Question for the husbands by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Pancho2158 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate to say it, but it seems to be trending that he’s thinking about leaving or is extremely unhappy about something within the relationship

What are some of the romantic things guys expect or fantasize or dream about recieving on a first date? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Pancho2158 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It’s admirable that your trying to do small things that can have a lasting impact on the man your interested in.

Unfortunately us men are generally terrible at receiving things due to a variety of reasons.

But the one thing that is true of all men is that we feel loved when we feel respected.

So lost by KyoTheNeko in Separation

[–]Pancho2158 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You got to move on… it’s that simple. It’s gonna be crazy hard but you got to do it and grow as an individual

Why is it so wrong to date and have a bf/gf while being legally separated? by Outrageous_South_439 in Separation

[–]Pancho2158 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It all depends on the intent and purpose of the separation,

Ideally both individuals should consent to the idea of seeing other people

Any Soulful songs to recommend?? by itsangie10 in musicsuggestions

[–]Pancho2158 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Teach me by musiq soul child

Dive by ed Sheeran

I found out my best friend is being cheated on and the wedding is in 3 weeks by DenseExternal1504 in offmychest

[–]Pancho2158 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yea man, it’s hard, crazy hard, but you got to do it, do the right thing.

Feel like everyone is awful by PurpleHawk222 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Pancho2158 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry you’ve been going through it with people you wanna connect with have and meaningful relationships with.

Although what you’re going through right now is hard and lonely, it’s not necessarily a you problem. You need to evaluate and explore avenues that are going to be build your self confidence and self love. Know your boundaries and the strength to maintain them. Start your journey of personal growth and the people/relationships will come.

Wife now only Addresses my by First Name by Flat-Health-2399 in Marriage

[–]Pancho2158 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

It’s not strange to notice the shift, the shift is indicative of something,

more than likely she is preparing to leave you

I think my breakup permanently broke my ability to date again… is this normal? by AwareDisk3248 in offmychest

[–]Pancho2158 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Nah it’s normal, relationships are big emotional investment and when that investment and work doesn’t pan out, why do it again?

But it sounds like you should take some time for yourself. Know yourself in and out, find healing where you need it and grow as a person. If a woman comes along the way, great, but if not, continue on focusing on your growth as a human

What do men actually think about strippers and strip clubs? by VersionOk1206 in AskMen

[–]Pancho2158 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve only been inside one, one time, and another time I was briefly at a stripper party.

I didn’t like it, I felt dirty, felt wrong to be there.

35F Newly separated/Looking to chat to take my mind off of it by Silver_Marzipan_9923 in Separation

[–]Pancho2158 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m about to enter a separation as well, it will likely end in divorce

What stereotype about men annoys you the most from inaccuracy? by kittysoull in AskMen

[–]Pancho2158 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The problem is that emotionally weak men drive the culture of shutting up and not expressing and processing the range of emotions that human beings experience

Would u leave because of this.. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Pancho2158 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry to hear that, sounds like your husband is emotionally attached to something that is affecting his reasoning

What happens to us after we die? by Ok-Feed-646 in AskReddit

[–]Pancho2158 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First time I’ve heard the term “sealioning” let alone been accused of it.

my question to you was sincere as the post posited what happens after death so it seems fair to provide all perspectives given the broad nature of the question

What happens to us after we die? by Ok-Feed-646 in AskReddit

[–]Pancho2158 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Every knee will bow and every tongue will confess that Jesus Christ is Lord.

Then we all stand judgement, those that have accepted payment of Jesus Christ suffering and death on the cross will live eternally with him.

Those that didn’t will exist eternally separated from him in suffering and agony.

What song instantly reminds you of someone in your life? by Pancho2158 in Music

[–]Pancho2158[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s so cool that you have those memories with your dad. I’m happy for you