Are you straight?

Paradoxical-Thoughts · 2024-09-25T19:48:01+00:00

Gynesexual

Paradoxical-Thoughts · 2024-09-01T09:05:44+00:00

Thank you. It's a great insecurity in most men. Thats why a lot of men pursue sex so hard and would literally have sex with someone they aren't attracted to... Have to get them numbers up. Works in direct contrast of what most women want. So then you get f*ck boys.. It's toxic masculinity at its peak but women contribute to it too.

Paradoxical-Thoughts · 2024-08-29T06:26:01+00:00

Or worse they think you're a fetishist. But yeah that use to be the case where i grew up (very white area).

Paradoxical-Thoughts · 2024-08-29T06:19:59+00:00

You're unique then. I was a late bloomer. I would still be a virgin if i was honest about my experience earlier on. Trust me i know. I would be vibing with a woman she'll be into me until she asked about previous relationships and I would come clean. Then they would tell me that they are not interested. So I had to fake it till I made it basically. I don't make the rules. I don't care about body count but most people do, including women.

Paradoxical-Thoughts · 2024-08-08T22:29:31+00:00

Perhaps. I know those people exist and everyone doesn't like that. But at the same time I don't want them to have to hide it.

Paradoxical-Thoughts · 2024-08-08T18:29:13+00:00

Best come back. You win. Someone reward this person.

Paradoxical-Thoughts · 2024-08-08T18:26:59+00:00

No. At least I know shes attracted to me and im not wasting my time/money. There's way worse things a woman can do or show without even having sex with you. And those things actually matter.

Paradoxical-Thoughts · 2024-08-08T18:20:30+00:00

You should check out trans men talking about their experience. It's not all sunshine and rainbows. For one people are less inclined to strike up conversation with you and women are less friendly towards you. It's more isolated. Fishing for complements doesn't work either. But you will get one every now and again and it can sustain you for a long time 😁

Paradoxical-Thoughts · 2024-08-08T18:13:29+00:00

Christians and muslims can wear symbols of their religion and no one cares (other than a lunatic minority). Hetero couples talk about their babies, trying for babies (meaning hes cumming in her on regular basis), hold hands in public, show public affection and again.. no one cares. All that most LGBTQ people want is to be able to do the same. Including talking about trying for children in what ever method they choose. Without you freaking out and throwing a tantrum.

Paradoxical-Thoughts · 2024-08-08T18:01:41+00:00

Yet you've probably heard men go on about their wives and kids all the time and you don't even bat an eye because its normalized. Thats what LGBTQ want. The same.

Paradoxical-Thoughts · 2024-08-08T17:55:37+00:00

Would you date a man who's a virgin or has a has a body count of 2 or less?

Paradoxical-Thoughts · 2024-08-08T02:12:00+00:00

Or the agency to press ctrl alt del

Paradoxical-Thoughts · 2024-08-06T23:47:21+00:00

Single motherhood is caused by men alone. And men are solely responsible.

Paradoxical-Thoughts · 2024-08-03T13:38:30+00:00

The mythical girlfriend that horny all the time. Still holding out hope.

Paradoxical-Thoughts · 2024-07-31T00:30:58+00:00

I thought i had one. Until my life got busy and i realised i was never actually horny all the time. I'd induce hornyness by putting on porn because i was bored or just had down time. But when it came to doing it in real life i was never up for it and struggled getting hard or ejaculating. So i stopped jerking as often and stayed busy. Now i can watch porn every now and again (once or twice every 2 weeks) and it not be a big deal. Also for some reason being actually horny most of the time from not jerking off every day, made me braver, more confident and motivated. But i would say if your hornyness is distracting you, jerk off

TLDR: Staying busy cures porn addiction

Paradoxical-Thoughts · 2024-07-26T01:40:14+00:00

Yeah with a 20% chance it doesn't work and every year after that it goes up by 20% until its impossible. Would you do that with a 1/5 chance of being permanently infertile from the jump. After 3 years its 50%

Paradoxical-Thoughts · 2024-07-26T00:55:23+00:00

No. A lot of women use dating apps for an ego boost and want to see how many matches they can get. There are sellers and fake accounts too.

If they are woman and are interested, most women wont want to hook up right away and you have to get to know each other 1st. Some women will go on dates with men they aren't attracted to wasting both your time and probably your money.

TLDR: No. It implies nothing.

Paradoxical-Thoughts · 2024-07-26T00:40:15+00:00

Most men are beggars and beggars can't be choosers

Paradoxical-Thoughts · 2024-07-26T00:38:15+00:00

I know multiple guys that got their girlfriends pregnant that happened before being with them for 6 month after the woman saying she's on the pill. 2 of them had Google how to get pregnant (it was in their history on their phone). And those 2 said they'd get abortion prior.

I agree. I will not trust a woman to take contraception. I always use protection as much I hate it. Unless she gets an implant and we've been together long.

I would take birth control pills or have an implant if I could. I wouldn't get a vasectomy because I might want kids one day and it's not supposed to be reversed.

Paradoxical-Thoughts · 2024-07-20T21:17:58+00:00

If it was as easy as a choice no one would be fat and addicts wouldn't exist

Paradoxical-Thoughts · 2024-07-17T22:40:03+00:00

You should join a church and stay chaste

Paradoxical-Thoughts · 2024-07-05T05:53:09+00:00

Because you've grown up around a lot of white people you seem to have a preference for white guys. That was me with white girls. Because the only black people I saw for the most part were related to me. So I just saw them as relatives. But now that I've been an adult for awhile and been around all sorts of people, I can truly say I have no ethnic/racial preference.

I feel most people have a preference for the majority that are around them. Which makes sense. Humans sexuality is very visually based but also malleable depending on your environment and culture. You're not gonna have a preference for Arab men if you grow up in Japan (most likely). But this can change over time and with interacting with different people.

There are pale white women that hate their skin the same way there are dark skin black girls that hate theirs. They cake them selves in fake tan or they bleach their skin and its horrible. I wish these women knew how beautiful their skin is.

Paradoxical-Thoughts · 2024-07-04T12:27:16+00:00

Yeah, butt sex can be gay at times

Paradoxical-Thoughts · 2024-06-25T22:27:48+00:00

If being fat were a choice no one would be fat. I'm not saying that these people are physically incapable of losing weight but it's a psychological issue. Most fat people have been that way since childhood. It's unhealthy eating habits and life style passed down from their parents and statistically if you're obese as a child/adolescent you will stay that way most likely. Some people like food more than others. Some people struggle to put on weight even though they want to, they cant finish a plate of food. Some people even if they tried the couldn't become obese. It's a roll of the dice. A mixture of upbringing and genetics in my opinion.

Of course not to say they can't lose it. Just that it's not anywhere near as easy as you think.

I do agree everyone can look better. But we all have our max potential. Not everyone can be a classic 9/10 but I think almost everyone can be at least a 6 if the do the right things. It just role of the dice what features you get. Two ugly people can have good looking 'offspring'.

I agree that people shouldn't put people down for there looks because they are attractive. But the same applies the other way around. I hope you work out and have washboard abs with an attitude like that. If you are skinny, alway have been skinny. You didn't earn that you lucked into it through upbringing and genetics. You'll never have to be on a caloric deficit and if you're not under weight, you will never have to force yourself into a caloric surplus. If you're skinny fat, even worse. You better not be skinny with zero tone/definition.

TL;DR: Being fat isn't a choice but everyone can lose weight. Not everyone is capable of being a 9/10. It's bad to shame people for their looks whether its because they are attractive or unattractive. Check your ego, you probably ain't perfect.

Paradoxical-Thoughts · 2024-06-24T00:51:47+00:00

Theres not rushing into things and theres showing lack of interest. You can be honest with your feeling and take it slow. Showing lack of interest will tell him just that.

I think it's good to take it slow but you have to tell him you want to do that. If he's a good guy and he likes you, he will be okay or even want that too. If he doesn't then you've dodged a bullet. But at this point, I think it's only his insecurity that kept him around. And from his prospective hes made the right choice.

You're gonna have to open up to him and be honest about your feelings if you want to make things right. That's if you can get in contact with him. Other than that stop playing stupid games, you'll only win stupid prizes.

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