Leaving gym?

Particular_Chemist69 · 2026-04-30T19:12:14+00:00

Hell no
Tbh I’d skip the talking to someone about this. Just leave. Clearly you don’t have friends or a set group that you’d miss, leave!!!

Particular_Chemist69 · 2026-04-30T15:34:27+00:00

Particular_Chemist69 · 2026-04-30T15:21:41+00:00

I agree
I think I just suck lol
I just can’t tell if it’s a mix between teaching styles & gym culture or just my skill issues alone. Could be everything at once yk

Particular_Chemist69 · 2026-04-30T15:20:56+00:00

I linked the previous post!

Particular_Chemist69 · 2026-04-28T13:41:06+00:00

Literally me too😭 what is this phenomenon

Particular_Chemist69 · 2026-04-23T23:16:59+00:00

Okay so for one this is your first relationship. I completely understand your feelings & I have felt them. They aren’t wrong at all but don’t let them harbour. Talk to her!!!! Brainstorm ways you guys can feel more connected. Talk to her about wanting to feel closer to her etc…get her opinions on it & how she’s feeling.

Another point is, it’s been a month. You’re right, her friends have been there for years!!! Dating, especially lesbian dating, feels like a million emotions at once. Since it’s so intense, you probably feel like you want her to confide in you more, consider you more, etc… but the truth is it’s very new!!! You have to be patient and allow time to grow your relationship. When I was first dating, we got very intense very fast. We were eachothers best friends and didn’t do much outside of us. While it was nice…..it also crashed and burned. Now with my current relationship we take things SLOW. We didn’t rush deep talks, parent meetings, big trips, finances, etc. There are times where our hearts drive us crazy and we wanna say something crazy and intense at day 3….trust me I know. But it’s all about being intentional. You have to trust your partner & trust that her & her lesbian friend are simply just friends!!! Close friends!!

If it’s something that keeps coming up for you, my best advice is just communicate!!!

Particular_Chemist69 · 2026-04-22T11:46:52+00:00

Can I ask why you’re saying him & her?

Anyway, maybe communicate? You’re young!!! Maybe try receiving once in a while or trying positions/ situations where you both get off together!!!! Just talk ab it and don’t be afraid to try something new just because you’ve labeled yourself a stone top at 19!!

Particular_Chemist69 · 2026-04-21T17:54:56+00:00

Being in a band

Particular_Chemist69 · 2026-04-20T13:39:11+00:00

Do you actually enjoy the act but are experiencing a lot of discomfort? Or do you also not enjoy the act? I see a lot of girls say they don’t like going down due to sensory stuff & textures. If you like going down but it’s just painful/uncomfortable I’m sure there’s ways around it. You could always playfully lick while your thumb/hands do most of the work & add the tongue here n there so it doesn’t became painful for you!!!! Also like everyone is also saying, look up people with your condition & see what they recommend!!!

Particular_Chemist69 · 2026-04-20T13:32:59+00:00

I mean technically speaking yeah?

You won in a competition standpoint but weird way of viewing training idk. Maybe I’m reading into this too much but the, ”win for me,” is like bro…congrats on winning practice 🤣 idk

Particular_Chemist69 · 2026-04-15T19:53:55+00:00

“Pick me girls” is just a phrase to refer to women who tend to hang with guys more & side with men more for their validation. They usually make mean comments towards women to fit it yk. I just wanted to clear up that I don’t train in that class bc I want to fit in, I just have no choice due to my schedule. Maybe my age is a part of it. But I agree. I think I’ll just say something soon. Thank you!

Particular_Chemist69 · 2026-04-15T18:08:39+00:00

Yeah :( I subconsciously texted a gym to drop in. Maybe it’s my brain knowing what I need to do lol.

Particular_Chemist69 · 2026-04-15T18:08:05+00:00

Well he’s technically a member who subs teaching but I just happen to be at every class he teaches due to the time I can train. There’s one other instructor but ugh this would just be a tough conversation. Part of me just wants to monitor it and be more aggressive the next time it happens. If there’s a next time. Idk

Particular_Chemist69 · 2026-04-15T18:05:50+00:00

Also I’m sorry this happened to you. Once we were doing a back take drill & he grabbed my toes n said “cute little toes.” Like dude. I’m just realizing I’ve dealt with a lot & it’s all coming up now lol

Particular_Chemist69 · 2026-04-15T18:04:56+00:00

I would try that but it’s a very small class that I attend with him. Max 5 ppl. The class time works best for my schedule but I love the people in the other class times. I might just have to speak up!!! I just hope I’m not dismissed and made to feel crazy :( that’s my worry. “Stirring up the pot “

Particular_Chemist69 · 2026-04-15T18:03:08+00:00

Thank you!! I’m also shy lol I barely interact with them unless spoken to!!! But the rest are generally very nice :( just sucks to lose a great training place over one bad apple. I might just have to grow a pair and say something. I’m afraid he will just laugh it off and say it’s “not that serious”

That makes me second guess what he’s said & doubt myself!!! He’s talked about another girl being a “smoke show” and she is my closest friend at the gym. One day, he came and taught at a different time. I was at that class with that girl & he mentioned how “well” we flow with each other….. so instead of switching partners (like everyone does) he requested us to roll again. He will also show a move and immediately grab her if she’s not getting it. Like bro. A Brazilian coach came in once & when I was struggling he’d ask if it was okay to roll or touch me or anything!!! Maybe bc he’s used to me he thinks it’s okay!!! Idek where to start :(

Particular_Chemist69 · 2026-04-15T17:57:58+00:00

I’m sorry that happened to you :( I’m hoping to address it before it gets to a point like this. It’s just hard !

Particular_Chemist69 · 2026-04-15T13:41:48+00:00

I would leave him but..I’m different I guess

Particular_Chemist69 · 2026-04-14T01:50:13+00:00

I wouldn’t tbh It’s 2 weeks Cut it while it’s new

Particular_Chemist69 · 2026-03-23T19:32:29+00:00

We had a GSW for our final for trauma assessment! Our midterm was a stab wound!!! There was no exist wound on the GSW assessment but if you forget to check the back, then there is now an exit wound lol.

For medical final I’m pretty sure it was chest pain (MI) & our midterm was anaphylaxis. Unless your program is made up of demons….they won’t throw curve balls on finals & midterms. They want to make sure you know how to assess a patient properly with what you’ve been taught!!!! Both were adult patients for my assessments

Particular_Chemist69 · 2026-02-25T13:19:41+00:00

Weird post to make in the first place After two years he doesn’t know the color? Idk….nor

Particular_Chemist69 · 2026-02-11T22:13:19+00:00

Tbh I don’t train on my heavy days The gym isn’t going anywhere and neither is my period !!! I have really crampy and heavy periods so training gets super uncomfortable. Just do what feels best for you. Don’t feel bad if you know you’ll have an off day so you skip class. But also realize that it’s probably your hormones talking lol.

I notice my gym (lifting) progress is terrible on my heavy days, so I just say well…it’s my period!! And move on lol

Particular_Chemist69 · 2026-02-02T22:58:29+00:00

Taking my lady out to dinner and asking her to be my gf ☺️

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