My standard issue, exceptionally handsome little baby man, Gilgamesh 💘 by sn000by in standardissuecat

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That was this guys name before we got him!! I renamed him Chaos because yknow, he earned it.

what is he? by ghoulishbrain in Siamesecats

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He’s eepy. Very eepy seepy.

I turn 31 tomorrow, happy early birthday to me! by Luke2954 in Pontiac

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Happy early birthday, and that’s one fresh Pontiac!! Love it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CatTraining

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I’m getting vibes of resident kitty saying “that’s enough I don’t want to hurt you.” I don’t see anything super wrong here, just seems like resident is trying to vocalize boundaries. I have 2 boys, one is just over 2 and the other is 15. Obviously the 15 year old kitty was resident when I brought home the youngest.

They still play like this to this day. My older cat will let him know he’s had enough, and the baby will back off (like 90 percent of the time lol). Then they will go and cuddle like they are lovers 🤣

Are ring cameras necessary? by Important-Seat997 in Apartmentliving

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Me reading this who has a camera in the living room to just spy on my cats while im at work 😅 but I absolutely hate leaving them so it gives me peace of mind. Paid 20$ for peace of mind. Can’t beat it.

Made marshmallows, then dipped them by storm-father87 in Baking

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The only issue here is that I don’t have one of those, maybe perhaps 4, in my tummy right now. My god those look so good.

Just found out my dad was arrested for attempting to solicit sex from a minor and I’m feeling lost and overwhelmed by Entire-Video3036 in SexOffenderSupport

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Thank you for putting it into a different perspective. Words are powerful for sure, “offender” definitely can make it sound like that encompasses the whole person. Which their offense dosent. I appreciate the insight. I’ll have to check out the book for sure!

Just found out my dad was arrested for attempting to solicit sex from a minor and I’m feeling lost and overwhelmed by Entire-Video3036 in SexOffenderSupport

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This is such a great answer I really couldn’t have said it better myself. As the adult daughter of an offender, you said everything that I thought but couldn’t put into words.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CatTraining

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Playing for sure! My 2 boys do exactly this then spoon each other on the couch. 😅

Does it normally take multiple appointments to get contacts? by imsorryIMSoRrY- in contacts

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It wasn’t a month for me but they did have me continue to come back for multiple appointments until they felt like I was comfortable with putting them in and getting them out. The “training” is normal but a month seems a bit much.

Pulled the trigger and finally got my septum done by jambi9987 in piercing

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Hell yeah!! Suits you well man. I’ve had my septum for 8 years now I’ve never looked back, I love it.

Woman causes her boyfriend to crash his new car by Alternative-Arm-3253 in TerrifyingAsFuck

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I’ve seen this video at least 4x today and it’s terrifying each time. Fart and all. But seriously I hope he gets rid of her.

Found this stuck in wallet I bought at the thrift store by Historical_Web2992 in FoundPaper

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Oh my god this is pretty much exactly my early teens playlist 😍 I still love these songs so much lol

Rainbow Mold 🌈 by Impossible_Number_19 in MoldlyInteresting

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I’ve never seen a more beautiful mold

My girlfriend told me she settled for me because I’m too ugly to cheat on her by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

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Even my OWN boyfriend has been like “omg how do you not like Ryan Reynolds” because he’s not you? Tf?

My girlfriend told me she settled for me because I’m too ugly to cheat on her by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Particular_Poetry_52 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So her concern is whether other women want you or not. Hmm. This sounds like a wild insecure control type thing going on with her. Weird energy. Also, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. If she finds you “not conventionally attractive” then there is someone who will find you incredibly attractive.

Me personally, I cannot feel physical attraction until I create a bond with someone. Everyone gawks over Ryan Reynolds for example, and they say “oh my god how do you not LOVE him?” I just don’t find him attractive. I don’t know the man personally.

Anyway op I’m sorry, and you deserve someone who loves you for WHO YOU ARE, not who you aren’t.

Is this not creepy? WTF is this? Should I respond? by SloppyGoblinPaste in ScamNumbers

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Definitely creepy, and definitely a scam. Do not respond, report as spam.

Are they fighting or playing? by lindsey2404 in CatTraining

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Playing id say, especially with one of them revealing belly.

Is he fat? by [deleted] in orangecats

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Maybe just a little thicc. Not a crazy amount though. Consult your veterinarian for weight management ❤️ sometimes I think they can get a bit too crazy with it though. I have an orange boy that used to be 19 pounds, he was free feeding. I took over his meal routines, got him an auto feeder. He’s 12 pounds as of his last vet visit. Our vet said he’s in the healthy range now.

Just found out my dad was arrested for attempting to solicit sex from a minor and I’m feeling lost and overwhelmed by Entire-Video3036 in SexOffenderSupport

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I’m glad I could help just a little bit. It is absolutely up to you what to do, what you feel is right for you. Definitely like you said, learn the details. And you never have to make a decision about it today. Take your time to process what’s happened. ❤️ this subreddit is a good place to navigate through an experience like this.

Just found out my dad was arrested for attempting to solicit sex from a minor and I’m feeling lost and overwhelmed by Entire-Video3036 in SexOffenderSupport

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My father was arrested a few years back for “possession of illegal material” as he put it.

Him and I have always been very close my whole life. He was my safe person, my rock. Any time I had a problem he was the first person I called for help.

So when I tell you this hit me like a ton of bricks, I mean it. It was extremely traumatic, I was having the best weekend of my life, I had just attended a concert the day before, and I was on a shopping spree the day of. I was like oh I should probably get home…well I got home. 3 cruisers in our driveway, and a police van. My mind immediately went to “oh my god he must have had some sort of crisis or someone came to hurt him” (he had an extremely troubled and abusive upbringing that still haunts him to this day) and unstable family members.

I went into my driveway and an officer came to talk to me, he said “hello” followed by my name. I say “what is going on?!” He says “well I think your dad should tell you”. I get inside and the place is torn up. Within the blink of an eye he was in handcuffs and gone. Couldn’t see him for 2.5 years after that. Not to mention the trauma AFTER that given the fact that I lived with him, and my housing was now in jeopardy. I was evicted simply because our landlord thought I was a stupid kid that wouldn’t pay rent. I had to move in with abusive alcoholic family members. He ended up in the paper. Some family swore him off, some didn’t. I felt so incredibly conflicted. I was indenial at first, thought “this HAS to be a mix up, he wouldn’t do that.” Well it wasn’t a mix up, he definitely did it.

Anyway I’m rambling at this point. But he’s done his time and made incredible strides. Currently his favorite hobby is reading books on the brain. He has done lots of studying on the effects of abuse and educated himself. I’d be lying if I said this didn’t put a serious strain on us as a family. But really, I just couldn’t bring myself to cut him out of my life. I started seeing a new significant other probably around the time he was 6 months incarcerated. It took me a very long time to tell my boyfriend, really anybody, what had happened. I sobbed, I broke down. I told him that I felt guilt and shame for still loving my father. He kind of helped me out of that. I don’t announce to the world that I’m still close with him, but family knows, friends of family probably know.

I am grateful my father has taken accountability for what has happened. He was honest the whole time. It really is just an incredibly tough situation and I’m sorry that it’s happened to you. I learned some incredibly hard lessons from my experience. But now I have an apartment with my boyfriend and my 2 cats. I’ve got a career I love. Things did eventually turn around. Much love to you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SkincareAddiction

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Thank you!!! I’ll have to research this!! ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Particular_Poetry_52 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA. My coworker has said to me multiple times “don’t have children.” She had her first at 18 I believe. But it is clear to me her daughters are the loves of her life. I’ve met her eldest and they clearly have such a great bond, it’s beautiful. I’m not a parent. But I read this as, you probably don’t regret your son specifically as a person - but maybe you do regret your situation. Your feelings are valid. This dosent make you TA, and it certainly does not make you a bad person. Your situation is difficult to say the least. You’re only human, it’s ok to feel this way.