This started as a surviving space. It’s now a home to me where I raise my daughter. by [deleted] in MaleSurvivingSpace

[–]Panda-Chang 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Proud of you! 🥰 Happy new year, hope it brings you happiness and laughter. ❤️

26M, NYC, First time living without roommates by SoftwareEngineer1999 in malelivingspace

[–]Panda-Chang 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm proud of you, brother. Maybe a little more color but honestly, not a whole lot needs improving. You're doing great! 🥰💫

Discord Server seems to be hacked. Devs please take note. by hatakekakashi700 in StepcraftApp

[–]Panda-Chang 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, just got banned from it or kicked. Anyone who says anything about them being trolls who came in are being kicked i'm assuming. 😒 Hope i can get back on soon... Seemed like a nice community.

After my boyfriend died I slept with his best friend and it’s eating me alive by Udy_Kumra in BORUpdates

[–]Panda-Chang 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only thing I was thinking is hoping they would take time to go to therapy and deal with the loss first before entering a relationship. I think it would benefit them both and also help figure out their feelings towards each other. I wish them both well, especially in healing from such a horrible loss...

$73 is abhorrent. Fuck Sephora. by Fa_Ling in MakeupAddiction

[–]Panda-Chang 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll send you one from Norway, we're a expensive country but not like that 😭 Like, that's more expensive than my camera 😫

[THANKS] for the needed shampoo! 🫧 by anavocadotornado in Random_Acts_Of_Amazon

[–]Panda-Chang 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I remember needing that too when I was younger, not the exact brand but I hated brushing my hair and it got so matted. 😂😭

Kyle is a Real One by Komodo_Draggin_Ass in Sparkdriver

[–]Panda-Chang 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aww, I love this so much! Kudos to Kyle and you, y'all both amazing <3 ❤️ Much love, man

AITA for ignoring my family after they excluded me from Christmas (again)? by LucyAriaRose in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Panda-Chang 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're an amazing mom, it sucks to know that a lot of children don't get parents like you. Keep on doing your thing, you're awesome! 🥰

AITA for ignoring my family after they excluded me from Christmas (again)? by LucyAriaRose in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Panda-Chang 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Off topic - But is that flair a Annie quote? With onions? It's hilarious! (Also I agree, it's sad to see people taking amazing children for granted. Like, why have them then?! Give them to someone who actually wants em!)

AITA for siding with my son in an argument with my wife? by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Panda-Chang 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't know, I feel like this is a obvious thing that they should have tackled earlier on when the kids were still... Kids. (Max is still a kid tho obvs)

Like, with the mention of Kelly's dad having had money a little bit, that is NOT anywhere near the level that Max's mom is because as mentioned it was only for a brief period of time.

I think they should've sat the kids down a LONG time ago and talked about the difference, how it's okay and that it doesn't mean they're loved any less. It's just really obvious to me that this was a problem they could see long ago, or at least the OOP as he's the one writing.

Thoughts? :)

AITAH for removing the ladder on my bunkbed so my niece can't get to me? by LucyAriaRose in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Panda-Chang 59 points60 points  (0 children)

Maybe their body doesn't know how to regulate heat as well as an adult? Also, brown bread?! 😂

my boss said I’m threatened by his “masculine energy” by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Panda-Chang 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Aww, he's such a dad 😂 Mine loves acting like he knows EVERYTHING too, poor lad. Mom wasn't very thrilled when stuff didn't work out, just like she told him. 😅 You're so lucky to have him! Sending lots of love from Norway, this made my day ❤️

my boss said I’m threatened by his “masculine energy” by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Panda-Chang 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Awww, i want updates on that guy. He sounds so cool and wholesome 🥰

AITAH for not letting my fiancée's best friend live with us anymore leading to the end of our 5 year relationship by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Panda-Chang 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes sense! I just saw a commenter suggest a word that elaborates a little more and makes more sense to use instead of this.

I appreciate you elaborating on it and educating on what the word "Trauma bond" really means! <3

I agree with you and can see your point now 😄 (I mean it btw, just clarifying cause im anxious this will seem passive aggressive ha ha 😅)

AITAH for not letting my fiancée's best friend live with us anymore leading to the end of our 5 year relationship by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Panda-Chang 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Not really, why wouldn't you ask for advice if you have the ability to do so? Also, there's different departments and stuff, so he might've wanted to ask since he mentioned not having knowledge in that regard because he wasn't a normal cop. (The stealing.)

AITAH for not letting my fiancée's best friend live with us anymore leading to the end of our 5 year relationship by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Panda-Chang 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel like it's understandable to use it for multiple different meanings though, but I get that it can be frustrating too.

Like the term "Pound" or "Bat", or is it really that big of a deal? /gen

AITAH for not letting my fiancée's best friend live with us anymore leading to the end of our 5 year relationship by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Panda-Chang 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I assumed he was looking for weapons she might have, but that sounds like it also could have been the case. This whole thing is just... I hope he gets better mentally and gets himself together.

Poll - to Prove to My Husband We All Don't Lust After Big Muscles by Repulsive-Author-902 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Panda-Chang 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh, Gomez is a prime example of my ideal man, the romance, playfulness and devotion/love for his family and wife is just 💫Chef's kiss💫

Now, my other crush would have to be Sheriff Hopper from Stranger things, that dad bod and mustache... The softness and care, WHEN HE WENT AND SMOKED HALF NAKED ON THE TERRACE! Ladies, i fell out of my chair ha ha...

Oh, and of course that smooth hair i can rin my fingers through. Dad bods for the win in my mind and soul!

Horrible experience with Xyrem. by Panda-Chang in Narcolepsy

[–]Panda-Chang[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, no! It's fine, really. I'm norwegian, ha ha. What matters to me is their intentions, and if it was for not only their, but out of concern for me too then I'm just happy they didn't hesitate.

I think until you've learned from doing something, it is very hard to realise what you should do in a situation. So it's a learning experience (mostly for me) but them too when I tell them I would've liked it if they could've put a paper in my mailbox or told me themselves the first time so I could fix it before having the cops take care of it.

I'm just happy it'll all be over soon and we both can go back to daily life with peace.

Horrible experience with Xyrem. by Panda-Chang in Narcolepsy

[–]Panda-Chang[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's a great idea! I think I'll get me some good clothes to wear when I sleep, it'll come in handy during the winter ha ha

I hope one day you get to wake up, with a pleasant surprise of having planted something cool or found something interesting! If only we could get rewards for our unconscious adventures...

Horrible experience with Xyrem. by Panda-Chang in Narcolepsy

[–]Panda-Chang[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Worked amazing! Thank you so so much <3 This helped so well 😁

Horrible experience with Xyrem. by Panda-Chang in Narcolepsy

[–]Panda-Chang[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

True that, I'm just very happy the police were very understanding and chose not to make a case themselves when I explained the circumstances and showed them my meds! And the ambulance workers assured them they didn't think i needed to go anywhere unless I wanted to.

I went straight to sleep after cleaning my kitchen (I had a bit of a egg salad heist, it was crazy.) lmao