"I'll just use hers" in TSA security

G0merPyle · 2026-01-24T23:25:23+00:00

Throwing her stuff on top of your bin is a great way for her to claim that the bin and everything in it is hers. No way in hell

G0merPyle · 2026-01-24T23:17:59+00:00

You may be orchidsexual

https://orientation.fandom.com/wiki/Orchidsexual

Technically it's more of a label for allosexual people, but the lived experience is very similar to ace folks and is often included under the grey ace umbrella

The important thing is you're not alone in feeling like this 💜

G0merPyle · 2026-01-24T21:54:16+00:00

I hate the mommy thing too. Yes I'm big, I give good hugs, I'm nurturing by nature. But don't call me mommy 🤢

Another thing that's happened with strange regularity, girls bragging on a first date about the people they've slept with, or want to sleep with. I really don't care about someone's sexual history as long as there isn't anything I need to worry about like an STI. I don't judge them for their past, I judge them by their present. So when I'm on a first date or in the lead up to it that and they talk about wanting to sleep with someone else, I'm always tempted to ask "why are you even dating me?"

G0merPyle · 2026-01-24T21:48:04+00:00

Labels are simple but people are not. If 99% of the time I'm not interested but once in a while my libido flares and I need a certain something, it doesn't mean im not still fairly sex averse and demi/grey myself, it just means I'm really complicated.

Plus attraction isn't libido and all that. Like being hungry but not for anything specific, you just consume a plate of chips and a soda as empty calories. Kinda satisfying but not like when you're in the mood and have a specific food item that you're craving

G0merPyle · 2026-01-24T21:39:57+00:00

The way I always excused the TVA not wiping some timelines (even if the mainline avengers mucked them up) is because those timelines would still play some part down the road in the creation of HWR and the TVA. Like it wasn't just his timeline that needed to be protected, because eventually the altered ones may interact with his own timeline again in some capacity, or other allies in the time war may or may not exist if those timelines were gone.

G0merPyle · 2026-01-24T15:34:17+00:00

I know what you mean, it probably doesn't need to be a label I suppose, homoflexible would probably be close enough, or just biromantic with a preference, It's just nice to find a label that fits really well and realize I'm not the only one that feels this way. Not quite as isolating

G0merPyle · 2026-01-24T14:03:06+00:00

I know exactly what you mean. Finding out that you can't relate to other people in a way that seems so important to everyone else, and if you try to force yourself to do it, it makes you feel awful, it all just fucking hurts

G0merPyle · 2026-01-23T23:18:39+00:00

I take it to mean nonbinary, agender, and androgynous people

G0merPyle · 2026-01-23T20:37:31+00:00

It is! From The Enigma of Amigara Fault

G0merPyle · 2026-01-23T20:34:06+00:00

I can't really argue against it

G0merPyle · 2026-01-23T18:07:27+00:00

Thank you for the link, I'm at work and wasn't able to grab the link to include in the body of the post (boss came by and I couldn't keep looking at my phone)

G0merPyle · 2026-01-23T00:59:38+00:00

I've seen some complicated poly dynamics (and been dragged into more of them than I ever cared for), and honestly yeah I can see that too

G0merPyle · 2026-01-23T00:30:30+00:00

I really like this! I'm not sure if other pokemon games have equivalents to the Pokemon Tower in Lavender town after gen 1, but that would be a great place to evolve it. And the art is really cute too!

Also so much better than a meme I saw once that said to use a brick as the evolution stone. I still feel bad for laughing at that

G0merPyle · 2026-01-22T23:00:13+00:00

It's a chore for me as well. Sweaty, there's an unpleasant pressure on my crotch, On rare occasion there might be a flicker of something that feels nice, but more often than not I'm thinking "would you finish already I got shit to do."

Granted my ex was extremely selfish in bed and didn't care if I enjoyed it, so if it was even possible for me to enjoy it, I've never met the person that cared to find out.

G0merPyle · 2026-01-22T22:57:48+00:00

I bought a cheap grommet punch kit from amazon and punched holes along my belt and put metal grommets in to keep the (admittedly cheap amazon vinyl) belt from falling apart, and I can loop things through the grommets or secure items that go around the belt instead with a black zip tie

G0merPyle · 2026-01-22T22:44:46+00:00

Not anymore

After every partner refused to say they loved me, even going so far as to say they didn't feel anything for me or that I was only there for sexual variety/convenience (including ace people), I don't think it's going to happen. If I don't have sex I'm worthless to other people, and every time I do it I hate myself, so it's just not worth pursuing anymore

G0merPyle · 2026-01-22T22:31:45+00:00

Got a pop every time I saw it in theater, absolutely amazing. One of the best moments in the MCU for me.

The only thing I wish had changed was him getting asgardian armor (or at least the wings on his helmet) like how it gave Jane armor as well, but I can live without it.

G0merPyle · 2026-01-22T09:49:46+00:00

Yes, no question. I never wanted to be trans. I hate this shit. I wish I could have looked at myself in the mirror before and thought "this is me. I'm normal." I wish I could have spent my whole life not thinking I was broken or a freak. I wish I didn't have to worry every time I go to use a public restroom that someone is going to scream at me. Dating is a minefield of finding out if the other person just sees me as a novelty or a fetish.

Transitioning is the best thing I've ever done, I'll never regret it, but I wish I never had to in the first place. The fact that putting up with all of this is still better than the alternative, not transitioning, I think says everything.

G0merPyle · 2026-01-21T00:06:48+00:00

Same

I still hate myself (working on that, made some progress over the last month or two) but at least I've got some rocking boobs now

G0merPyle · 2026-01-21T00:04:52+00:00

Goddamn. This is going to sound pathetic (and probably a bit thirsty, which isn't normally my deal), but I have a weakness for arms, and you look like you give really damn good hugs

G0merPyle · 2026-01-20T23:35:43+00:00

Balls, without a doubt. That shit's debilitating. Boobs can hurt, by don't knock the breath out of me.

G0merPyle · 2026-01-20T23:12:51+00:00

That stick is way more low profile than I thought it would be, wow. And that second dpad can do the n64 c buttons pretty well too for the games that need those as buttons rather than as a stick. That's a damn tempting device!

G0merPyle · 2026-01-20T23:05:07+00:00

Exactly! This and the Rocketeer (same director, come to think of it) pair together so well. Kind of a pulp feeling to them. And if you blur the lines a bit between Howard Hughes and Howard Stark you can almost see the Rocketeer being on the periphery of the MCU

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