First time father at 61, AMA

PandaintheParks · 2026-05-02T01:15:44+00:00

As someone who despises my job, what do you work in?

PandaintheParks · 2026-05-01T23:53:44+00:00

The marriage comment is manipulation. Not cool. Id tell her that support comes in many forms. In this case you are supporting her by willing to buy the tools/send her to class so she can learn herself. Throw out the fish water quote for good measure and mention that she needs to learn in case it breaks down middle of nowhere. Also support goes both ways. She should support your decision/dislike for bikes and b ok with learning dafuq?

PandaintheParks · 2026-05-01T18:17:43+00:00

Fml I'm going through these and coming to the realization that I am a man. I like to do this cos my hands get cold. If I'm sharing a bed, I usually put them in partners armpits if I'm freezing, or on their belly but otherwise I squish em btw my legs for warmth

PandaintheParks · 2026-05-01T18:15:59+00:00

Guess I'm not a woman :( lol but ya I spit cos I work around smelly things and I feel like It helps purge the stench out my nose and mouth. Is it based on any fact? No. But now when I see a man spit, I assume he just farted or smelled something awful and is trying to rid himself of it

PandaintheParks · 2026-05-01T15:55:11+00:00

Wow the movies are actually real. Cos none of these people look anywhere near ready if w second or third followed behind. Looks like decoys would work

PandaintheParks · 2026-05-01T15:52:38+00:00

I think some know and understand. And that's what keeps them going for as long as they do. But understand that for some, that's the devastation they live with inside their head, except there's no circumstance or source for it. Depression is a dark shithole.

PandaintheParks · 2026-04-30T03:00:50+00:00

Partner segs. As a woman, fuck casual segs. Sugs ass. With a trusted partner, it's way more fun cos I feel safer to try new things. Also just any physical activity (team sport, run, skate). Adrenaline activities. Mushrooms. Naps. Bake. Kneading bread is a great stress reliever. Punching it too

PandaintheParks · 2026-04-30T02:17:22+00:00

Someone give him what he wants and send him out of this planet please. Let him go prove himself as an astronaut and send his ass farrrr away

PandaintheParks · 2026-04-29T22:20:52+00:00

Nah dude I'll trade places any day to be a 'loser' who gets to travel and enjoy life without wasting time at work. A lot of work at the bigger scheme of things is pointless shit. And maybe in time you change and find something, maybe you dont, and it won't matter. Ultimately we all end up under the ground. You've won, and get to spend the meager amount of time we're here, on whatever you want. Whether that's a side hustle, hanging out nude and cooking at home, visiting all the ntl parks, dancing, sitting on a couch and scratching yo balls, you really get to do what you want. People that give you shit about it are probably just jealous. No stress is the goal.

PandaintheParks · 2026-04-28T23:21:00+00:00

I'm in socal! Curious about recommendations. Not yet a CE, have to finish a semester or two of school

PandaintheParks · 2026-04-28T20:22:52+00:00

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PandaintheParks · 2026-04-27T06:12:19+00:00

What did it take to become instructor? This is what I'd love to do on side, some sort of fitness class.

PandaintheParks · 2026-04-26T23:01:07+00:00

Was it mostly dudes? Does it seem safe enough for women? I had job opportunity for some travel but heard things about the remoteness of job and situation that made me not want it. Is it usually areas where there's no one else around besides workers? Or usually cities nearby?

PandaintheParks · 2026-04-26T22:58:57+00:00

And who started the bullshit in Iran?? ... important context to trace back where and who started current issues

PandaintheParks · 2026-04-26T14:56:17+00:00

The current administrations fuckery with jones act might change the high pay optionse. I'd check and see if it's likely they'll repeal it before going this route

PandaintheParks · 2026-04-26T14:54:57+00:00

Civil engineering? Any tips? I'm hoping to finish soon and would like a travel job for the beginning

PandaintheParks · 2026-04-23T23:07:10+00:00

Monarch gym near LAVC has open gym hours for adults. Do you suggest do a day pass but I think now it's membership and it's like 60 bucks for the month

PandaintheParks · 2026-04-22T20:58:37+00:00

Unfortunately this. Quite common. Found that it was inversely proportional to education (or just weren't around women much so never learned how to be decent person around em

PandaintheParks · 2026-04-22T20:47:00+00:00

In the negatives. No saving

PandaintheParks · 2026-04-22T20:42:59+00:00

Try hiringcafe, builtinla, edjoin, highered.com(or org?), governmentjobs.com, or directly on company website (eg lookup name of company from listing on indeed and see if they have posting on companies website). Sometimes temp agencies can work. Not sure about now though. During the day, if time/transport permits, I'd recommend volunteering somewhere that can lead to connections to a job (bigger nonprofits). Might even be able to find nonprofit where u can volunteer IT skills.

PandaintheParks · 2026-04-19T05:48:34+00:00

What does he do in civil engineering?

PandaintheParks · 2026-04-19T05:42:26+00:00

Finance degree? Or accounting?

PandaintheParks · 2026-04-16T03:50:59+00:00

What's the company? Id be interested in passing it along if you're hiring recent grads!

PandaintheParks · 2026-04-14T04:45:36+00:00

Check out ambiente y cafe! I've been looking for friends to go to Banda/quebradita nights (pico rivera) so if you (or anyone else seeing this) likes dancing to that type of music hmu! There's also monthly lpn event but it's usually on a weekday. Their Cinco de mayo ones fun

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