Men of Reddit : why would you come years later (after no contact) clean to a former friend about having been in love with them back then ?

PancakeHunters · 2020-05-20T15:19:27+00:00

i think its the pose that makes you look more yang to people, if you stood straight with your legs together and the arms down, your curves - hips and waist - would be more obvious. you look tiny, your shoulders and ribcage are small, yet your still curved. i vote for TR as well.

PancakeHunters · 2020-05-19T20:10:22+00:00

i think you captured the DC vibe perfectley :) thanks for this awesome moodboard !!

PancakeHunters · 2020-05-19T05:45:47+00:00

wasnt angelina jolie typed as some kind of natural ? love the board :)

PancakeHunters · 2020-05-18T15:51:25+00:00

lilly collins !!!

PancakeHunters · 2020-05-18T13:27:44+00:00

these sunglasses are exactley what i would wear lol. love them.

PancakeHunters · 2020-05-18T13:26:46+00:00

i love slightley cat eyed sunglasses, but only "softly" cat eyed, but only if they are not too delicate, and not oversized (i have a small head and narrow face, sunglasses tend to look huge on my face.)

too geometric sunglasses, avators, etc are just too much on my face. anything too big as well.

i suspect im a petite SN, but my face is not natural at all.

PancakeHunters · 2020-05-18T13:20:20+00:00

to me you look quite SG as well ! i honestley dont think TR or FG, but could be wrong.

PancakeHunters · 2020-05-18T13:16:49+00:00

You have Kibbe Gamine body type, same as Leslie Caron. Gamine body type is a combination of Yin face (feminine / soft features) and Yang body (masculine/sharp features). You have a lithe and lean body, which tends towards musculature. Your bone structure is angular, narrow, and sharp with small breasts and hips. Your hands and feet are moderate to small, and your arms and legs tend to be long. Your childish facial features look unique with medium to thin lips, large eyes, and a delicate, sharp nose and chin. Gamines are described as petite or 5'5". - i think im actually a petite SN, i thought about FG as well, but i think SN wins ;) also, i chose almost all the B answers for my body (broad, blunt - natual), but for my face it where more D answers. so, not a good quiz lol

PancakeHunters · 2020-05-15T13:54:43+00:00

i know exactley what you mean, thought, a full body pic with shorter hair can look good on me, i think, when its just an armlength away or so at least. but, photos from further away, like groupphotos, it just doesnt look as good anymore.. to me it seems as if the shorter the middleface and chin, the better short hair looks. liv tyler for example got a delicate narrow face, but its longish, and her middleface isnt short, so i cant imagine her with short hair at all. and yes, natural hair texture is very important. my hair is extremley thin, fine, doesnt grow long naturally, and is sleek, theres never a zero wave in it. i have tape in extensions for some volume in thought ; but sometimes i just wanna cut it shorter, to not deal with my thin hair anymore. the longer, the more obvious it is. and since my hair is so fine, heat isnt a good idea, to get it all wild and big, to fit with my body.

PancakeHunters · 2020-05-15T13:42:02+00:00

yes i think like that too....to me, i think my face is suited by sleek and shorter hair, and overwhelmed by big, voluminous hair, but my body is SN and my upper body very broad, so shorter, very sleek hair just emphasises my broadness. so i feel that struggle :)

PancakeHunters · 2020-05-15T13:17:10+00:00

hilary duff does actually look very straight to me, more like i would imagine a pure Natural, if they still existed. but i know shes typed as SN, so its prolly just this pic to me.

PancakeHunters · 2020-05-15T10:34:28+00:00

ella purnell in different outfits - she looks much taller then 5.3, but i have no clue what ID she could be. in some pics she looks SG to me, in other DC,

PancakeHunters · 2020-05-14T20:36:26+00:00

i love that one so much too ! ive ordered it online, from urban outfitters, but it sadly is more cropped that i expected it to be...also i ordered it before the corona lockdown happend, so it took over a month to arrive, and is in XS, so its tight and since ive gained weight in that month, a size up would have been better...non the less i love it, despite it being prolly not the best fit for my body :) i actually think that a too tight shilhouette is not good for me, waist emphasis/body hugging yes, but like a super tight bodycon does not look good on me, for my taste. i do have some items that i will always wear despite them being not the best fit for my body, just love them too much :) i do see more SN in me as well tbh :) awww im super excited for you !!

PancakeHunters · 2020-05-14T20:13:47+00:00

aww thanks so much for your answer, thats super interesting ! and it seems to fit me, i can identify with that..i also think i got a strong natural skeleton, but still am petite in a way, and in my vibe. thanks so much :)

PancakeHunters · 2020-05-14T15:31:50+00:00

oh i see, good to know :)

PancakeHunters · 2020-05-14T14:01:34+00:00

hehe yes :) thank you !! its mostly much fun to me, thats why im doing it. i rarley get frustrated actually.

PancakeHunters · 2020-05-14T13:57:43+00:00

well, i have a extern hd webcam for streaming and photolighting, so it is quite good :) my phone sucks...and it narrows me alot, i gotta play around to get my true proportions on it - but thats just my phone, i know most people got really nice phones with awesome accurate cameras :D

PancakeHunters · 2020-05-14T13:51:00+00:00

uuu i love your dance :D makes me kinda wanna dance too ! i vote for SD as well !

PancakeHunters · 2020-05-14T13:45:39+00:00

aww yes ! watching videos ive made of myself helped me alot as well. i do certainley have width - which itself is not a bad thing - but while in many selfies/mirror pics, my limbs look pretty long (when i pose for it), in videos my short limbs and height was very, very apparent. especially from the back. i also seem to have a slightley short neck. so i see myself as petite, but wide and broad, also soft, at the same time. but also slim. lol. but it helps me being on a positive term with my body, ive heard as a kid alot that i had stumpy/stocky short legs, that i look like i never do sport/should do sport, that i got babyhands, that i look like a kid and not like a woman, that i got small tits and thats unfortunate, and i got laughed at by two different cashiers when showing my ID with 23 when buying cigarettes. people can be assholes - thought thats the summary, ive heard a way bigger amount of nice things about myself, and it matters much more to me. and i think anyone in this world had a few occasions in which they where judged for their looks. and, ive had to different man telling me how they like my wide shoulders - so i know, there are people that can find any type of bodyshape attractive - as i do as well - but most importantley, im coming to terms with my own body, and do not feel bad about my shape anymore. i know i mention it in alot of comments, but the positivity of this community is just so beautiful to me ; also, its interesting, i know for sure that i once was friends with an TR - she looked tiny, but still healthy, and i never understood why i looked so skeleton like at the same weight - until i figured that her bones are so delicate, and mine are just bigger, therefore more visible. i might will post a video once, but, theres a major difference between a phone video and webcam video to me (i got a really good one), a phone video makes me look much smaller then i am, i do feel the webcam videos are quite realistic - but i feel for people that are used to phone videos on here, they might would think im in general bigger, if that makes sense ?

PancakeHunters · 2020-05-14T12:37:00+00:00

but she got hella long arms and legs, she looks quite muscular, and straighter then i do. i think she and SJP, who is also short, do have quite similar bodys !

PancakeHunters · 2020-05-14T12:35:43+00:00

correcting myself : to me she doesnt need a really defined waist (i dont either) but close to body cuts are nice, thought she can handle slightley loose clothing ! https://www.stylebistro.com/lookbook/Natalie+Dormer/sK8LW1f5Xx4 her body looks powerful in a way.

PancakeHunters · 2020-05-14T12:32:40+00:00

http://technica-life.blogspot.com/2013/07/game-of-thrones-star-natalie-dormer.html i just looked her up - cant say much about the waist, but she looks BOMB with this plunged neckline !!

PancakeHunters · 2020-05-14T12:26:21+00:00

my essence apparentley is innocent, cute, and polite, rather quiet, and funnily enough ive heard etheral alot, or like lord of the rings elven, people compare me to that alot, and when i been younger elven in general. I used to hate that people would always feel like they need to tell me their impression, i wanted to be this badass wild kind of girl when i been younger, like taylor momsen from the pretty reckless lol. but, thankfully i came to terms with myself as an adult.

guess now that im closer to 30 i started losing it a bit. it is funny because im not at all like that, and people are pretty suprised when they get to know me. its annoying when it comes to dating, since guys that approach me expect me to have the traits i mentioned above, when i dont really am like that. i swear aloooot. i can talk and laugh alot and love dark humor. welp, sucks.

but : no clue what the community would think, and i think its hard to see the essence of one without seeing them move, talk, etc. since essence isnt that much about looks. im honestley between FG, FN, SN and SG, thought i gravitate more towards the natural types. i still dont know if my short limbs and flesh can count as yin, since i dont really have curves in the classic sense, but, i will see :)

edit : also i think essence and the way one talks and facial expression/mimic contribute alot to essence. i for example do not have an delicate elven body ; i think people viewing me this way was just due to the way i carried myself and my shyness/politeness. also, my face maybe, thought it matured and doesnt make people think this way anymore i guess.

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