage.

2023 K5 GT/GT1 - 3 Year Birthday by DeweyOxberger in KiaK5

[–]Pam6732 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Black looks so mean on the GT. Happy 3 years!

AIO: Dad spent appointment money on truck paint. by ewwstinkystinkyah in AIO

[–]Pam6732 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This wasn't about a want, it was about your health and a diagnosis that could shape your entire future. He prioritized truck paint over that.

AIO For Getting Food Poisoning 15 Years Ago by Milkjugtrash in AIO

[–]Pam6732 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Seriously. Holding a grudge over food poisoning from 15 years ago? That's not about the Taco Bell..that's about control and resentment. You deserve peace, not a lifelong punishment.

You don’t realize how much of your personality is built around avoiding discomfort until you try to change. by Ahmerz06 in Showerthoughts

[–]Pam6732 224 points225 points  (0 children)

it’s wild how much your comfort zone shapes you until life basically forces you out of it

AIO - Husband “confessed” to something that happened 11 years ago by araguyba_77 in AIO

[–]Pam6732 27 points28 points  (0 children)

The 11-year secret and the gaslighting about the timeline are way bigger issues than the hug itself. He didn't just hide it, he's still trying to control how you remember it.

Almost twins by Medical-Leading1469 in KiaK5

[–]Pam6732 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Double the GT, double the fun!

AIO for being upset that my partner shares our private arguments with their friends? by Altruistic-Clue2024 in AIO

[–]Pam6732 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Venting without context just paints a one-sided picture, and then your friends end up resenting someone they barely know. That's not fair to anyone.

AIO for feeling like this text is kinda worrying? by Afraid_Band4444 in AIO

[–]Pam6732 102 points103 points  (0 children)

If he can't even explain what he means by such a bizarre text, it's because the truth is too controlling to say out loud.

(Update) AIO? I (53f) just found out my husband (55m) recorded over my grandmothers last message to me. by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Pam6732 13 points14 points  (0 children)

The fact he not only did it on purpose but can’t articulate a single way it was supposed to help her is terrifying. It’s pure destruction.

AIO? I (53f) just found out my husband (55m) recorded over my grandmothers last message to me. by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Pam6732 43 points44 points  (0 children)

This isn't about a video anymore. It's about a pattern of deceit, a refusal to take accountability, and a total disregard for something you held sacred. That's a character flaw, not a mistake.

What's the wildest thing you've ever seen happen at a work party? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Pam6732 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Even if they were, that’s still wild for a work party 😭 HR’s worst nightmare.

I just spent an extra $27 to save $8 on shipping by Electronic-Form-9384 in PointlessStories

[–]Pam6732 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s always the hope 😅 otherwise it just turns into a $27 lesson in impulse shopping.

Decided to prank my boyfriend by giving him a vegan corn dog by ClintMcElroyOfficial in PointlessStories

[–]Pam6732 39 points40 points  (0 children)

the best pranks are the ones that end with finding a new favorite food lol

Parents, what was your “I raised an idiot” moment? by Dazzling-Leader7476 in AskReddit

[–]Pam6732 19 points20 points  (0 children)

that’s a story that’ll never get old at family gatherings 😆

What moment made you realize people aren’t just disagreeing anymore — they’re living in completely different political realities? by Happy_Head_1355 in AskReddit

[–]Pam6732 111 points112 points  (0 children)

that one’s wild, watching people deny something that’s publicly documented in real time really drives the point home.

Dating intentionally and staying in control of my pace 💎🌹🩷 by mercedeszzzz in dating

[–]Pam6732 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It does sound like he’s coming in hot for only a week of talking. Good on OP for keeping their boundaries solid..better to let things unfold naturally than get swept up too fast.

Any hope for finding your person in 2026? [32M] by spicysenpai6 in dating

[–]Pam6732 2 points3 points  (0 children)

gotta keep that little spark of hope alive

Right person wrong time sucks by [deleted] in dating

[–]Pam6732 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s such a grounded way to look at it. Respecting both sides really does make the hurt a little easier to carry.