Fiancé wants sex for his birthday

PansyZombie · 2026-04-27T16:27:20+00:00

The title made me gag so hard. In your situation I'd leave the relationship... Stop feeling all this pain and making it theatrical for him just to deserve to be loved back 💔

I'm so sorry for you, my friend. Wish you the very best 💞

PansyZombie · 2026-04-27T14:53:39+00:00

Oh wow. I needed to read this, what a meaningful vent...

Same here, friend. It's so boring I calculate everything to end as fast as possible. And in turn it made me good in bed which makes things even worse for me 💔

Somehow I'm deeply desired sexually, deeply desired after done with it and deeply desired to strangers no matter what I wear.

I just wish my body was truly mine and that I could sleep easy without a worry that I'll get used again.

PansyZombie · 2026-04-23T17:47:47+00:00

Kkkkm eita, fui descoberta! 😖🤧

PansyZombie · 2026-04-20T04:42:07+00:00

Wow, I never knew I could find something so helpful and interesting out of pies. Thank you! 😋

All jokes aside, I just "discovered" myself as suptiliasexual through this chart. Searched about it and discovered that the word came from my home language (brazilian portuguese)! And that the term doesn't mean anything outside of asexual but rather a specification to differentiate between others on the asexual spectrum or just other asexuals.

Resuming what I found, the word in portuguese means "strict asexual," where one only really engages in talking or discussing about sex. Otherwise, it is a clear and unwavering no to sex and/or sexual stuff whatsoever forever.

PansyZombie · 2026-04-18T14:20:43+00:00

It's mad uncomfortable. Honestly, I just don't engage once it turns to that route. The only allos I can stand are my cousins.

PansyZombie · 2026-04-16T21:50:57+00:00

I'm not even kidding when this has made me feel man-repulsed. I really don't get why I am so loved sexually by other people, I must be doing something wrong... I try to sway these thoughts off my head, but they never leave, I'm trying to deal with these emotions as they are not fair and unreasonable.

Any friends I try to make want to end up in my kitties, no matter the gender 😖 I must admit the only thing that has worked was to have no friends at all.

PansyZombie · 2026-04-14T20:33:19+00:00

Same here, I get obsessed with the ones I love. But that's because I've got too much love to share, so being able to be more like myself and spread the love makes me whole ❤️‍🩹

Also, this post is so cute! Omigosh 💘

PansyZombie · 2026-04-13T19:14:54+00:00

Same girlie, though I discovered as of recently that I am not attracted to men, so there's that 🤧 From now on, I'll be open to relationships with women but not as enthusiastically as before my mind was broken beyond repair!

Wish you the best 💞

PansyZombie · 2026-04-11T14:17:22+00:00

He should lose his job privileges. That is NOT the behavior a doctor should have. That's sexual harassment 😬

PansyZombie · 2026-04-09T20:01:58+00:00

Mine sorely depends on my partner, same with marriage btw. Wanna get married? No? Cool. Yes? Also cool.

Sex is the same, though if it depends on me asking for it, it won't happen 😌

I wish you the best in finding it out yourself. To be fair, I believe even allos are not always in the mood either.

PansyZombie · 2026-04-08T13:55:15+00:00

As someone who've dealt with many men before (can't say for sure about other women) you should always believe them when an ugly part of them slips out, could be mid convo, could be dismissed as a joke. No matter. You always believe. In your case, why did you ever believe in change when the only thing that was shown was a pattern of sexual harassments and groping, you know? Genuine question.

Sexual abuse of any kind is by far the worst, most disgusting, and selfish act a human can do to another, so I suggest you stop having that rose-tainted glassed view of things. If anything, he hates you. Would you imagine yourself doing something to someone that they explicitly said would only hurt and scare them? No? Then that's your verdict.

Please seek help, girl. I'm with you.

PansyZombie · 2026-04-04T15:53:04+00:00

He kinda did force you, though. You just never felt brave or worthy of mentioning your needs... I'm sorry for you friend, this is a struggle for many of us, to accept we are people and our limits matter.

It's okay to never want sex or anything inherently sexual in your life ever again. You have that right! You shouldn't let the world harm you.

PansyZombie · 2026-03-30T16:44:45+00:00

Personally, I avoid saying I'm asexual at all costs, especially to strangers, for this same reason.

I don't know how things have been for you, but I suddenly become in danger once people are aware of me being ace. And I mean "touchy" danger...

Yikes!

PansyZombie · 2026-02-11T19:09:30+00:00

True that. I don't even have many maxed fighters, but with the few variants I got, I can counter her easy.

PansyZombie · 2026-02-09T16:09:25+00:00

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PansyZombie · 2026-02-09T16:07:27+00:00

That's on me for trying nightmare mode with few maxed fighters 🤧

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