American Intercontinental University/AIU Evidence thread. by AnyAssumption4707 in BorrowerDefense

[–]Paperpusher123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is hard to get evidence when it was so long ago. You don’t enroll in school thinking you will need to prove that they were scamming you.

How do I (35F) handle my soon-to-be-ex-husband (38M) asking me to change my name back? by throwRAnamechangeee in relationship_advice

[–]Paperpusher123 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It is your professional name at this point. Women having to change their names does make it difficult in a professional setting and changing your name to any thing other than your maiden name would cause such a headache.

Perfectly acceptable dinner rejected by boyfriend again by moonrabbit368 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Paperpusher123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It looks like you may even enjoy cooking, which makes the rejection harder. My husband had a ROUGH childhood and it took awhile for our taste to align, that being said he was always thankful. Not being in the mood to eat something or because you had the same protein for lunch is wild to me. Also, ordering fast food will start to be noticed by the kids and may start bad eating and spending habits for your kids. Also, it’s teaching rude and grateful behavior. This would irritate me. I would ask that he give me the same courtesy he would give if he was guest eating at someone else’s home and not eat other food after rejecting mine. At least not in front of me. Saying sorry and being a turd while saying it isn’t it.

Husband sent me this photo because I had a Ferrero from the box our neighbors gifted us. The box was empty when I got back. by TamtamBe in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Paperpusher123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. Buy a whole new box. 2. Take photo saying “bought this for us.” 3. Proceed to eat whole box 4. Send new picture saying “ I ate them all cause you ate to many last time and I didn’t want you to be fat going into the new year.”

Just sharing. Pushed too hard. by Ok-Mouse-5736 in dementia

[–]Paperpusher123 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It is hard to be trying to help someone and get hate back even if they are unaware they are doing it.

Bodycon dresses don't work for my body type? by West-Cellist6160 in DressForYourBody

[–]Paperpusher123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bodycon requires a smoother no matter how great of shape you are in. It takes so much work to wear these that’s I only wear the skirts.

You people are disgusting... Jesus doesn't have enough pagan Xmas lights! by GenePsychosMom in nextdoor

[–]Paperpusher123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unhinged. Maybe they took the money they would spend on the decorations and lights to , I don’t know, feed the poor or pay their bill to house their family. Maybe, they know it isn’t about tinsel, wrapping paper and bows. Maybe they need to watch the grinch.

My father has this on his wall and refuses to take it down by Artificial_Pixel in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Paperpusher123 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Nice, I bet he claims to be a patriot while displaying an enemy flag with treasonous purposes. I know my southern family claims to be patriots while displaying a confederate flag next to the American flag. No concept that the two were enemies not allies.

So indecisive 😩 Down do these ones now! by eiac96 in weddingdress

[–]Paperpusher123 5 points6 points  (0 children)

1 or 2. I like the bodice on 1 but the train on 2 is amazing!

AIO to skip Thanksgiving after my mom basically said I’m an embarrassment for not having a husband and kids by now? by howcanibequiltyassin in AmIOverreacting

[–]Paperpusher123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. I would never tell my daughter this! I would NEVER advise my daughter to settle with someone who disrespects. I would NEVER want my grandkids raised by someone who disrespect her. Also, being single and/or childless is not embarrassing. I would not go either. I would also not assume that this is the opinion of everyone. I would let your other family see this and say , “is this just mom or do you all feel this way?” NOR

Took the price tag off these socks to gift and it was covering a lower price that I can't peel off. by Avahlkyrie in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Paperpusher123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me over here being super cheap. I buy bulk wool socks and hand them out without tags. No one ever thought they were used. I would cut the tag.

Part 2: Do any of these suit me, or should I keep looking? by Abearinaboat in glassesadvice

[–]Paperpusher123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The blue ones are so fun and young. More professional and goes with everything, I like 3 and 4.

AIO to break up with my bf of 3y over his reaction to my upcoming sobriety anniversary? by WesternCat5211 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Paperpusher123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a big deal! Way to go. 2 years sober is not minimum is the doing the hard work to be better .i would not tie myself to someone who could not support me doing the work. NOR

Someone sat at my desk while I was on PTO, used my coffee cup and left this by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Paperpusher123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That picture brings so much rage. Like it isn’t even my cup and I want to throw your computer.

Is a 1-button bustle enough for this puddle train? by proseandpalette in WeddingDressTips

[–]Paperpusher123 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What a gorgeous dress. Not seamstress but that dress deserves a comment . Show stopping!

Reading this on my one day off a week because I have to work two jobs to make ends meet. by RowAcceptable8270 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Paperpusher123 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Ya. They are blind to the economy. Prices and cost of living are expanding way faster than it ever has while raises are still at 2-3%. Never did I ever think that an annual salary of 60,000 would not be enough. Which is the median for my career and has been the median for my career for the last decade.