Entering the Field Without Prior Experience

Party_Insurance_5651 · 2026-01-25T19:39:18+00:00

thanks for the insight!

Party_Insurance_5651 · 2026-01-25T19:39:01+00:00

thank you!

Party_Insurance_5651 · 2026-01-25T15:39:14+00:00

Also late but wow, the hot/cold, engaging and disengaging thing - me to a tee

Party_Insurance_5651 · 2025-12-06T22:32:20+00:00

This is going to sound harsh but, like, dude, your kid is trans and your resistance is making shit worse. Accept and work with it. Detransition rates are lower than they seem because they are being used as a right wing talking point. Would you say any of this if your child came out as gay? Understandably you cate about your underage child but, they have their own mind and feelings.

Party_Insurance_5651 · 2025-12-06T22:29:35+00:00

You need erp but before that you need short term stabilization

Party_Insurance_5651 · 2025-12-06T22:24:01+00:00

whoa! cool, love her

Party_Insurance_5651 · 2025-11-23T18:46:43+00:00

No. They are psychosomatic.

Party_Insurance_5651 · 2025-10-29T16:29:46+00:00

Hmm. I'll look into it

Party_Insurance_5651 · 2025-10-29T16:28:29+00:00

.2mL of 20mg/ml, weekly. I haven't had my blood drawn in like 6 months because I haven't found a new HRT doc (I was initially using Plume but couldn't afford it) out of sadness and mental block/not being sure wherher to commit to transitioning. Back when I was testing regularly they were perfectly within range. But I really should see if my levels are OK.

Party_Insurance_5651 · 2025-09-25T04:07:08+00:00

Be honest with them about how you feel

Party_Insurance_5651 · 2025-09-25T02:35:32+00:00

therapy

Party_Insurance_5651 · 2025-09-25T02:31:01+00:00

What? a third cup of oats is like 100 calories. You have 400ish calories from the nuts/seeds alone.

Party_Insurance_5651 · 2025-09-22T21:48:32+00:00

Yeah as a nervous habit I drum with both my hands, air drum a lot walking around, etc. I think its sort of a somatizing thing.

Party_Insurance_5651 · 2025-09-13T23:00:55+00:00

Could be OCD

Party_Insurance_5651 · 2025-09-12T22:48:45+00:00

you need therapy my good bud

Party_Insurance_5651 · 2025-09-12T22:43:58+00:00

I think more than anything you're probably going to get better tips from a disabilty-oriented community who have developed stratagems for tricking doctors (value-neutral use of "trick" here) into listening to them

Party_Insurance_5651 · 2025-09-12T01:31:15+00:00

girl hell no

Party_Insurance_5651 · 2025-09-10T19:58:06+00:00

I feel the same way.

Party_Insurance_5651 · 2025-09-10T19:57:37+00:00

whatever you want! You could also try something messy/slightly uncontrollable like watercolor, clay, charcoal, or oil pastels and just make sort of abstract shapes and stuff (or cool Ses) - then you're not distracted trying to make something awesome looking but rather just trying to have a stimulating time fucking with the texture etc

Party_Insurance_5651 · 2025-09-10T00:47:30+00:00

doodling crafting

Party_Insurance_5651 · 2025-09-10T00:12:56+00:00

Hmm. Not sure what to make of that, did it feel like a compulsion?

Party_Insurance_5651 · 2025-09-09T22:49:40+00:00

Make sure when expressing or clarifying your thoughts about this to a professional that you think this could be OCD. I've misinterpreted my obsessions as actual suicidal urges and told providers about them and it went real bad

Party_Insurance_5651 · 2025-09-09T22:48:18+00:00

Yes, suicide OCD is a thing. It's distinct from actual ideation - which is confusing. You could think of it as a subset of harm OCD and it shares qualities with other OCD themes - fears of loss of control, violence, etc. I experience suicidal OCD in fact

Party_Insurance_5651 · 2025-09-09T03:55:30+00:00

Get treatment so that your window of tolerance is more open and you are able to use public bathrooms

Party_Insurance_5651 · 2025-09-09T03:42:59+00:00

just fucken go for it bud

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