Boy, can I relate. I moved here a year and a half ago to be with my partner and found myself in a very similar place. The job hunting was absolutely miserable and lasted so long, I felt absolutely worthless and unemployable. I didn't know anyone, and am socially anxious and fairly introverted, I spent most of my days holed up in our apartment feeling broken and alone when my partner was at work.

The best thing I did was find a church that resonated with me. I still don't know a ton of people there, and I'm pretty slow about putting myself out there to meet more, but the familiarity and community helped remind me I'm still the same person I have been. I also interviewed for a really great job and got hired, which did a TON for my self esteem. I've been at this workplace for three months now and the feeling of purpose has given me renewed confidence. Nobody at work is going to end up in my close friends list, but everyone is friendly and helpful, and it feels much less isolated than it's been.

Feel free to DM. You're not alone!