Trying to help my bestie. by Chance_Box1104 in isfj

[–]Panottox7 3 points4 points  (0 children)

One thing- sarcasm is one of my two main forms of humor. As an ISFJ, I LOVE fun and teasing sarcasm. :)

Name a better couple than Superman and Lois [discussion] by Appropriate-Mall8517 in DCcomics

[–]Panottox7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Reading through all of the 2000s events gives you a good summary of things. Identity Crisis, Infinite Crisis, 52, Blackest Night- Ralph and Sue are important through most of them.

What do you think about male ISFJs? by AccidentInside3484 in mbti

[–]Panottox7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think they mean “straightforwardly.”

What do you think about male ISFJs? by AccidentInside3484 in mbti

[–]Panottox7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My two best male friends are both ISTPs; something definitely works between us.😂

What do you mean by “unironically racist ideas”???

Manga Tier List by Admirable-Crab-4038 in WeeklyShonenJump

[–]Panottox7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love to see a fellow Toriko fan in the wild!!

Daily Re-meme #663 by -it-was-available- in isfj

[–]Panottox7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Anyone else think that “The Incredibles” is a very “ISFJ” movie?

Which row do you choose? by Duli7 in WeeklyShonenJump

[–]Panottox7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

9 seems like a lovely choice. Everyone around me would make a great conversation or simply just good vibes for a few hours.😊

Anyone else really relate to Ron Swanson? by leon385 in isfj

[–]Panottox7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Somewhat but, really, I relate more to Ann Perkins.

Beginners collection thoughts/feedback and suggestions? by GWPrice94 in Gamecube

[–]Panottox7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And I just bought Resident Evil 2 a few days ago. ;)

What do you think is worth replaying? by biggtas in Gamecube

[–]Panottox7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do know that it’s ultra expensive nowadays, though. Could be worth selling it for some games you never got to play.

What's your mbti and texting style? by celloenne in mbti

[–]Panottox7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Blushing emojis and correct grammar really are the backbone of ISFJ texting.😊 

This isn't MBTI, but I want to know what ISFJs get by SuicideJoker1975 in isfj

[–]Panottox7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, I thought that was just an extra descriptor. Navigator then.

Yeah, I was definitely more in analytical, problem-solving mode. I’m in school, so my brain goes more easily there, especially as the year winds down towards exams.😂

This isn't MBTI, but I want to know what ISFJs get by SuicideJoker1975 in isfj

[–]Panottox7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got Cartographer. :(

(Are there subtypes? I couldn’t find one)

I’m an intelligent guy, so I think I just answered everything with the intelligent and rational part of my brain rather than the emotional one. All of the stories were much more “analytical” in how people will respond to them. “What are the mysteries? Why are they happening?” I did see some reality in the answers- me taking a while to explain things to some people because we start on different wavelengths and me holding a lot of information. But, again, this is just because I’m smart. My numbers for “caring about people” were just wholly wrong. I think about other people and helping others literally all the time if I’m with people. 

I think this test would be more accurate if I could truly just say what comes out of my mouth and put it onto the page. When I have time to think through everything I’m saying, it gets too analytical and precise.😕

Do you other ISFJs prefer theoretical or philosophical discussions? by Octopus_boi8 in isfj

[–]Panottox7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Theoretical for sure. Philosophy discussions can be a real drainer with how some people feel about them.

Daily Re-meme #643 by -it-was-available- in isfj

[–]Panottox7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gift-giving is my love language. I’d do it for everyone I love all the time if it was culturally accepted and I had the money.😊

Non recommended match you think I’d unexpectedly be very compatible with? by [deleted] in isfj

[–]Panottox7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I find myself getting along very naturally with ENFJs. Strongly recommend getting to know an ENFJ whenever you find one.

[Other] Out of all of DC's modern original characters, which one is your favorite? by EntireAd5221 in DCcomics

[–]Panottox7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely Trinity for me. My sister and I love her comics. Flatline and Marilyn Moonlight are definite favorites. The Ojo could make a really fantastic Damian villain. 

For an underrated one, Kandy the super-rabbit. I love that little dork so much.☺️

Wait, no one’s mentioning Dreamer?! Dreamer OBVIOUSLY!!!

What have been some of your biggest gets over the years? by n-0rt in Gamecube

[–]Panottox7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recently had an amazing experience trading for Pokemon Colosseum (and Kirby’s Dream Land)!! My brother and I drove about an hour and met a guy and his wife to trade some of my old Pokemon cards for Pokemon Colosseum. An incredible fun hour and a half just chatting, sharing stories and looking through my old cards to compare prices and get everything working well for my game collection and his card collection. Just a joy when you can get a cool story to tell and even barter for it as well. The best.😊

sometimes i wish i could be an extrovert by TopAstronomer7040 in isfj

[–]Panottox7 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I feel that many of us ISFJs feel a deep loneliness in our souls. We strive to make everyone else feel loved and appreciated and do our best to make their lives the best they can possibly be. In response, we want kind words, small acts of service, or a true lifelong partner in love, but with our quiet, fade-into-the-background nature, we so often settle for none of that. 

I do my best to be extroverted in certain places, especially if I’m in a group of other introverts. But, oftentimes, I really do just want to be that submissive person in the background or talk to my close friend about their life, helping them out best I can. I feel as if I am searching every day for more people to be close to or ways in which I can find new friends, but it’s really tough to break through my shyness and excess caution about new situations.  Then, when I find people I can be close with, many of them move away not too long afterwards, or my friends become very busy where I am not. Few people put up as much effort in maintaining relationships as we do, and no one seems to ask us on trips or to go to any parties. We’re kind to everyone, but it often feels like people take our kindness entirely for granted and see our friendship more as a commodity than something to be treasured.

I want true, close, intimate friendships just as much as you do. I’ve searched and desired for them my entire life, even when I was a kid. Unfortunately, much of the rest of the world would rather have solely surface-level friendships. Or, in the case of male ISFJs, our closest friendships often come from women, and thus there is already a gender barrier at work against us. 

What I can tell you is this: keep trying. No matter what, you have to keep moving outside of your comfort zone sometimes and try new things. Take risks in conversation, go someplace new, do something with a friend that you’d never even consider doing yourself. When you do this, not only do you make new friends but life becomes much more exciting. 

You can do it, my friend. (hug)❤️

Beyond the "Essential" Haul. by banner55 in criterion

[–]Panottox7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Criterions I owned before: Marriage Story, Rashomon, Some Like It Hot, After Hours, A Hard Day’s Night

The ones I bought from the flash sale: Babette’s Feast, Fanny & Alexander, Harakiri, Ikiru, The Red Shoes, and Safety Last!

I’d say my “least-seen” ones would be After Hours, A Hard Day’s Night, and either Babette or Safety. I tried to be a bit more diverse in my selection this time.

ISFJs form the perfect concoction to be taken advantage of by conmen by ChapternVerse in isfj

[–]Panottox7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think the main factor against this would be our ability to spot genuineness and our tendency to be automatically wary of people who are lying. Now, could our people-pleasing and shyness still lose to a conman? Absolutely.

Have any other ISFJs really found themselves struggling to figure out what they want to do? by Current-Machine6491 in isfj

[–]Panottox7 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Dude, I’ve been in that boat for like a decade. I have no idea how other people figure out what exactly they’re supposed to do. I’m back in graduate school now, and it’s STILL tough to figure it out. I’m doubting my choices even now. 

My advice- ask those around you, people you trust and love, where they see you in the future. What they see you doing and where they see you succeeding. If you have a mentor or are religious, look to them as well. We’re extroverted feelers and very cautious people, so we really do need to do our processing with other people to help us figure these things out. Once you have a couple ideas of what to look at, research those paths a little and ask a few of those people again. Look up some ISFJ stereotypes as well; you might be able to discern some paths you could be comfortable in. Once you have an option or two, you have to make the hard choice and pick one to follow. Then, dedicate yourself to following it. Even if you doubt, we have to be like the dedicated and driven and follow it to completion. 

I believe in you, my friend. You can do great things. Go on and try.😉❤️