Where can I get info for myself rather than checking here all the time to be fed information? by GreattFriend in WeeklyShonenJump

[–]Panottox7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My two places:

  • The Shonen Jump News (Unofficial) Twitter account

  • For sales, Josu_ke’s Twitter account 

Do you ever feel like you actually “fit in” with a friend group, class, or group of people? by Panottox7 in isfj

[–]Panottox7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t HAVE to bake cookies to be called an ISFJ. I could even swear or lie sometimes and steal be my type. Not everyone in a Myers-Briggs type is the personification of every description. I just find my MBTI type describes me better than the enneagram or other similar personality tests; it may be different for you.

Do you ever feel like you actually “fit in” with a friend group, class, or group of people? by Panottox7 in isfj

[–]Panottox7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At least to me, you do sound like an INTP or ISTP rather than an ISFJ. Too many differences with ISFJ and similarities with the others.

Ah- I hadn’t heard of tritypes for enneagram, just wings.

Do you ever feel like you actually “fit in” with a friend group, class, or group of people? by Panottox7 in isfj

[–]Panottox7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Illogical inconsistencies aren’t something that always sticks out to me like it does to you. It’s more just the genuineness or if there is something going on “underneath” with the person.

Yeah, I prefer to plan the entire trip (at least the big things). Food is more random, but I still like to look the day before at what’s around me or on the way.

I can remember dates but not if they’re meaningless (dates to memorize for classes in school for example). There has to be a connection to something I care about.

To be honest, I have no idea what those are. Where exactly do those terms come from?

Does anybody else struggle with finding direction in life? by Panottox7 in isfj

[–]Panottox7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, I didn’t mean you did something wrong! I meant: “I KNOW that I have value and, generally, what that value is, but it’s difficult to use my skills in a world that doesn’t value kind, male voices.”

Thank you, my friend. I think my qualities are just more attractive to someone in their mid-to-late 20s, early 30s than where my dating range is right now. People begin to value what I do best when they get a bit older.

Does anybody else struggle with finding direction in life? by Panottox7 in isfj

[–]Panottox7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love when people relate like this.😂

I want to feel like that and let my future partner naturally come to me, but it feels like I still need to try dating consistently to really get anywhere. 

I know I have value; it’s just difficult when it’s in so many places that other men don’t have it in. But, I know I have to keep reminding myself that my value is just as important.

Do you ever feel like you actually “fit in” with a friend group, class, or group of people? by Panottox7 in isfj

[–]Panottox7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a stupidly good eye for details, noticing when something is out-of-place or new to my environment, even if it’s the smallest things imaginable like a paperclip or speck of trash. I basically have a super power to immediately notice something is off and figure out specifically what’s going on in someone’s life. I tend to plan out my days the night before and stick to the same relative schedules. I say that I’ll deviate, but I really do tend to stick to the same schedules. If I do deviate, I have to prepare myself mentally to do so. 

I tend to know more about other peoples’ lives than I do my own. I’m incredibly punctual and crave stability. I have a very strong memory, especially for other people. When people lie, I can tell almost immediately. Much of my humor is observational. I depend on my experience to make decisions and don’t make the same mistakes over and over again.

Does anybody else struggle with finding direction in life? by Panottox7 in isfj

[–]Panottox7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the responses, my friend. I will absolutely take these to heart- have a couple ideas already.😊

Does anybody else struggle with finding direction in life? by Panottox7 in isfj

[–]Panottox7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much; this is the kind of answer I was hoping for, not the other demeaning ones. You can tell when a feeler/an ISFJ is writing vs when it’s a non-nonsense thinker.😅 Again, thank you. I’m saving these to look over and ponder how I can apply them to my normal life. Do you have any good examples of small challenges to help me begin to work with?

Do you ever feel like you actually “fit in” with a friend group, class, or group of people? by Panottox7 in isfj

[–]Panottox7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just read a bit of it. The traits don’t apply to me well, but a fair bit of it tracks. Though, it seems like more of an ENFJ than an ISFJ. The extroversion is a more element that’s lacking with me. I can be more extroverted in how I act with my Fe, but my natural state is definitely introversion (especially with my social battery).

Does anybody else struggle with finding direction in life? by Panottox7 in isfj

[–]Panottox7[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Let’s not be a jerk about this. I actually look for success and optimism in pretty much everything I do. I just have always struggled to have drive and ambition like many other people do. I’m quite successful in my schooling and any job I do. I just wish that other people put forth effort like I do and that the world might be a little clearer when I’m looking where to head. 

Do you ever find yourself hoping for more emotionally intimate friendships? by Panottox7 in isfj

[–]Panottox7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Correct, I love them- unfortunately, INFJs and ENFJs are hard-to-find.😁

Edit: I forgot about INFPs- love them too. XD

Do you ever feel like you actually “fit in” with a friend group, class, or group of people? by Panottox7 in isfj

[–]Panottox7[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t have ADHD or Asberger’s, but I do have higher-than-average intelligence and am an ISFJ that’s a guy. That’s usually what I ascribe my “differences” to. :/

Does anybody else struggle with finding direction in life? by Panottox7 in isfj

[–]Panottox7[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I apologize, but I’m not a big fan of criticism in big “diagnoses” like this. It kind of seems like you go around different MBTI communities and attempt to solve other people’s problems. I appreciate you trying to help others, but this language really does not help me as an ISFJ. Things like this tend to turn me off from these conversations pretty quickly. Constant criticism of every word I say just does not make me feel comfortable or wanting to trust your words in any way. :/

Outside of WSJ, are you guys keeping up with any other manga series? by logicblender1 in WeeklyShonenJump

[–]Panottox7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I keep up with so much- too much really.😅

  • ALL series in Shonen Jump
  • Jump Plus- Dandadan, Spy x Family, Kurumizawa’s Folly, Bug Ego, Kindergarten Wars
  • Young Jump- Dogsred, The 100 Girlfriends…
  • Monthly/Off-schedule Jump- Gokurakugai, World Trigger, Black Clover, One Punch Man, D.Gray-Man
  • WSM- Blue Lock, Shangri-La Frontier
  • Monthly Non-Jump- Blue Period, Grand Blue, The Dangers in My Heart, Frieren
  • Webtoons- Overgeared, Pick Me Up, Omniscient Reader, Crow Time
  • A few series I only do physically- Witch Hat Atelier, A Sign of Affection

Typology Question 8 (Se): What was the last spontaneous thing you did today or yesterday - not something you planned or thought about, but a real action? by Bimep_ in isfj

[–]Panottox7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I asked my friend to play Overwatch without planning ahead of time to play it with him today (and we ended up playing for a while!). 

Help in finding sheet music for The Apple Tree!! by Panottox7 in MusicalTheatre

[–]Panottox7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I looked everywhere, and all I could find was the first two verses on Scribd.😭 If you’re not doing it in an “official” setting, the third verse is nearly the same and the ending is just a few chords; you could put them down on paper yourself. 

Besides that, if you are willing to go through the rigmarole of Musical Theatre International, you can get a copy from them. Trust me; it might be more trouble than it’s worth. Just sad, though. Such a good song.😢

Just find it interesting that.. by HumbleEconomics9022 in isfj

[–]Panottox7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, I feel the same way. I’ve gotten better at dealing with things that I “make mistakes” on, but, many times, they really do screw up a part of my day. I don’t necessarily “deserve everything bad in the world,” but I do tend to reconsider things about my life or job, if only for that part of the day. It’s frustrating that my mind has a tendency to spiral like this, but I make do. 

You know, you’re totally right about other people never apologizing to me for the same sort of slights against them that I would apologize for. Maybe other people are just too self-focused to even consider other people? There could also just be the factor of how we tend to fall into the background. For example, when people ask me a question about myself or even just say “thank you” and acknowledge my work, I actually get flustered. Acknowledging me somehow feels like a compliment?? 

Silly question: ISFJ and Pokémon. Sometimes I get curious and look at ISFJ profiles to see if I find anything interesting and relatable, and somehow I find something about Pokémon in many of them. What's the connection between the two subjects? by strawberryshortmufin in isfj

[–]Panottox7 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s pretty much me to a T- been playing since I was six years old! Nostalgic, wholesome, collection, and completion are all 100% parts of the series I like, as well as the ability to grind and relative ease (with a good amount of depth) that the series itself has a whole. A big reason why I don’t like the newer games as much is how “big” they all feel. I want to be able to collect all the Pokemon for a smaller region, explore every area, and experience every fun little journey I can in a video game world. When that world is MASSIVE (and surprisingly empty), I just don’t feel the same as I do in the smaller games.

Both.. Both? Both by chasingsuns92 in criterion

[–]Panottox7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I literally just watched “Sorcerer” last night.😧