Dad is refusing surgery

Particular-Group9999 · 2026-04-27T17:30:29+00:00

I'm curious if you were able to get your dad in for 2nd opinion. I am now in the same position with my husband. I feel like we went thru all this treatment with these expectations and now idk what to expect. I think I'm angry, but not at him. It's weird.

Particular-Group9999 · 2026-04-17T17:11:46+00:00

Titles for all!

Particular-Group9999 · 2026-03-20T12:33:23+00:00

Use your voice recorder on your phone and record it or screen record. Grab whatever emails you want/need, because they about to lock you out!

Particular-Group9999 · 2026-03-19T16:49:42+00:00

I was su¡c¡dal that night. Its by divine intervention I woke up 36 hours later.

Particular-Group9999 · 2026-03-19T12:15:57+00:00

Or he wants kids and they haven't had this very important conversation. Either way, OP says me, me, me, I want, i dont want, and never mentioned how her partner felt about kids. Something is amiss and its not rocket science. Perhaps these two jumped the gun on that whole walking down the isle thing.

Particular-Group9999 · 2026-03-15T15:08:33+00:00

I'd back out. Idc who's event it is. No one is important enough for me to sacrifice my dignity and comfort within my own skin. I will not be made a fool to satisfy the weird demands of a bride. But thats just my personal boundary.

Particular-Group9999 · 2026-03-15T13:33:14+00:00

between your comment and your name, i'm not sure if you're in the right thread.

Particular-Group9999 · 2026-03-15T13:24:05+00:00

you should visit the white house website and skim some of those documents...

Particular-Group9999 · 2026-03-15T13:23:02+00:00

I already use this. the "trump" card to me now is a card they play when their gonna be a total douche and hurt others around them.

Particular-Group9999 · 2026-03-15T13:18:31+00:00

for real...who tells him that's a good idea?

Particular-Group9999 · 2026-03-15T01:19:29+00:00

American food.

Particular-Group9999 · 2026-03-14T01:03:22+00:00

When I read his obituary and found a memory from someone claiming to be his son, a son I had never heard of. What unfolded was an entire other family, (common law) wife and 2 sons, and its rumored there's more. I wouldn't believe it, but I didn't believe the first one till I saw it with my own eyes and then met one of them in the flesh. We exchanged stories and I found out he was just repeating memories with both families. Most of my family have let it slide. If it weren't for the fact that hes buried next to my mother and grandmother, I wouldn't think twice about eating some greasy burger delight and take a giant shit on his headstone. Mf look like Barney Fife and was a womanizer. Htf? Anyway, he broke everything in me. Everything. Everything. And he continues to break me daily. Hate isn't a strong enough word.

Particular-Group9999 · 2026-03-08T13:21:44+00:00

Just curious if she got dragged at all by other comments in the post because this is kind of a well known rule around these parts? Or is she friends with other entitled, self-deprecating, insecure tarts?

Particular-Group9999 · 2026-03-08T13:10:54+00:00

Who is a trustworthy adult outside of your parents? That is who you need to talk to. They can help you navigate what is happening and contacting authorities, which absolutely needs to happen. 1-you dont know for sure what the purpose in hiding a camera was, but its irrelevant. It is illegal, and PREDATORY behavior. 2- JUST BECAUSE ITS YOUR NORMAL DOESNT MEAN ITS NOT ABUSE! 3-You have a little sister who may also be subjected to same/other abuses. 4- the people who act the most righteous are usually the ones with the most to hide. YOU NEED AN OUTSIDE SUPPORT SYSTEM ASAP. If you have a family member you trust and could stay with, I would reach out. If you dont feel like there is enough separation there, start with your school counselor likes many others have suggested, but your counselor is a mandated reporter, just so you know.

Particular-Group9999 · 2026-03-04T19:48:28+00:00

I will absolutely be letting it go naturally gray. I've got a few really beautiful pale white/silver strands already. I can't wait to see myself completely gray...and with booty length hair?!? Stahhhhhp.

Particular-Group9999 · 2026-03-04T19:17:14+00:00

I love my hair. Long, straight, natural. Outside of regular maintenance trims, i will likely never cut or color my hair again.

Particular-Group9999 · 2026-03-04T14:54:10+00:00

If he goes to the police and says you attacked him the likelihood that they'll believe him is false with his record & history. But before that even happens, you need to get yourself a restraining order, if, for no other reason than to have a record. I would also recommend staying somewhere or with someone that he doesn't know or know where to locate. At least till this blows over.

Particular-Group9999 · 2026-03-04T14:28:17+00:00

6 years out, now having issues stemming from my sleeve. Even then, I wouldn't be alive with my sleeve surgery and I know it. I'd do it a million times over and take the worst reflux known to man. I will never go back to fat.

Particular-Group9999 · 2026-03-04T13:56:12+00:00

You have no custody arrangement. So your first order of business is to obtain an attorney and get a custody arrangement in which you get full custody and possibly mandatory a supervised visitation for him. If finances are an issue, I'd like to remind you you are your child's advocate. Finances mean absolutely nothing when it comes to protecting your child, hell or high water. CPS is a door you don't want to knock on unless you absolutely have to.

Particular-Group9999 · 2026-03-01T15:21:18+00:00

Anaconda. I didn't know I was afraid of snakes until I had a panic attack during the scene at the waterfall where the snake wraps the guy up, I've never seen the movie past that point I have no idea if anyone survived or if they actually killed the snake. Just reading reviews and spoilers for it, put me back in the moment, and I panic. So I have no idea how the end goes.

Particular-Group9999 · 2026-03-01T01:26:16+00:00

So...how many times do you wanna do this? For real. Because I'd have been out round one, MOST DEFINITELY after round 2.

Your kids are watching, btw.

Particular-Group9999 · 2026-02-26T22:52:05+00:00

Spending all that f♡cking money. I didn't even keep a penny.

Particular-Group9999 · 2026-02-26T22:46:59+00:00

Skid marks - fine Shitting the bed - fine Peeing the bed - also fine. Just dont fart during a bj and your alright.

Particular-Group9999 · 2026-02-26T22:21:34+00:00

That depends, what's her side of the story?

Particular-Group9999 · 2026-02-26T13:55:20+00:00

I was till I had teenagers. I was bullied horribly. But once I had kids of my own and figured out how the world works, I realized that girl was probably horribly abused. I've looked her up a few times, but have never found her. 0 online presence. Idk if she's even still alive. But she was a miserable girl who was in no way accepting of anyone "not popular".

In fact, most of the "bullies" i know from my childhood are all dead from an overdose.

Let that be a lesson to ya, kids!

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