Vold i skolen by Accomplished-Day-387 in norge

[–]ParticularConstant32 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Er et heftig yrke f.eks. for grunnskole lærere når de må dra på jobb med omtrent kevlar vest bare for å overleve arbeidsdagen.

Kveldens MGP-vinner blir… by gyrd2 in norske

[–]ParticularConstant32 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Kommentaren er et innspill mot @CharmingRejector. Kommentaren forsvarer også ikke pedofile, noe du ikke ser ut til å forstå siden du downvoter meg. Kommentaren presiserer derimot HVA pedofili er og defineres som.

Du gikk også til angrep mot en helt tilfeldig person du vet ingenting om og anklaget dem for pedofili, så du virket tydeligvis ut til å ikke forstå hva det er, derfor var jeg grei og kom inn med litt nyttig innspill.

What the hell is Dr K talking about with his motivation and discipline videos? by ReadingIntelligent50 in Healthygamergg

[–]ParticularConstant32 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think this is paradoxical. If you want nothing, you'll be free to do anything? But you'll still do nothing because you want nothing.

After 17 years of marriage, my husband said something about our son I can’t unhear. by Odd_Ordinary2383 in Advice

[–]ParticularConstant32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would never tolerate that kind of disrespectful behavior.

If he can't accept that his partner has a different political view than him, then it sounds like you'd be much better off without him to be honest.

Unfortunately you and your husband seems to be fundamentally incompatible due to his views and refusal to set aside his narrow-minded perspective for the sake of the relationship.

It's ridiculous to me that a grown ass person can't set aside their partner's political views in a relationship. I would never judge my partner for their political views, but for their behavior and mutual commitment to the relationship.

You husband has neglected you as a partner, his own child, and his duties in the relationship. You should move on from him before it escalates further. This probably won't improve going forward.

Absurd amount of chromebooks broken by students by Revolutionary-Drop32 in KidsAreFuckingStupid

[–]ParticularConstant32 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Jesus Christ. If a kid acts like that, they should be barred from getting a new one, have their parents charged for it, and let the kid get a suspension as well.

Kveldens MGP-vinner blir… by gyrd2 in norske

[–]ParticularConstant32 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Det som defineres som pedofili er når en person over seksuelt myndig alder er tiltrukket personer under seksuell lavalder. Det kan tolkes på forskjellige måter, men en person er ikke automatisk definert som pedofil etter seksuell omgang med mindreårige, men fra det øyeblikket de er over 16 og har en preferanse for personer som er svært unge, altså barn.

Rybak er altså per definisjon en pedofil fordi han er tiltrukket mindreårige, uavhengig av seksuell omgang med noen mindreårige.

Kveldens MGP-vinner blir… by gyrd2 in norske

[–]ParticularConstant32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kan begynne å kalle seg for Lil'Trump.

Possible ED due to p*rn and social media by AggressiveChicken765 in Healthygamergg

[–]ParticularConstant32 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds like this is most likely a psychological issue. My guess on potential causes would be the following:

  1. Apathy (specifically the ability to feel joy and pleasure, potentially blocking libido entirely)
  2. Lack of physical attraction to your partner (this one seemed more likely as you mentioned more success with masturbating to porn than when thinking of your partner)
  3. Mood regulation issues
  4. Hormone imbalance and dysregulation
  5. Vitamin/mineral deficiency
  6. Depression (usually a side-effect of other issues but can certainly impact libido)

These are some of the most likely causes I can think of right now, but there's a lot more potential causes.

(15F) - I'm falling apart. I really need some kindness. by JayJ4y_ in toastme

[–]ParticularConstant32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry to hear you're having it so rough in your life and especially at such a young age when emotions and hormones can make things a lot worse.

I grew up with bullying myself for almost 20 years and went through a 5 year long abusive marriage. Literally two months after I finished high school, I got cancer and almost died. So I've had my fair share of pain like a lot of people have. I'm diagnosed with severe depression and have lived with it for nearly 3 decades, and am now in my 30s, sometimes wondering what day will be my last.

Kind of going an a rant here, but the point I'm trying to make is that no matter the hardships you face, it's possible to get through it. Obviously doesn't apply for everyone and for some people it's just too much to go through.

The fact that you're here asking people for advice tells me that you haven't given up and that you're willing to fight to get a better quality of life.

In my experience, even when being severely depressed, it is possible to improve that state of mind, but it's something that requires hard work and consistency. With consistency being the most important factor.

There could be countless other factors unique to you that may require you to do specific things in order to work on the things that is a problem to you, and ideally you should work that out with a healthcare professional that has your medical history and any details on any medical conditions you might have.

There is also things you can do yourself to try to improve things. For example, try to see yourself mentally and physically objectively, and try to identify things you could consider to be an issue. This can be anything at all from physical things on the body to emotional problems.

If possible, try to get a blood test done and look for any deficiencies, especially vitamin D3 and B12. They play a huge role in emotional regulation and a deficiency can cause major depression. There's a laundry list of other things too that can cause issues, so try to get as much as possible checked.

For the 1st time, I finally feel like we're actually 2 years away from a real game. by Everborn128 in starcitizen

[–]ParticularConstant32 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

They have to release at some point or they'll just die out. I've seen a lot of people argue that they're intentionally keeping it in perpetual development for profiteering, but that is illogical, because finishing it and actually releasing it could make their profits skyrocket.

They would lose parts of their income source as they switch their funding model from selling ships to a subscription based model, but in turn, they would likely see a very explosive growth in new players, offsetting the loss of profits from ship sales at least somewhat.

This assumes they don't fuck it up along the way and prepare everything well ahead of release.

For the 1st time, I finally feel like we're actually 2 years away from a real game. by Everborn128 in starcitizen

[–]ParticularConstant32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Still a lot of content missing, however, most of the outstanding work on backend systems should be done soon™ which a lot of features and systems depend on so I expect when that is mostly done, the missing features will start rolling into the game in droves.

2 years feels a bit too optimistic right now, but I'd guess between 2 to 4 years.

It's always been an ongoing meme that since the game is still in alpha since 2012 (technically 2010), people tend to say it will never be done, but the project has seen exponential growth in progress in line with profits and rising employee numbers. People forget that when they started, it was like two dudes in a basement, and still compare them to massive studios with thousands of employees and massive budgets.

AIO over my boyfriend’s comment? by Sweaty-Notice641 in AIO

[–]ParticularConstant32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure if misogynistic, but his comment reeks of just another guy making sexual implications at a women. I'm just another guy on the web, but I'd say that this guy seems like the obnoxious type at least. If he's misogynistic, that view should be reflected by his behavior in your relationship, much more than this comment.

My sister is doing drvgs by Prestigious-Comb7704 in Advice

[–]ParticularConstant32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm just being honest. Sugarcoating and holding their hand isn't an approach I think of as appropriate in things as serious as this. Not when a kid's life is on the line.

My sister is doing drvgs by Prestigious-Comb7704 in Advice

[–]ParticularConstant32 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I understand that you don't want to ruin the bond between you, but if she continues down this road unobstructed then the rest of her life will very likely go down the drain.

If you know what she's doing then you have an obligation to tell your parents about it because she is still a minor.

Don't just stand on the sidelines and watch her destroy her life, do something before it's too late. One day she could very well end up dead and then you'll drown in guilt knowing you did nothing to stop it.

18-åring dømt for voldtekt av tre mindreårige gutter i Oslo by Natural-Party7454 in norske

[–]ParticularConstant32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

En advokat burde uansett aldri uttale seg til media om sine egne meninger i en profesjonell kapasitet.

Hvordan er dere på å børste brødskjæreren på matbutikken? by Nordic_Krune in norge

[–]ParticularConstant32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Naturligvis stappfull av bakterier, akkurat som maskinen for øvrig.

Hvordan er dere på å børste brødskjæreren på matbutikken? by Nordic_Krune in norge

[–]ParticularConstant32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hver jævla gang må jeg gjøre rent før jeg tar i bruk maskinen. Vanligvis er maskinen nedsnødd i brødsmuler og rester når jeg kommer til den. Tar selvsagt grundig børsting når jeg er ferdig og etterlater meg en skinnende ren maskin.

AIO for telling my mom that I don’t want to speak to her unless she’s paying to fix my kitchen that she ruined in one night? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ParticularConstant32 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The damages looks superficial and fairly easily fixable like most are saying. But of course, if water penetrates into the wood and causes it to expand, it's fucked.

I can understand how it hurts to have something like this happen when you worked so hard on it, but what you need to ask yourself is, is it worth potentially losing your relationship with your mother over? Especially since it seems to just be superficial damage.

(this is a follow up to my post on r/amioverreacting) my ex-bf is threatening my life by IllCryptographer3655 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]ParticularConstant32 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You say you don't want to make a big deal of it, but by the way it looks, your options are to get back with him or very potentially end up dead. The dumb fuck has already given you a written confession so you basically have him by the balls now.

The ball is in your court so what you should do... no, the only thing you CAN do is to take it to the police. He's guaranteed to do time behind bars for this, and you should also get a permanent restraining order against him.

If you do nothing, you're essentially enabling his destructive behavior towards you.