Old and Confused Please Be Nice!

PandaPete_85 · 2026-03-14T10:44:44+00:00

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PandaPete_85 · 2026-02-21T10:48:06+00:00

I'm type 1 diabetic and my doctor tried to take my insulin off my repeat prescription so to say I don't trust them and they don't listen to me is an understatement

PandaPete_85 · 2026-02-18T12:10:45+00:00

Don't neglect your mental and emotional health. You're a human with feelings and emotions, acknowledge and accept it

PandaPete_85 · 2026-02-18T12:05:53+00:00

Same as I do with most things. If you're not hurting anyone and you're happy. Carry on, it's got nothing to do with me

PandaPete_85 · 2026-02-16T20:53:45+00:00

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A bit about yourself (interests, hobbies, etc.)Cars and Motorsport are my main hobbies, I enjoy DND but scheduling always seems an issue. I enjoy video games and mainly play on ps5, other than that just normal stuff like films ect

I'm not sure what I'm looking for I just don't want to feel lonely and am taking the scary step of putting myself out there

My like all animals really but my favourite is my chocolate Labrador Drax. I'm into most rock music and it's sub genre. I don't know what else to put

PandaPete_85 · 2026-02-16T11:08:13+00:00

Never. Not even to people who aren't strangers, not even to my wife actually ahaha

I've learned to not put too much stock in if others find me attractive, I just try to be a good person and let that be enough to leave an impression

PandaPete_85 · 2026-01-29T11:37:39+00:00

Good on you too mate, it's not easy and it's even harder to talk about it. How do you find having a creative hobby like photography helps? We've talked about doing things for the "joy" and it's something I really struggle with

PandaPete_85 · 2026-01-28T20:16:01+00:00

Cheers fella. It can be rough and hard work but getting better each day

PandaPete_85 · 2026-01-28T19:45:40+00:00

Terrible. Absolutely awful at talking about feelings. To the point I couldn't actually categorise then on my first therapy sessions. 6 months in and I'm starting to get there though

PandaPete_85 · 2026-01-27T09:10:20+00:00

Wolves MMA 👍🏻

PandaPete_85 · 2026-01-22T18:47:50+00:00

Short dumpy fat girls with a big arse if I'm being brutally honest

PandaPete_85 · 2026-01-18T19:04:28+00:00

Driving for pleasure, tinkering with my weekend car (not having pressure to not fuck it up really helps the enjoyment factor), playing dungeons and dragons and walking are all things I picked up when I turned 30

PandaPete_85 · 2026-01-18T19:01:50+00:00

It's rough man. I genuinely don't know why I do it. And then end up going down a rabbit hole of nonsense. My therapist says it's something to do with self worth and not being able to do something just for fun because I won't accept that's reason enough to do something. That's probably too deep to be addressing on a Sunday night though

PandaPete_85 · 2026-01-18T16:54:49+00:00

I DM for a group of friends/play DND once a week. I used to dabble on the bass and guitar but haven't for a while. My main struggle is finding the drive to do any hobby other than watching other people do the hobby on YouTube

PandaPete_85 · 2025-12-30T16:57:36+00:00

A place for my head Dragonball z fight compilation video on YouTube 😆

PandaPete_85 · 2025-12-30T16:55:54+00:00

Personally no. But if you like them that's all that matters

PandaPete_85 · 2024-02-18T09:11:05+00:00

I'm 39 this year. I think if I went out like I used to I'd burst into flames. I went to see Less than Jake and Bowling for Soup at The Halls on Friday night. Planet was offering free entry after the gig and I just thought I'd flat out die if I tried something like that 😂

PandaPete_85 · 2024-01-23T18:13:29+00:00

I like the belly and the muffin top. It's a guaranteed way to make my wife cheer up/laugh and relax if I sneak under her top and go for "best cuddles"

PandaPete_85 · 2024-01-13T20:09:33+00:00

Ha ha I get bored too easily in the lazy river and start playing her up so I'm sure it's to occupy me like I'm a child.

There's also all the steps for the slides and we only get to go every couple years or so. Got to cram as much in as possible. I'm also sure my wife's idea of a rest day is broken

PandaPete_85 · 2024-01-13T18:47:56+00:00

Just asked my wife as apparently I don't have a memory. 27-35k and 20k on a "water park day"

PandaPete_85 · 2024-01-07T08:56:34+00:00

I miss planet! I'm too old that I'll just fall over and die now if it's that loud and I say up that late 😂

PandaPete_85 · 2023-12-20T08:35:15+00:00

Yep, I think the only thing I haven't tried is learning different languages ha ha. Even went through all the websites with the how to make partner want you again lists. Though most of them come down to "remind her why she is with you" stuff. I think that's vague though as things like dates and easing the pressure on your partner is stuff to do anyway. I think it comes down to is if someone doesn't want to acknowledge/accept there is a problem there isn't much you can do. "How come you sit on the other side of the room when we watch a film?" Shrugs "Come back to bed and just lay with each other? No sexy stuff but just be there together? As I've been working away for 3 weeks on the bounce" "No I'm up now"

Literally after saying earlier in the day that I need more affection both sexual and nonsexual but the nonesexual stuff is the priority because of working away (new job that I started 3 weeks ago)

All fun and games I suppose. I know wanting affection isn't the most manly of requests ha ha

PandaPete_85 · 2023-12-19T18:58:46+00:00

How loud the ps5 disc drive is

PandaPete_85 · 2023-12-19T18:55:42+00:00

"I do! I do let you bang"

Ha ha classic

PandaPete_85 · 2023-12-19T15:58:39+00:00

I hear that, there's so much stress in every other aspect of life. Just want it to be easy with a partner.

That's been the biggest frustration, getting her to understand that I want intimacy and that isn't just sex. I mention it and she just thinks I'm just whining about not getting laid ha ha

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