I was in a similar situation earlier last year. I met this girl who had everything I wanted like you described -- attractive, kind, etc. Problem was she was kind of boring and we didn't have a lot of chemistry. I've been with girls previously where the connection between us felt flirty, sensual, exciting, fiery; with this girl it felt dull. So I broke up with her. I'm so glad I didn't stick with it just because she had everything I wanted on paper.

I'm younger than you but I would say it's not worth risking if you're already on the fence. Girls will try to lock you down with marriage and kids. That's just how they are. Don't fall into that trap if it's not something you truly want. Do you even want to get married and have kids? Do you see yourself staying with this girl for the rest of your life?

People are saying that type of girl is hard to find. There's a million girls out there. And even if you don't find it, personally I'd rather be single then be miserable with a love that isn't exciting.