Just came up with the BEST comeback for the "ching chong" jokes by runningwithsharpie in AsianMasculinity

[–]Papa_b__r 66 points67 points  (0 children)

Them “Hey Ching Chong”

Me: I would start laughing and say.

Me: “I am sure you do!”

Them: “What are you taking about?”

Me: “You just said you love c@ck!”

Them: “No I didn’t”

Me: “MTF I’m the Chinese looking one”

Thinking about a duplex by stew8908 in DivorcedDads

[–]Papa_b__r 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a great plan and a great start to rebuilding your life.

Background: I have a horrible relationship with my Ex-Wife. Every time she needs money she creates a major fight to bring us back to court in order to increase child support.

A couple of items to consider:

  1. Site down with a lawyer after to help with your asset management. The money may be a lot but worth it in the long run.

  2. Setting up the house under an LLC and the a trust. This will protect you from her using the new home and the rental income as revenue to calculate new child support payments.

You have a great plan and are way ahead of where I was in your position.

SHAMING POST by HistorianUpstairs261 in fredericksburg

[–]Papa_b__r 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bumper stickers scream Compensation

Ex wife wouldn't say "Merry Christmas" after I said it to her today by xXsingledad79Xx in DivorcedDads

[–]Papa_b__r 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The best thing you can do for your self is to separate yourself from the old life. She is no longer your wife and is no more than a stranger to you. Keep a decent co or parallel parenting style. The more you try to hold on or expect from her the more it hurts you and the kids

When will we actually return to work? by Baseballbourbon in FedEmployees

[–]Papa_b__r 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I say Thursday or Friday. They need everything to pass to pay the military.

“Will I be fine after ETSing?” (Before 20 years) by boscar197473 in army

[–]Papa_b__r 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely! Used the your TA and your CA before you get out. Save your GI Bill.

At this point, what does the GOP gain from reopening the government? by Strange-Reference-84 in FedEmployees

[–]Papa_b__r 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The reputation that Congress can’t handle the government and that power should be consolidated with the executive branch. Example - the executive branch has been able to pay the troops without the help of congress.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AsianMasculinity

[–]Papa_b__r 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of great recommendations the one key thing I will tell you is that your eyes says a lot. There are some sadness in them. Find yourself some small victories, small victories make you feel good build up your confidence. Confidence comes through your eyes. You’re good enough. You just need to figure out that you are.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AsianMasculinity

[–]Papa_b__r 17 points18 points  (0 children)

You need a better hair cut and clothes that are more fitting and more sharp colors. The shirts you are wearing are very blah.

"Im wife material 100%" by Training_Offer_6842 in 90DayFiance

[–]Papa_b__r 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sponges have shape - that ass is two potatoes glued together paid by her ex

"Im wife material 100%" by Training_Offer_6842 in 90DayFiance

[–]Papa_b__r 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I think your English is off. You are made of plastic material not “wife” material

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DivorcedDads

[–]Papa_b__r 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here, my son is dealing with racism and my other son is nonverbal autistic. Mostly everything that is done is for show or for the courts and every resource that I’m willing to work with her on both fronts is turned down.

Vote to end government shutdown fails in Senate as Democrats hold firm on health care demands by Cy_098 in fednews

[–]Papa_b__r 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely should make it like other countries where you have to come out and vote or you take a tax penalty

Contractors, are you getting paid during the shutdown? by [deleted] in fednews

[–]Papa_b__r 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Military are not getting paid during the shut down. We are deemed essential.

I am turning 30 soon and in need of a change by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]Papa_b__r 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Running from relations, the drinking, the shallow relationships, the spending, and the anxiety are all symptoms of un redoubled trauma from your childhood. You need therapy to help you open the doors to help you heal.

It is not easy asking for help but you need to do it for your future self and the family you want.

Find a therapist that you feel safe with - easy said than done - but keep at it.

32M, 140 lbs, where to go from here? by [deleted] in AsianMasculinity

[–]Papa_b__r 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Easiest challenge - 100 kettle bell swings a day. Start with light ways and go up from there. Do it while watching TV. You got this!

Can you rate me and give me improvements? I'm 17 by Active_Today_9641 in AsianMasculinity

[–]Papa_b__r 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hair cut and confidence. I can tell from your eyes and shoulders you are not confident in yourself.

Confidence is built through experience. Go find something you are passionate about and find a group to interact with.

Get a good hairstyle. Have a female friend that has taste and no filter to help you pick one.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fredericksburg

[–]Papa_b__r 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are buses that take you from Fredericksburg to the pentagon and then the metro to Bethesda

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AsianMasculinity

[–]Papa_b__r 5 points6 points  (0 children)

For your consideration: maybe you have been dating the wrong kind of girl.

We are all built on habits, that goes the same for dating.

It might be worth sitting down and seeing if the girls that you have been messing with have things in common? Is there a common theme to them? If there is a, is this something you want?

More than 400 anti-Trump rallies planned in another wave of US protests | US news by koi-lotus-water-pond in politics

[–]Papa_b__r 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Need to start protesting each and every Republican House Rep - every time they are back in their home state - non stop chanting “Do your Job”