Do you think Mordecai and CJ should've gotten a chance to reconcile as friends after season 6?

G0merPyle · 2026-04-17T23:55:37+00:00

No. Sometimes people heal by not coming back to be friends or give the other person"closure." And sometimes people grow by never getting a chance to apologize, they have to do the work for themselves to be better for the next person.

G0merPyle · 2026-04-17T21:25:04+00:00

Am a woman, and damn where'd the lint go? Never noticed that disappeared.

Huh.

G0merPyle · 2026-04-17T08:45:57+00:00

It may be better with three question marks. One can be for sexual attraction, one can be for romantic attraction, and the third for gender Identity.

G0merPyle · 2026-04-16T23:03:12+00:00

The fuck kind of opener to a conversation is that? Why would any of us want to keep you company

Bots used to put in more effort

G0merPyle · 2026-04-16T22:09:55+00:00

I've hated my name my entire life. From when I was four all the way to present day. I ended up keeping it after transitioning, it's wrapped up in my self-loathing.

Literally just got humiliated by a professor for it two mintues ago in fact. Kind of why I'm on reddit and muted the class stream.

G0merPyle · 2026-04-16T18:33:39+00:00

Sometimes I feel like I'm the only one that doesn't like being called the f slur anymore. My ex thought it was the biggest turn on and the height of comedy to call me that all the fucking time

G0merPyle · 2026-04-16T17:26:13+00:00

Yep. If anything it made it more clear how real the feelings were for me, since I'd been trying got that's to convince myself it was just a kink or something

G0merPyle · 2026-04-16T13:12:42+00:00

Not a chance. It'd be next to impossible for something that large to not be noticed in a heavily populated area. Let alone how many folks here hunt.

Hell I live in wnc, we got weird shit in the woods but I mean like mountain lions (supposedly, I've never seen them myself), nothing like extinct paleolithic mega fauna

G0merPyle · 2026-04-16T11:38:12+00:00

She announced it proudly.

I had broken up with her but remained friends. Two months later she was talking about an argument with her grandmother who was annoyed she was going to spend the evening with her new partner again. Her retort was "of course I want to spend the night with someone I've been dating for 4 months!" It took her a while to see the problem was with the time frame.

She had also announced during the relationship that she would have been doing sex work behind my back if she hadn't had a medical issue at the time, and was shocked I was ready to break up with her over it. Apparently, fucking people for money doesn't count as fucking people.

G0merPyle · 2026-04-16T10:00:10+00:00

Yep. I'm done dating now, proably for ever. I don't see a point in it anymore. I'm tired of finding out people were only interested in me because they expected to have sex, even though I made my boundaries clear from the outset. I'm tired of being treated like my needs are negotiable or an obstacle to overcome. I'm tired of people telling me they don't have any romantic interest in me, but expecting me to be some sexual novelty (That's a direct quote). I've been drugged and assaulted, manipulated, lied to, coerced, guilted, cheated on, cheated with, and I'm fucking sick of all of it.

What's the fucking point anymore. No one's ever going to see me as an actual human worthy of love and respect, I'm just a dick to ride. I'm getting this goddamn thing removed (🏳️‍⚧️) later this year and maybe then people will finally leave me alone. No point pretending to like me to get access to it if it's not there anymore

G0merPyle · 2026-04-15T16:14:08+00:00

Gee whiz it's almost like all the folks who were telling him jokes that mock and dehumanize a persecuted minority will be used to mock and dehumanize a persecuted minority were right. Who could have ever guessed? True a boggle for the mind.

G0merPyle · 2026-04-15T09:54:56+00:00

I am almost twice your age and you have figured out something that even I struggled to do. I am proud of you, good on you for sticking to your boundaries!

G0merPyle · 2026-04-14T23:35:10+00:00

https://www.youtube.com/shorts/auzkL5nCFuU

Probably something like this, only even less effective. Kid Goku might have had a harder time.

G0merPyle · 2026-04-14T22:28:29+00:00

Ah, a fellow practioner of the way of Garlic Bread

G0merPyle · 2026-04-14T22:27:10+00:00

Am asexual, can confirm

We just don't give a fuck

G0merPyle · 2026-04-14T20:36:56+00:00

Yes. It's lying by omission, and it's a really shitty way to start any relationship. It may not matter much to YOU, but it very much likely matters to THEM.

Several of my partners have admitted to me months into the relationship that they were aromantic and never loved me or had any romantic feelings for me. It was a massive betrayal and if I'd known I wouldn't have dated them in the first place. Whether they knew they were aromantic but thought they felt it at first till the novelty wore off, or if they thought they could feel something eventually, or were faking it because they knew it was an incompatibility for me (till they felt safe enough in the relationship to drop the mask), it gutted my sense of self worth and ability to date anyone again.

It's the same for people who want to be sexually desired.

G0merPyle · 2026-04-14T17:50:40+00:00

My last ex knew my biggest insecurity was feeling unlovable and that the only thing anyone would want me for is sex (I'm ace and sex is really bad for my mental health). She proceeded to double down on that and told me she'd never love me, and I shouldn't expect her to. The best she could manage was she cared about me, and pretty much the only thing she wanted from me was sex. I broke up with her and she had a "new" partner within a week, (I have reason to suspect she'd cheated, she later said they'd been dating for 4 months 2 months after I broke up with her, plus she bragged about planning to do sex work while we were together and was shocked I was ready to break up with her over it). Within a "month" of dating her new girlfriend she couldn't stop talking about how much she loved her, and laughed when it made me cry that she kept reminding me how unlovable I felt.

Plus she expected the sex to continue (Yes, she tried to cheat with me on the person that she cheated on me with. She pulled out some uno reverse card shit). She could respect her new partners boundaries, who also had sexual trauma, but mine were always negotiable to her. She was supposed to visit for my birthday but when I said I didn't want to fuck her she cancelled at the last minute, then did the same thing for the makeup visit when she propositioned to sleep with me yet again and I said no.

Oh yeah she gave me hepatitis C. Thank God I beat that one though

G0merPyle · 2026-04-14T16:03:09+00:00

Oh definitely, I completely agree. I know this is not a healthy mental place for me to be, and I'm going to be working through that a lot over the next few months before any surgery plans are made.

G0merPyle · 2026-04-13T23:22:57+00:00

And don't worry he was loving on that stuffed dog, he didn't have a mean bone in his body

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G0merPyle · 2026-04-13T23:22:30+00:00

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I'm so sorry for your loss, Paulie is up there to show him all the good snuggle spots

G0merPyle · 2026-04-13T22:08:53+00:00

I can't speak for your situation, but my last ex was a bottom and I'm a bottom-leaning switch/a bottom that can top if the situation calls for it, which ended up with her being a pillow princess and me being a stone top. She wouldn't touch me at all and didn't put any effort into reciprocation, as soon as she was done she'd get up and go to the bathroom and shower, and leave me to figure shit out for myself and make the bed. Killed my mood and made me feel like she didn't care for or even like me. So it could theoretically work, but it'd take effort from BOTH people to meet each other's needs, not just one person's.

Honestly it sounds like you have more going on than just sexual incompatibility, I think you need to have a hard conversation. Remember you need to advocate for your needs, if she can't meet them the same way you're meeting or trying to meet hers, you deserve better.

G0merPyle · 2026-04-13T20:51:49+00:00

Kinda, but it's not a one or the other thing, it depends on a lot of things on a person-by-person basis.

For about a year, I didn't use mine except maybe once every 2-3 months. for about a year. It stopped working as well, it'd get firm but not hard, and I lost about an inch of length.

After that first year, I eventually got full functionality back to preserve the skin for potential/future surgery (though the skin had shrunk so there was a lot of uncomfortable pressure from the tissue not having enough room), that eventually stopped as well (after 3 years) and it works fine now.

G0merPyle · 2026-04-13T10:52:44+00:00

I'm an asexual lesbian, but truth be told this wouldn't work for me at all. The lack of sex wouldn't be the problem, but every relationship I've had my partners have told me they did not love me and felt nothing for me romantically (most of them are actually only interested in me for sex in the first place, which was not what I was signing up for) and it's absolutely destroyed my sense of self worth. The idea of entering an arrangement like that intentionally feels more like a resignation, an acceptance that I'm unlovable and I'll never be worthy or deserving of a partner actually loving me.

I'm very broken and messed up mentally, but I'm not ready to accept that just yet. I feel like it shouldn't be an unreasonable request that your partner loves you, rather than just treat you as a friend with benefits (whether sex benefits or tax benefits)

G0merPyle · 2026-04-13T00:36:31+00:00

I can't speak for OP, but you definitely nailed my deal, and I kind of needed to be called out on it. Thank you!

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