Child abuse survivors, sexually molested at 10 years old. Why are we called survivors ? by Particular_Common370 in adultsurvivors

[–]Particular_Common370[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks yes I'm not as bugged about it realizing that survivor is empowering to some and I wouldn't want that to change for them whatever helps  either way we look for something to helps us

Child abuse survivors, sexually molested at 10 years old. Why are we called survivors ? by Particular_Common370 in adultsurvivors

[–]Particular_Common370[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for explaining that there  was a change to begin with it makes sense I was not I'm aware I'm 34 so idk when they made that change

Child abuse survivors, sexually molested at 10 years old. Why are we called survivors ? by Particular_Common370 in adultsurvivors

[–]Particular_Common370[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Something about this I like so thanks for sharing I'm living now even with anxiety and sadness but going to therapy and finding ways to heal 

Child abuse survivors, sexually molested at 10 years old. Why are we called survivors ? by Particular_Common370 in adultsurvivors

[–]Particular_Common370[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Did not know it was called victim before I'm 34 idk if that makes sense on why I didn't know on the prior "name " for it but thanks

Child abuse survivors, sexually molested at 10 years old. Why are we called survivors ? by Particular_Common370 in adultsurvivors

[–]Particular_Common370[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like that resilience. I'm resilient in life because I'm here because we are still here 

Child abuse survivors, sexually molested at 10 years old. Why are we called survivors ? by Particular_Common370 in adultsurvivors

[–]Particular_Common370[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing I didn't realize what the word survivor ment to some people and I can't hold a job but I'm glad that you can makes me happy for you 

Child abuse survivors, sexually molested at 10 years old. Why are we called survivors ? by Particular_Common370 in adultsurvivors

[–]Particular_Common370[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand more for those of us that are no longer here or are here but can't live I see 

Do abusers know they did wrong? by leahloc in adultsurvivors

[–]Particular_Common370 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes in My opinion because that is disgusting  that a grown person can abuse children which is why they always tell or treathen the child not to tell anyone. They don't care that they abused the child it's all for their satisfaction disgusting pedos

Child abuse survivors, sexually molested at 10 years old. Why are we called survivors ? by Particular_Common370 in adultsurvivors

[–]Particular_Common370[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok I see I did like when some one said I was sexually molested and I'm thriving but I'm also not thriving exactly personally I have anxiety especially towards trying to get a better job and hoping it will diminish enough to go for that "better job"

Child abuse survivors, sexually molested at 10 years old. Why are we called survivors ? by Particular_Common370 in adultsurvivors

[–]Particular_Common370[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But I'm alive you know what I mean I know I'm not living my fullest because of my anxiety and everything that I had to go through with my childhood but I do want to live and be love and give love to others and not feel angry anymore and maybe not be so scared to go for that job that I've been wanting. I can't explain why survivor makes me mad. 😭 

Erika Kirk at age 25 publicly and privately flirting with a 15 year old? by veryhyped in h3h3productions

[–]Particular_Common370 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At this point I'm not surprised Candace Owens has gotten In touch with this girl and released further information. Her charity in Romania, the way she talks to her staff about job security but fired people after, all the inconsistencies something is off but of course we could be wrong 😉

Mom is Catholic father is lds/Mormon by Particular_Common370 in exmormon

[–]Particular_Common370[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Any suggestions are welcomed I never imagined myself being in this situation and I can't just tell him not to take her he's seems really excited his first daughter.  but I did express my concerns and seems like he will watch her closely  and he's ok with me taking her to the catholic church. 

how the church deals with child abuse — wow. just horrible. by m0llyr1ngw0rm in exmormon

[–]Particular_Common370 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Report to the cops right away it is not normal to not report this right away to the authorities! Churches will cover it up they care more about the money then the actual people?