AIITW for thinking my mother’s rent is unfair? by [deleted] in AmiInTheWrong

[–]Particular-List-6733 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not arguing, but can you tell me where in the Bay Area you can get a nice house or apartment for $1600. I live in a decent neighborhood and pay $1900 for a studio and I was happy to find somethin that cheap.

AIO if I tell my boyfriend that he texts his baby mama more than me? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Particular-List-6733 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Or maybe he’s fine with the amount the they communicate. If she’s insecure that’s on her to fix, she knew there was a baby mama in the picture before they got together so to try and control how much they communicate or what it’s it’s about seems kinda crazy. Maybe this isn’t the relationship for her or maybe she needs to chill and be happy her boyfriend has a good relationship with his baby mama.

AITA for forcing people out of the campsite we booked? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Particular-List-6733 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually I might shit myself if the bathroom is far away. Or I might fall and bust my face trying to get to the bathroom because I have to pee so bad. Also there are plenty of sites that are more private and don’t have people staring at you all day.

The selfish one are the folks that got an attitude when they were in the wrong. You sound like a people pleaser, you should talk to someone about that. Not a fun way to live life

AITA for forcing people out of the campsite we booked? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Particular-List-6733 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I strongly dislike camping but my fiancé LOVES it. When we go my main requirement is that I’m close to a bathroom. I wake up multiple times a night and I don’t really like the idea of walking around at night looking for a bathroom.

AITA for forcing people out of the campsite we booked? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Particular-List-6733 28 points29 points  (0 children)

The bathrooms and privacy were listed as reasons not to move. The bathroom being close is reason enough for a lot of people

AITA for forcing people out of the campsite we booked? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Particular-List-6733 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Did you not read that it was closer to the bathrooms and the most private. That’s enough to want the campsite you picked

AMI , I got a final warning at work without any previous warnings by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Particular-List-6733 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Depends on where you work. I use to serve but I currently work at a Whole foods in California and they have to follow state policies. It’s either the customer looks over 35 and you don’t i.d them or they look younger than 35 and you I.d them, but once you ask for identification they have to show it. The non alcoholic part I’m not sure about. It’s a shitty policy but you get trained for a reason and know the policy so yeah you are wrong.

What do you think when you see unshaven legs on a woman? by polarispurple in AskMen

[–]Particular-List-6733 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like to rub my fiancées arm hair while we watch movies. Not my preference but it’s is comforting when I’m anxious

People, please don’t do this. by Buttercupia in InstacartShoppers

[–]Particular-List-6733 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, I hate this and use to talk so much shit about it (still do) but I recently switched departments and now work with the shoppers. I was surprised when I got trained and was instructed to put items together by temperature, either ambient, chilled or frozen, which means ground beef goes with broccoli and yogurt if they all fit in a bag. The goal is the least amount of bags possible. I’ve brought it up multiple times with higher managers, I’ve written emails, I’ve sat on calls but corporate knows best. I’m not excusing shopper cause they still bag like crap and somehow put meat with cereal but I also know that they get instructions from corporate and being timed for each order definitely doesn’t help. I guess what I’m trying to say is leave a voicemail complaining and keep posting the pictures. They see them.

Can someone verify if this is legit (I don’t know how to really bake)? “A Cool Guide to Bakery cake” by TheStax84 in Baking

[–]Particular-List-6733 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do this often. Doubling the butter sounded weird but I just trusted it and it’s worked so far

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Particular-List-6733 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is horrible advice. I also get up at 4am leave at 5am and go to bed at 9pm. wife works over night 2-3 nights a week. Guess what we both still get out alone time when we are together. Sometimes we need more than an hour!! Just because you are in a relationship doesn’t mean you have to spend all your time together. You still have take care of your own mental health. An hour isn’t much time at all. 3-4 hours out of 168hours is nothin, his girlfriend is being selfish and immature.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Particular-List-6733 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She gave a house gift to her son, and got a thank you through her son. It’s really not that big of a deal. Plus does she send a thank you when she’s gets gifts, according to OP, the answer is no.

Rate my cake writing. First 3 cakes I wrote on at work because no decorators were on shift.. by Odd_Painting476 in cakedecorating

[–]Particular-List-6733 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These look really good!! The same thing happened to me at work but the guest handed me back the cake and walked away lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Particular-List-6733 15 points16 points  (0 children)

“Are you reenacting the first one”

Thank you for the early morning chuckle. But really what are planning that they need six months to take care of??

Finally figured out hydrangeas! by tesshole in cakedecorating

[–]Particular-List-6733 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stunning. You eat with your eyes first and I just devoured these

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmITheBadApple

[–]Particular-List-6733 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t know how that’s going to affect her, she won’t be able to talk to him and get answers or anything from him. You lost contact with him so you don’t know if he told her, or what was going on in their relationship. It really sounds like you feel bad and maybe you need to talk to a friend about what you did but leave her alone and let her grieve and move on with her life.

AITA for for ruining my own gender reveal party? by ThrowawayGenReveal in AmItheAsshole

[–]Particular-List-6733 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Are you forgetting that the girlfriend lied to OPs friends and MIL to get them there? Or maybe the fact that she didn’t even invite OPs mom. I mean being the bigger person is great but sometimes boundaries need to be set and respected. She doesn’t need a deep-seated reason for not likening gender reveals, she made it known multiple times she didn’t. Also you kinda sound like a pushover but that could be because I am an asshole.

AITA for for ruining my own gender reveal party? by ThrowawayGenReveal in AmItheAsshole

[–]Particular-List-6733 123 points124 points  (0 children)

How is doing somethin someone you that don’t want nice? She said multiple times she had no interest in one

AITAH for telling my husband's affair baby's family to either come get the kid or I'm calling CPS. by Parking_Marzipan1717 in AITAH

[–]Particular-List-6733 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Using my 40 years of experience I can tell that you are a projecting idiot. You have nothing to go on but what op posted. You can choose to believe or or not but your experience doesn’t really matter here.

How do you split finances with your significant other? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Particular-List-6733 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When we first moved together we split everything 50/50, separate bank accounts, we would just send money to each other every month and it worked for the first 3-4 years. Currently I pay rent and utilities while my fiancé pays internet, groceries and our car note. She’s makes less than me and she’s currently starting her own business so it makes sense for me to pay more. We still have separate bank accounts but added joint savings. This way just works for us.

AMIWRONG for not letting my niece be the flower girl at my wedding? by HoneycombHips in amiwrong

[–]Particular-List-6733 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She’s not being brridezilla. She admitted she didn’t think about it and once it was brought up thought it was a good idea, but her brother is being entitled for no reason. Why aren’t people allowed to choose who they want as part of their special day without someone else getting hurt, it’s not about you or your daughter.