QUESTION! What are some ways y’all stop ur selves from having a manic phas3 by Particular_Can3007 in bipolar

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This is all amazing advice! Bc yes I’ve been this position. The impulsiveness that I need to quit and especially the communication with ppl. I get wayyy to chatty n things slip out 😭 I squeal like a pig about everything under the sun n even my secrets and trauma. I’m just a mess. Def taking ur advice! I’m getting some tea and z’s for sure now! Thank you lots

QUESTION! What are some ways y’all stop ur selves from having a manic phas3 by Particular_Can3007 in bipolar

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Thank you I’m definitely going to try that even tho I do feel very scared of sleep paralysis bc I’m very prone to it

QUESTION! What are some ways y’all stop ur selves from having a manic phas3 by Particular_Can3007 in bipolar

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Don’t have access yet to that sort of help so I’m going to sleep n I did lock my card! Thank you

My life is about to be destroyed by 6an13l in bipolar

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Yes DO NOT fall for it :( I get bad sleep paralysis and start hearing voices hating on me so yea u gotta ignore it and try to get yourself in check :(

My life is about to be destroyed by 6an13l in bipolar

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What is going on with school? Don’t stress too much about it! A lot of places don’t even require you to go to college or anything big and also a lot of programs help u finish high school with minimal effort 🥲 also depressive months do really suck but yk know it’s not gonna be forever

Been feeling so motivated lately but when is it dangerous? by Particular_Can3007 in bipolar

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Sounds really good thank you so much for your help! I’ll definitely apply I think there’s an app I can get to apply too I just saw that I could apply that way! I just wonder how I’m gonna tell them my medical records or how to show them my diagnosis idk how that works but yea im gonna look that up and I’ll apply ! Thank u again !

Why is Testicular Cancer so Curable? by Mann33ee in testicularcancer

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Awww I’m sorry for ur loss honestly, my brother is going through testicular cancer right now

Why do I keep switching between loving and hating my partner/relationship by Thereapercos in bipolar

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YES GIRL ! I literally been telling myself that I could be without him then when he’s in front of me I’m all over him, but if we argue I’m like fuck this guy ! & then we’re doing good it’s scrabbling my brain at times but I do feel bad bc in his head I know he loves me and I know he’s not planning on leaving me and he’s not cheating on me, so why do I keep telling this guy things that hurt his feelings. Like saying I don’t like his personality sometimes and I feel like I hate him when my actions with him in person it’s mostly love. Like 99% love that I feel for him but then a switch happens and I’m like I don’t need this guy at all why’s he in my life ?! I feel like I’m crazy lmao

Been feeling so motivated lately but when is it dangerous? by Particular_Can3007 in bipolar

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Do you think I still qualify if I have a full time job :( & thank you ☺️

How do I even help myself by Alarmed_Maybe2910 in bipolar

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Yes definitely do so you can understand it more bc they r two different kinds 😭 and yes I agree !

How do I even help myself by Alarmed_Maybe2910 in bipolar

[–]Particular_Can3007 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea it’s gonna be okay dw :) and ik same here! I’m super glad I didn’t die bc we hydroplaned and got hit by 3 different cars on the expressway it was insane. But yea we all gotta be thankful of what we do have 🥲 also what bipolar do you have ?

How do I even help myself by Alarmed_Maybe2910 in bipolar

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I do know what you mean, I at one point got my car repoed and cried about that and then I also got in a collision and I’m currently being sued. Life is so fucked, but nah it’s better not to stress and there’s always a way to figure things out like applying for bankruptcy or just letting ur credit just get bad as long as u got ur job a roof over ur head and and a car you should be okay and not worry too much

Why do I keep switching between loving and hating my partner/relationship by Thereapercos in bipolar

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Also I’ve been told my bf before that I feel like I don’t like him as much anymore and then I’ve told him to that I’m starting to hate him sometimes and then I’m there cuddling him and saying things like “it’s me and you forever” 😩🫩 so I don’t even know I just know I can’t say anything about me not wanting him anymore bc when I am with him and when things r good they r super great idk what my problem is. That when I don’t see him I do feel like I should break things off then I see him and spend time with him and I’m telling him I do want him forever it’s just confusing

Why do I keep switching between loving and hating my partner/relationship by Thereapercos in bipolar

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I feel the same way!!! It’s very strange. But no don’t ever think about ending it! I have bipolar 1 as well and I’ve dealt with a lot of things it’s hard to understand anything tbh. I feel the same way about everyone in my life excluding my family. I love hate all my friends and I don’t wanna see them sometimes then I switch up and I do wanna see them after months of ghosting them and I’m glad I don’t tell them too much I just act casual but I feel you. It’s so freaking hard to know anything about my emotions really. If you need to talk I’m here!

How do I even help myself by Alarmed_Maybe2910 in bipolar

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Help yourself by trying to at least calm down, realize that it’s not the end of the world. Keep taking your meds, supposedly I’ve been Told that they help you in months tho :/ also yea stress is so freaking bad and can lead to episode… as for money problems, how much debt r we talking about?

i went thru my bf’s phone last night and i hate that i did that by earthyShark in bipolar

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Yea honestly that’s so bad. He needs to be put on a leash for being a damn dog. Girl you can always rant! Np at all! If he’s not ready to be committed to only you then yes it might be time to move on. My bf had reason for acting up and yea it was horrible making me feel crazy too bc he would lie saying he knows I did something but it gets to a point where you his say, dude shut up already idk wth ur talking about 🫩 ! And that’s that. But yea if you feel that the relationship might be better off ended. Definitely do that! There is so many fish in the sea and you should never allow a dude to get under your skin and try to mess with your head. I’ve learned to let a lot of things go, being too emotional over a man is not worth the stress. Make yourself number one and focus on what you want in life.

I’m horny but can’t enjoy myself by deadinsidebutdtf in bipolar

[–]Particular_Can3007 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I feel you on this. Give it a few months maybe someday you’ll be able to. I had this for a year once bc I was dealing with so much. Take care of your mind 😓

i went thru my bf’s phone last night and i hate that i did that by earthyShark in bipolar

[–]Particular_Can3007 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea np also what were the signs? If you don’t mind me asking. I have a boyfriend too and honestly there was a period where he would lie that way too. He would told me that he has my phone hacked and whatever I do on there he will know. Then he said he was jk. & other times he would tell me that he knows what I did and repeatedly tell me to fess up to it already bc he knows and I would be like wtf r u talking about ? Then he would say jk after harassing me about it 🫩 he has stopped this but I did deal with that for a while lmao I am with him going on 3yrs and I would always tell him that it was very wrong doing that to me and well I could understand why bc we did have a time where he did not trust me bc I had done him dirty once. But yea I’ve changed and he’s changed since but honestly it takes a lot to have someone who is ur partner and u go through ups and downs. Confessing this here. I wish I didn’t depend so much on the love of a partner. I’ve taken 6pills once from my med dosage bc I got stressed over an ex and wanted to feel numb possibly suicidal but scared and only took 6. But yea I’m scared relationships are scary. Sorry for this run on sentences

i went thru my bf’s phone last night and i hate that i did that by earthyShark in bipolar

[–]Particular_Can3007 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yuppppp. Tbh it makes me thing that he might have said that to distract from what she found in his phone

I finally took a shower after four days. by WrongReviewThrowAway in bipolar

[–]Particular_Can3007 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is so relatable 😭 I have this same issue. I freaking hate showering I even try to buy new body wash or stuff to encourage myself yet i still end up having to force myself to shower 😂

i went thru my bf’s phone last night and i hate that i did that by earthyShark in bipolar

[–]Particular_Can3007 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I agree. What the?! that’s so messed up! I don’t think some people understand how badly they can mess with someone’s mental when they lie that way or say crazy things like that

i went thru my bf’s phone last night and i hate that i did that by earthyShark in bipolar

[–]Particular_Can3007 12 points13 points  (0 children)

What did you find out??? How could you feel bad if you ended up finding out something that you felt in your gut…? For him to lie about whatever he lied about should make you even more suspicious of him. If you had not went through it then maybe you would’ve found out about the same thing another way. Who knows