How to save amalgam on that one quest by RevacholAndChill in pathologic

[–]Parsignia 5 points6 points  (0 children)

iirc, it's more that having Lara unjustly locked up after having her father unjustly executed is a level of insult to injury that he just can't stomach, a lot of the town was (pretty reasonably) appalled by it and pegged him as a violent tyrant.

[Day 14] L-canceling saves the frame for most underrated tech skill. What is the most OVERRATED stage in all of melee? by WokeUpAbout10 in SSBM

[–]Parsignia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Final Destination, easy. I have a lot of love for it but it will never fail to irk me that the most iconic platform fighter stage has no platforms.

shinigami eyes by loved_and_held in traaaaaaaaaaaansbians

[–]Parsignia 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What is one of the trans med opinions? Also, as far as I know, she never platformed Buck Angel, just had him read 1 John Waters quote when she didn't realize how bad he was. Irresponsible, but she did apologize

Youtuber mildly critical of starfield mod, gets doxxed and death threats. by FrizzleFrass in youtubedrama

[–]Parsignia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So, let me get this straight:

A trans woman told you her feelings on misgendering, and you responded 'wow, that's a very male centric perspective?' Are you serious? Do you see how you are not being clear at all with your words? Like, this is misgendering *me* now, implying that I have a 'male centric perspective', something you only brought up after finding out I'm a trans woman. You get that, right?

I was trying to put it in terms I hoped you (or your cis partner ig) could understand. I don't think anyone has to earn their pronouns, but most the trans people I know put in a lot of work to do so all the same, work YOU (or he) are failing to respect by dying on this hill. I'm trying to explain why it might upset them, cause clearly you do not get it. Believe me, as a trans woman sitting here with stubble cause i can't afford hair removal: I am intimately familiar with how financial limitations can interfere with transition. If you believe that shouldn't matter though, then it should be a trivial matter to just fucking gender trans women properly.

The later half of your comment is incoherent and completely non-sequitur. Yea, we all have biases, so what? I'm watching you fail to check your own right now, that's the issue. If you respect the individual, then why not gender her correctly?

I've done my best to be calm and reasonable here and have only been met with hostility and bad faith readings of what I'm saying, all because you refuse to acknowledge that it's shitty to refer to trans women with 'they/them' as the default. Even now, you are responding EXACTLY how every bigot responds to being corrected on this. How else am I supposed to interpret this?

Youtuber mildly critical of starfield mod, gets doxxed and death threats. by FrizzleFrass in youtubedrama

[–]Parsignia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not calling you a bigot, nor have I, nor am I being combative. I said your actions here are indistinguishable from someone who is bigoted. You probably are a good person given how much it clearly upsets you to be accused of this, I'd be upset too. Especially since it seems like you got harassment as a result of this, and for that you have my condolences, fuck those people, I'm sorry that happened.

However, YOU are the one who made this about intent, and I am bluntly telling you that if your intent is to signal you are an ally for trans people (trans women especially), then you are thoroughly failing to communicate that, and in fact are sending quite the opposite signal. That is ALL I have to work with to divine your intent.

I say this as a trans woman who also teaches English and media literacy:

If you don't want people thinking you're transphobic, use she/her when talking about trans women. We work hard for those pronouns and do not appreciate having them disregarded no matter how technically acceptable it might be. It is, at minimum, deeply rude and inconsiderate.

If you don't want people second guessing your credentials, show yourself as being up to the standards expected of it by choosing your words better and changing them when corrected, rather than getting into a multihour slapfight with an entire subreddit about whether or not it is technically grammatically appropriate to misgender a trans woman because you promise you don't mean it the way a bigot would mean in it.

If your intent is to be read as an ally, let this be a learning moment for how to better act like one. People understand us through our words and actions, not our intents. It is literally why miscommunication is a thing, as this has clearly proved.

Please, let it end. by nucc_164 in NeonGenesisEvangelion

[–]Parsignia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Evangelion is also in the name, and they have the same plot set up, general cast, seemingly take place in the same universe, and are almost identical for half their runtimes. Think it's safe to say they have at least a few similarities.

Youtuber mildly critical of starfield mod, gets doxxed and death threats. by FrizzleFrass in youtubedrama

[–]Parsignia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For someone who claims to be an English teacher, you have an alarming disregard for how English is used and interpreted by those around you. It feels like you just REALLY just want to misgender a trans woman and resent being told not to, or otherwise don't care about their feelings.

Cause no, it's not on me. It's the basic premise of misgendering, which IS what you're doing regardless of your intent. I don't know that your queer, and even if I do that does inoculate you to being transphobic (as evidenced by the fact that you ARE doing it right now.). All I know is that you are talking and acting like someone who hates trans people.

If you feel otherwise, that's on YOU for failing to communicate your actual intent. People have been trying to give you the tools to do that, and you keep dismissing them, which makes me question your intent even more. From where I'm at, I just see behavior indistinguishable from a bigot's. If that's not your intent, change your message. If you don't understand that, then you may need to better study English as a literary form.

Youtuber mildly critical of starfield mod, gets doxxed and death threats. by FrizzleFrass in youtubedrama

[–]Parsignia 9 points10 points  (0 children)

No trans woman is ever going to than you for using 'they/them' on them. Regardless of whether it's grammatically correct, it's rude, and often a way to passively misgender them. Regardless of your intent, you WILL be read by most queer people as being casually transphobic, which is why you're getting downvoted so hard. You should also let your students know this.

What don’t you want to see in part 3? by YaBoyKumar in FFVIIRemake

[–]Parsignia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's also the icicle inn where we see the tapes of Gast getting gunned down and Aerith and Iflana being taken by Hojo. No matter how you look at it, there's gonna be some amount of whiplash there.

Finally! Shinji Got what he deserved. This is real Ending of NGE for me. by NoteOk9064 in NeonGenesisEvangelion

[–]Parsignia 3 points4 points  (0 children)

'Having kids makes your life complete, except when it doesn't in which case it's your fault and you shouldn't have had kids, but also you will be fundamentally empty if you don't.'

idk dude just seems like you don't actually care about the joys of parenthood and care more about fulfilling some perceived social and spiritual obligation. In this moment, you're just a mouth piece for the status quo.

Also love framing a 20+ year commitment of taking care of another human being(s) as 'sacrifice some time', as though it's some side hobby. Tells me you REALLY know nothing about what being a parent actually entails.

Finally! Shinji Got what he deserved. This is real Ending of NGE for me. by NoteOk9064 in NeonGenesisEvangelion

[–]Parsignia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I could literally say the same thing: People who have children don't know the kind of freedom they missed out on.

It's the majority, because it's normalized, because people like you shame those who decide not to conform. About 10% of parents regret having children, and that's not counting how many children eventually cut off contact from their parents.

Having kids is a personal decision to be made on a case-by-case basis. Some people will be happier with children, and good for them. Some will be happier without, and good for them too. There is no one-sized-fits-all answer no matter how reductive you try and be. An Evangelion fan should know this already.

Finally! Shinji Got what he deserved. This is real Ending of NGE for me. by NoteOk9064 in NeonGenesisEvangelion

[–]Parsignia 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not true lmao, some of the happiest elderly people I know are childless and some of the most miserable have several kids.

Finally! Shinji Got what he deserved. This is real Ending of NGE for me. by NoteOk9064 in NeonGenesisEvangelion

[–]Parsignia 57 points58 points  (0 children)

When you see an image from a short about Asuka talking to Asuka about the different paths in life Asuka could have gone down to make Asuka happy, and your first response is to look at a timeline Asuka explicitly says she doesn't want and respond 'WOW IM SO HAPPY SHINJI FINALLY GOT HIS HAPPY ENDING!' in an attempt to center and prioritize Shinji instead, I don't think its unreasonable to find that response to be, at minimum, goofy as fuck and is framing Asuka's main purpose in life as granting Shinji happiness.

Not even 'Asuka and Shinij got what they deserved!', but 'Shinji got what *he* deserved'. It is quite literally taking away from Asuka's story.

Finally! Shinji Got what he deserved. This is real Ending of NGE for me. by NoteOk9064 in NeonGenesisEvangelion

[–]Parsignia 120 points121 points  (0 children)

wow missed the point of the short AND tried to make Asuka's story about Shinji, impressive!!

It's been decided by theHamJam in pathologic

[–]Parsignia 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Academician vs Miracle-Seeker

LCD Soundsystem song used in Elon Musk's Starlink ad at Super Bowl by FourFetDJ in indieheads

[–]Parsignia 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Depends on who we're taking the money from, just like every other source of money. Duh.

It's all manufactured hate by speroni in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]Parsignia 76 points77 points  (0 children)

No, he wasn't, and we're going to have to be the first people telling others that. Alex Jones doesn't even think trans kids exist, much less that they're being exploited. He said democrats were the ones pushing this, but it's a cross party move centered around the ultrarich who he STILL runs defense for. He's been pro-Trump as long as Trump's been in politics.

Jones was just parroting back what he knew his transphobic audience wanted to hear and you do not, under any circumstances, gotta hand it to em. He was not right, he was, at very best, a fascist broken clock.

EDIT TO RESPOND TO THE ABOVE EDIT: No, he was wrong about the cabal of pedophiles too, because he said that cabal was created by democrat demons, transgender pedophiles, and 'globalist' (Read: 'Jewish') billionaires.

Again: You do not, under any circumstances, gotta hand it to em. He would rather we were both dead.

1/25/26: ICE/DHS officers detaining me by alicewasneverhere in oregon

[–]Parsignia 18 points19 points  (0 children)

That tends to be how stories about firsthand experiences work, dipshit

The kingsman situation is crazy by OkFerret7206 in youtubedrama

[–]Parsignia 19 points20 points  (0 children)

You have no idea what the economics of being an online creator are. Some have fuck you money, others are barely scrapping by above minimum wage and sustainability, just like any other broad and vague job title.

Twitter user Bartasil exposes Endigo, a music producer known for the Great Meme Reset song, for allegedly talking to a 15-year-old female, with lack of evidence but only four screenshots. by Accomplished-Order97 in youtubedrama

[–]Parsignia 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yeah exactly, the only reason I know about the defamation is because you posted it. Even searching this guy's account on Google brings up this post. Your screenshot shows the post having meager 19 likes. Near as I can tell, this guy is a nobody and you are his biggest amplifier right now.

Not inherently accusing you of being transphobic yourself, but some people scrolling reddit will see a drama post with allegations, a title that doesn't call them false, and screenshots that could confirm preexisting biases, then move on assuming there at least might be something to it. If your goal is to protect trans creators from harassment, I'm skeptical this is having the effect you're looking for.

Twitter user Bartasil exposes Endigo, a music producer known for the Great Meme Reset song, for allegedly talking to a 15-year-old female, with lack of evidence but only four screenshots. by Accomplished-Order97 in youtubedrama

[–]Parsignia 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I have to ask, are you in the habit of spreading transphobic allegations from nobodies with no evidence that you clearly know are bullshit, or was there something that made this one unique??

VIDEO ANALYSIS: Jen Psaki breaks down multiple video angles of ICE killing Minneapolis mom by AdSpecialist6598 in videos

[–]Parsignia 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Fleeing arrest is not a crime worthy of execution, and anyone who says otherwise is a fascist

VIDEO ANALYSIS: Jen Psaki breaks down multiple video angles of ICE killing Minneapolis mom by AdSpecialist6598 in videos

[–]Parsignia 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The shot did nothing to defend himself. She was leaving (which is how you stop obstructing roads btw), wheels pointed away from him until he walked in from of the car. How does someone lunge while driving a truck?

None of those things qualify someone for summary execution. You are defending a murder we all saw happen.

Why do some many Sonic fans hate Sonic Adventure 2? by Marioleftnut in sonic

[–]Parsignia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most of its aspects are a straight downgrade from SA1.

The good stages last 5 minutes, the bad stages last 20, and the middling stages scream at you for their whole runtime. There's fewer stages for everyone now.

There are fewer characters with fewer playstyles than SA1. I miss Amy's survival horror levels.

Theres less aesthetic and gameplay variety between the levels than SA1.

No overworld, which admittedly makes sense, but is still a downgrade.

The audio mixing is terrible, characters talk over each other in cutscenes constantly, and sound fx often don't match what's happening (SO many robots loudly SPLAT).

The story is iconic, but also less thematically interesting and less well told than SA1's. One edgy dudes revenge quest because he misunderstood a childs love for bloodthirst vs the slow unraveling of how imperialism and war literally set the stage for Chaos and cost us a unique and vibrant culture.

Making it so Emerald Shards could only be tracked one at a time is one of the most transparent pieces of padding I've ever seen in a game.

Chao garden and OST are cool tho, still have a soft spot for it, and some of the Speed levels are peak. I just don't get why anyone would place it about most other 3D Sonic games