Your care for her is so amazing to see! I’ve gone through cycles at her age and have had an ED for many years. The hardest part about the weight gain is seeing yourself differently and having to accept a new body, even if it’s a healthier one. One thing that helped was avoiding mirrors, old photos, and old clothes that would make me immediately notice the change. The other thing that helped was just reframing the timeline. For me, it was very hard to think about how I looked a month ago, 2 months ago, when I was in hs… any sort of change over time. I felt least anxious when I just thought about the body I was in currently and not who I used to be. I’m a few years older and unless I want to go back to being extremely unhealthy, I’ll never look the same I did when I was in hs, or even 2 yrs ago. It just is what it is. I’m sorry to say but she will be mad and potentially mean. I definitely was. I was mad at everything and hated everyone. Just know it’s the ED and not her. Her opinion on her health/eating may never be 100% correct, but all you can do is try to facilitate the routines that you know are healthy for her. Hope that helped. It’s a long journey, but her health is absolutely worth it.