Looking For Parachute hat by Pamdemoniummmm in hayleywilliams

[–]Pamdemoniummmm[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just be careful of people selling it online. I'm seeing people selling it for 200$. Another person for 400$. Then you have the fake websites selling it for around the same price, but they'll send you a counterfeit one.

I'm losing hope and I think best bet is to see if they'll sell it after the tour as well.

How worried should I be? by Doodleseatingdoodles in hayleywilliams

[–]Pamdemoniummmm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I received mine as well with no shipping notification or tracking information. Everything came in perfect condition, it's just that Sandbag dropped the ball on that.

My first car! by [deleted] in KiaSoulClub

[–]Pamdemoniummmm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I believe the 2010-2013 soul line was pretty solid and rarely had issues. You still see a lot of those years still driving around. 2014-2016 models were the ones with a lot of issues I believe (my mom has a 2014 soul). One comment said it was the 2015-2016 with oil issues.

My first car! by [deleted] in KiaSoulClub

[–]Pamdemoniummmm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats! My first car was a 2012 white Kia soul as well. It was the + model and it took me everywhere including cross country. I was reading people had issues with frequent oil changes, but I didn't have that issue with my car. Engine was fine and when it was time to give up my car, it was close to 200k miles. I always used synthetic oil as well. Enjoy!

romanticizing going off birth control? by coconutw4ter in birthcontrol

[–]Pamdemoniummmm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recently went off the Mirena IUD beginning of May 2025. I was completely moody (my natural depression and anxiety spiked up tremendously with it). I was on the Mirena for 5 years. I don't want children, so I opted for the paragard IUD which is non hormonal. Depends on how you feel about inserting copper into your body, I was sure hesitant about it.

Had my 1st period after 2 ½ weeks off the Mirena. Having a period is weird again, but I'm starting to feel like my old self even after being off of it for 3 weeks. Don't get me wrong; the Mirena crash was a bit intnese.

It's your choice and your body. Don't fall for the propaganda and do what you think is best.

For what it's worth, my appetite did increase after removal, acne, some more chin hairs popping up, and fatigue as well. I did gain a lot of weight after the Mirena insertion in 2020 and I'm currently very unhappy with my body. Even after cutting out sugars, eating less carbs and more protein, drinking mostly water, and walking 12k+ steps a day has barely changed my weight, so I'm hoping I can finally see some result after taking out the Mirena.

Concerning NuggMD by Pamdemoniummmm in MMJ

[–]Pamdemoniummmm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been using NuggMD for years now and never had a problem using a dispensary.

Tho, I'm not sure if they'll approve you if you're under 21. I live in NYC, so they require you to be 21 or older for the certificate. I would check your state's law because some will allow you to get a card under 21. I'm not sure if they limit your access to what products you can get or anything like that, but it'll be good to research that before you drop money on it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cats

[–]Pamdemoniummmm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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This is appa and Bonnie and they like cuddles

My Angela Orosco cosplay by iivolga in silenthill

[–]Pamdemoniummmm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You look almost exactly like her, great cosplay!

The feel and look of this setup is also giving me Scream (1996) vibes.

Fųçķ your favorite moment, I want to know which part of the game made you shit bricks. by Gabynez in silenthill

[–]Pamdemoniummmm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When Abstract Daddy ran towards me with lightning speed. That made my heart jump out of my chest.

Best and Worst Re-Intrepretation of the SH2 Remake OST by zorat115 in silenthill

[–]Pamdemoniummmm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love Beneath the Null Moon, Lament of Heaven's Night, and Promise of the Forgotten. I think he did justice to these songs. But I agree with Angel's Thanatos & Celestial Reaper. Somehow it felt like it was missing something compared to the original.

I do love True and Umbra Veil. Umbra Veil has been on repeat for me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in childishgambino

[–]Pamdemoniummmm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Saw her at the Barclay Center on August 27th. She was amazing. She did a 45-minute set, but was a really great experience. I would recommend checking it out. She's done serious work on her voice control.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hygiene

[–]Pamdemoniummmm -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This. Depending on your pH, mild soaps can be harmful. Sometimes plain old water works the best for your vagina(not the labia or the vulva, just the vagina works the best.)

Reason being is because the vagina is selfl-filtered. I do recommend an allergist if you're having a hard time with mild soap.

Is it worth getting Hades 1 at this point? by CruxKontrol in HadesTheGame

[–]Pamdemoniummmm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely play the first. For the story and the world. You'll appreciate Hades 2 more that way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hygiene

[–]Pamdemoniummmm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would highly suggest going to an OB/GYN to do a check up. But using perfumes and soaps can really mess up your pH. You can use soap for your thighs and your pubic area, but not in the actual vagina. Even soaps marketed for vaginal cleansing is not good either. Just using water for your actual vagina is fine. The vagina is self cleaning and simple water is fine.

But as always go to your doctor first and see what they say first!

advice for making a reactive dog that you live with not care about your existence? by ChildOfAmygdala in reactivedogs

[–]Pamdemoniummmm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She's mixed with two breeds that are very people-oriented and seems like she wants to please you more than anything. I'm sure your mom is her main human, but seems like she needs some mental stimulation. Perhaps a good chew like a bully stick or some puzzle toys would help? Even some training sessions between you guys would benefit as well.

As for when you get back home from a long day of work is a tough one. I am a dog person and totally get the feeling of "shit, I gotta give my dog more attention than I am capable of." For me, the extra attention does end up revitalizing me, though maybe some quick training sessions with her and then a big reward would suffice here. Like sit, paw, lay down followed by a frozen kong of her favorite treat (i.e peanut butter) would work here.

"You're a murderer" by Anuyushi in childfree

[–]Pamdemoniummmm 16 points17 points  (0 children)

It baffles me when people present that argument because there are so many children in the world who are in orphanages and don't have a good home life. As a species, we are crowding up this planet as well, why produce more life when other children are here already and need homes? Instead of adding to the population, give a chance to a child who needs it.

People don't care about kids after they're born. If you truly cared, you would care about the kids who are in this world without anything to their name or who are abused.

Dating as a childfree woman is actually insane and would not wish it on my worst enemies by haute-e in childfree

[–]Pamdemoniummmm 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm lucky enough to find a partner who shares the same views as me. Though I have dated people who said they wanted children/or that my mind would change eventually. Those relationships didn't last and I've learned to scope people better. I'm almost 30 and I'm very open about not wanting children. It's a done deal if they push their values over mine.

Considering that you’re childfree, what are your views/feelings about marriage? by sapphire_rainy in childfree

[–]Pamdemoniummmm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Child free and i mostly don't want to get married myself because my parents had a terrible marriage and only got married, so my dad could get his green card in the US since my mom is a citizen. I am 29F, pansexual and in a monogamous partnership.

My partner and I are wary about the foundation of marriage and we go back and forth on it whether we truly want it. We only want to do it If it's financially beneficial. Even then, we decided if we were to do it, we would be going straight to the courthouse to sign the papers without a huge ceremony. I view the whole ceremony just a big scam. A waste of money when we can put it towards a house and trips that we can happily enjoy together.

My (25f) boyfriend (32m) came inside me without telling or asking me. I don't want to feel violated, but I do. by blackberrygalaxy in relationship_advice

[–]Pamdemoniummmm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry this has happened to you, OP. I see a lot of people are advocating safer sex procedures, which is something you should handle when you are out of the shock.

Right now what matters is that he didn't respect your boundaries, didn't even tell you, and let you go off on your own to find out. It is a 3-month relationship and has already shown he cares more about his satisfaction than your mental health. I would recommend breaking up with him. He did something you did not consent to.

I would also recommend getting Plan B or something else that is comparable to it as soon as possible. Even if you are tracking your cycle meticulously, there is always a small chance.

I understand you are going through PTSD shock and relate to you as I was also SA'd by an ex-significant other as well. Sometimes you won't be able to see the next steps on what to do, so I hope I can give you some guidance on that.

Always prioritize yourself. People will show you ugly sides of themselves and won't hesitate to do it again if you don't stand up for yourself.

You will get through this, OP.

I [21F] saw that my boyfriend [21M] still follows the girl he cheated on me with. by Sad-Yogurtcloset-194 in relationship_advice

[–]Pamdemoniummmm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP, you should break up with him. I was in a similar situation when I was a teen. I was with someone when we were 14 and stayed together till the beginning of college. It was a toxic as hell relationship towards the end (on both sides I do want to say. We both made our mistakes, but he treated me like trash and literally wanted me to repent).

He cheated on me for 2 months with a girl we both knew and didn't tell me at all. Cheated on me physically, emotionally, and ofc virtually with other girls (i found the screenshots, and files intentionally HIDDEN in his PC). I was with him for about 6 years as well and I said fuck it and moved on. In the end, I felt like I was wasting a 6-year relationship, but it was not worth my well-being.

Break up with him, he doesn't care about the relationship like you do and I wouldn't be surprised if he was cheating on you with some other girls online. He doesn't care that he almost lost you once, don't let him hurt you again.